Hi all,
Hubs and I went to our first RE appointment yesterday at UCSD Reproductive Partners. We really liked Dr. Friedman and the practice. Since I'm 35 and hubby is 40, we've been TTC for 2 years, she suggested that we go straight to IVF. I actually told her I prefer not to do IUI but want to go straight to IVF. The biggest issue is that I have a low ovarian reserve. Hubs has great volume but abnormally shaped and a little slow. I had an ultrasound and my uterus is normally shaped, no blockages or abnormal findings there. I have 5 follicles on the left and 2 on the right. Obviously, that is on the low side. Dr still thinks that we can stimulate my follicles by starting an IVF cycle.
She recommends doing IVF Low Stimulation Cycle MLEA which includes the banking cycle (stimulation) and a frozen embryo transfer. Reading the forums, a lot of people do fresh transfer. It's all very confusing and so I want to make sure I have the highest success. Here is the list of my meds:
Estrace
Ganirelix
Androderm Gel and patches
Menopur & clomid
Dexamethasone
Ganirelix injections
Saizen injections
Pregnyl/lupron injections
This place is not cheap. Total cost including everything except the genetic testing is going to be about $22k for one cycle and that is with the military discount. If we decide to do the ATTAIN program, for about $28k, we will get two tries. The decision is pretty much made, but we are going to look into applying for discount drugs and see what other scholarships are available.
I am happy to hear any suggestions/feedback!
Me: 37 / Hubs: 42
TTC: April 2013
DOR: AMH .3 - 1.31 (it varies); FSH: 5.1
Clinic NMCSD
IUI #1 July/Aug 2016
IVF #1 Sep/Oct Microdose Lupron Protocol - IVF cancelled only 1 follicle
IVF #2 Feb/Mar Antagonist protocol w/estrogen priming - 0 eggs retrieved (empty follicle syndrome)
Donor Egg Cycle as soon as we find a match
Re: IVF low stimulation cycle MLEA
I had my FSH and AMH done a year ago and the AMH was very low. I had the tests redone, but honestly, I did not ask Dr. Friedman what the numbers were. I just know the AMH was still indicating that I have a low ovarian reserve, that's the only issue with me, nothing else. Hubs has lots of semen it's just "lazy," which I laugh at because he is such a laid back dude, I teased him about his sperm having his same personality.
The genetic testing is the kicker, it would cost another $6k to do that on top of the $22k for one cycle.She told me 60% of couples do it. But, they usually do it for a few reasons, including age (over 40), family balancing, and if one parent is carrying a genetic disease. I really don't think we will do the PGS or PGD unless our genetic blood work (that costs $99) comes back with something.
There are two ATTAIN programs, which is also a little confusing. The first one is a 2+2 (2 IVF cycles, 2 frozen embryo cycles) for $19k, plus the cost of the meds $4-8k, embryo cryropreservation (varies), culturing, assisted hatching. There is also the enhanced ATTAIN for $20,800 and that includes the genetic biopsys.
I was thinking about a second opinion (Dr. Kettle at SD Fertility) but I knew going into this that UCSD was going to be one of the more expensive clinics in San Diego - it's the highest rated and has a very high success rate. I also like that I see my doctor and her nurse for every appt. At the other clinics in town, you meet the doctor once and at the retrieval/transfer, otherwise you see a technician or nurse. My hubby prefers having the personal relationship with the doctor.
TTC: April 2013
DOR: AMH .3 - 1.31 (it varies); FSH: 5.1
Clinic NMCSD
IUI #1 July/Aug 2016
IVF #1 Sep/Oct Microdose Lupron Protocol - IVF cancelled only 1 follicle
IVF #2 Feb/Mar Antagonist protocol w/estrogen priming - 0 eggs retrieved (empty follicle syndrome)
Donor Egg Cycle as soon as we find a match
If your employer's policy is from another state then they don't have to cover infertility at all. Even if you're a CA based employee. Federal employees are also excluded from the mandate as are some collective bargaining (Union) situations.
Ok - I've been through it all. You can ask me anything. I probably even know the codes to put on the forms. Ugh.
If we do Attain we won't get the military discount since that program doesnt give a military discount, only the single cycle plan.
We have $25k set aside for this so I'm just not sure we want to go to $30k Attain. We don't have decide now, we are to starting until August.
Keep in touch with your progress!
TTC: April 2013
DOR: AMH .3 - 1.31 (it varies); FSH: 5.1
Clinic NMCSD
IUI #1 July/Aug 2016
IVF #1 Sep/Oct Microdose Lupron Protocol - IVF cancelled only 1 follicle
IVF #2 Feb/Mar Antagonist protocol w/estrogen priming - 0 eggs retrieved (empty follicle syndrome)
Donor Egg Cycle as soon as we find a match
They do cover acupuncture, so I will use that benefit. If they title it: infertility, then the acupuncture will not be covered. So, I have to ask my provided to put something general, like "headaches."
TTC: April 2013
DOR: AMH .3 - 1.31 (it varies); FSH: 5.1
Clinic NMCSD
IUI #1 July/Aug 2016
IVF #1 Sep/Oct Microdose Lupron Protocol - IVF cancelled only 1 follicle
IVF #2 Feb/Mar Antagonist protocol w/estrogen priming - 0 eggs retrieved (empty follicle syndrome)
Donor Egg Cycle as soon as we find a match