HAHAHAHA she had a commented posted before I posted LOL I wouldn't just randomly tag her in it ... He first post said something along the lines of ... So your gonna act like a 2 year old and throw a tantrum ! LOL so yea I did say something haha, pretty bad she had to delete her first post LOL
Except posters can't delete their posts? At best it can be edited, and the content wiped, but her icon and a space for a comment would still be there. And it's not.
Scroll up a bit you'll see her original post before I posted (: !
We don't know it was before you posted. She cannot ( has no ability) to delete her own comments.
I think I remember @soberrysweet comment, and I think it was AFTER she was called out. But there's no proof either way now, and it doesn't really matter TBH.
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@amberrmariee20 I most certainly offer support where it's warranted and have offered a lot of valuable advice over my 3 years posting here on TB. The posters who know me well would attest to that. However, when someone posts something that I don't agree with I post on that as well. I don't think there's anything wrong with offering a different perspective.
Telling someone what they want to hear is not the only way to offer support. Sometimes you need to be told you are wrong, ridiculous, etc.
This was her 2nd post after she had the first one posted I commented and tagged her in it ! Then she replied with this.
@amberrmariee20 I most certainly offer support where it's warranted and have offered a lot of valuable advice over my 3 years posting here on TB. The posters who know me well would attest to that. However, when someone posts something that I don't agree with I post on that as well. I don't think there's anything wrong with offering a different perspective.
Telling someone what they want to hear is not the only way to offer support. Sometimes you need to be told you are wrong, ridiculous, etc.
This was her 2nd post after she had the first one posted I commented and tagged her in it ! Then she replied with this.
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
@amberrmariee20 I most certainly offer support where it's warranted and have offered a lot of valuable advice over my 3 years posting here on TB. The posters who know me well would attest to that. However, when someone posts something that I don't agree with I post on that as well. I don't think there's anything wrong with offering a different perspective.
Telling someone what they want to hear is not the only way to offer support. Sometimes you need to be told you are wrong, ridiculous, etc.
This was her 2nd post after she had the first one posted I commented and tagged her in it ! Then she replied with this.
I remember the post. I thought it was in a different thread since it wasn't here when I went back to check.
However. She can't delete entire posts. The idea that she deleted it to make you look bad is ludicris.
@amberrmariee20 I most certainly offer support where it's warranted and have offered a lot of valuable advice over my 3 years posting here on TB. The posters who know me well would attest to that. However, when someone posts something that I don't agree with I post on that as well. I don't think there's anything wrong with offering a different perspective.
Telling someone what they want to hear is not the only way to offer support. Sometimes you need to be told you are wrong, ridiculous, etc.
This was her 2nd post after she had the first one posted I commented and tagged her in it ! Then she replied with this.
I remember the post. I thought it was in a different thread since it wasn't here when I went back to check.
However. She can't delete entire posts. The idea that she deleted it to make you look bad is ludicris.
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Go to page 2 you'll see it ! It was posted, and I just thought you couldn't delete from mobile. You can report anyone from mobile either. Screen goes white, same when you try and delete something !
Go to page 2 you'll see it ! It was posted, and I just thought you couldn't delete from mobile. You can report anyone from mobile either. Screen goes white, same when you try and delete something !
Right. But you calling her out was on page one...
Yea it wAs right after she posted about acting like a 2 year old, it was recently deleted after someone had quoted it ! And I can't delete stuff from mobile, change my profile pic or Report people from mobile. I don't use the web version or computer version so I wouldn't know !
Go to page 2 you'll see it ! It was posted, and I just thought you couldn't delete from mobile. You can report anyone from mobile either. Screen goes white, same when you try and delete something !
Right. But you calling her out was on page one...
Yea it wAs right after she posted about acting like a 2 year old, it was recently deleted after someone had quoted it ! And I can't delete stuff from mobile, change my profile pic or Report people from mobile. I don't use the web version or computer version so I wouldn't know !
Wow. That's the App? It sounds like it sucks.
But even us on computers can't delete posts like that. I paged @bumpadmin, but I highly doubt we'll get a response.
Go to page 2 you'll see it ! It was posted, and I just thought you couldn't delete from mobile. You can report anyone from mobile either. Screen goes white, same when you try and delete something !
Right. But you calling her out was on page one...
Yea it wAs right after she posted about acting like a 2 year old, it was recently deleted after someone had quoted it ! And I can't delete stuff from mobile, change my profile pic or Report people from mobile. I don't use the web version or computer version so I wouldn't know !
Wow. That's the App? It sounds like it sucks.
But even us on computers can't delete posts like that. I paged @bumpadmin, but I highly doubt we'll get a response.
Yes the app was fine until they did the newest update, It's super glitchy now, and if someone posts I don't usually see it for 10-15 minutes later even if I close out and refresh. It's so weird ! I can't scroll down after backing out of a post without it jumping to the top first and back to square one !!
While you have no reason to believe me I can vouch for it being posted first. I've been on this thread since it started and it was only after that comment was made she was called out by another poster. No one called her out at random.
You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
I think I'm arguing more for the point that the rude and unnecessary comments went both ways. Posters want to hate on Berry but don't realize she actually had a lot of knowledge and just had a no bullshit way of putting it out there. Some people are sensitive, and sometimes that was warranted, often not. However, unless inidividuals can see that they play a role in the rudeness, it will just continue.
You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
I think I'm arguing more for the point that the rude and unnecessary comments went both ways. Posters want to hate on Berry but don't realize she actually had a lot of knowledge and just had a no bullshit way of putting it out there. Some people are sensitive, and sometimes that was warranted, often not. However, unless inidividuals can see that they play a role in the rudeness, it will just continue.
Maybe it was the way she worded it. But even if I don't agree with others I don't put it negatively, I'll usually explain myself and why I think that way, and still encourage them to go with their decisions !
You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
I think I'm arguing more for the point that the rude and unnecessary comments went both ways. Posters want to hate on Berry but don't realize she actually had a lot of knowledge and just had a no bullshit way of putting it out there. Some people are sensitive, and sometimes that was warranted, often not. However, unless inidividuals can see that they play a role in the rudeness, it will just continue.
Maybe it was the way she worded it. But even if I don't agree with others I don't put it negatively, I'll usually explain myself and why I think that way, and still encourage them to go with their decisions !
I've perceived some of your posts as very negative.
And that's the point. There are posters who believe Berry was negative and there will be posters that think you were. But, people went on a witch hunt to get her banned and that's what is wrong here. It'll be someone new any minute now.
You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
I think I'm arguing more for the point that the rude and unnecessary comments went both ways. Posters want to hate on Berry but don't realize she actually had a lot of knowledge and just had a no bullshit way of putting it out there. Some people are sensitive, and sometimes that was warranted, often not. However, unless inidividuals can see that they play a role in the rudeness, it will just continue.
Maybe it was the way she worded it. But even if I don't agree with others I don't put it negatively, I'll usually explain myself and why I think that way, and still encourage them to go with their decisions !
I think there's a big difference between blunt and negative, and many people on this site do not know the difference.
A lot of the threads I saw berry on and participated were shower threads. I don't like that I feel like I have to censor my opinions on 2nd showers (bad) because I'm "negative" or "rude" or that someone is going to take offense to the word "tacky" and report me. Cause quite honestly, a lot of the bannings on here seem arbitrary. It goes both ways.
Every post doesn't have to be patting someone on the head all the time. You all seemed to know who Berry was, so you could have easily ignored her as well. In fact, there's an ignore user function.
We don't always have to agree 100% with one another*
You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
I think I'm arguing more for the point that the rude and unnecessary comments went both ways. Posters want to hate on Berry but don't realize she actually had a lot of knowledge and just had a no bullshit way of putting it out there. Some people are sensitive, and sometimes that was warranted, often not. However, unless inidividuals can see that they play a role in the rudeness, it will just continue.
Maybe it was the way she worded it. But even if I don't agree with others I don't put it negatively, I'll usually explain myself and why I think that way, and still encourage them to go with their decisions !
I've perceived some of your posts as very negative.
And that's the point. There are posters who believe Berry was negative and there will be posters that think you were. But, people went on a witch hunt to get her banned and that's what is wrong here. It'll be someone new any minute now.
Back when I was on The Knot I posted some very naive bullcrap threads and absolutely got FLAMED for them. No one was super sweet or sugar coated anything. It was harsh, but dear god I learned. If you can get over your own ego a lot of these ladies can give you amazing information and perspectives. Not everyone has to cater to your feelings. If you put a thread out there you better be prepared to put on your big girl panties and accept whatever comes back to you (with the exception of true abuse and trolling).
You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
I think I'm arguing more for the point that the rude and unnecessary comments went both ways. Posters want to hate on Berry but don't realize she actually had a lot of knowledge and just had a no bullshit way of putting it out there. Some people are sensitive, and sometimes that was warranted, often not. However, unless inidividuals can see that they play a role in the rudeness, it will just continue.
Maybe it was the way she worded it. But even if I don't agree with others I don't put it negatively, I'll usually explain myself and why I think that way, and still encourage them to go with their decisions !
I think there's a big difference between blunt and negative, and many people on this site do not know the difference.
A lot of the threads I saw berry on and participated were shower threads. I don't like that I feel like I have to censor my opinions on 2nd showers (bad) because I'm "negative" or "rude" or that someone is going to take offense to the word "tacky" and report me. Cause quite honestly, a lot of the bannings on here seem arbitrary. It goes both ways.
Every post doesn't have to be patting someone on the head all the time. You all seemed to know who Berry was, so you could have easily ignored her as well. In fact, there's an ignore user function.
We don't always have to agree 100% with one another*
*Except names. I am always 100% right on names.*
*(That was a joke)
< /blockquote>
I won't use the ignore feature, for the reason they may post something I'll eventually like, names, advice you know !
@amberrmariee20 I most certainly offer support where it's warranted and have offered a lot of valuable advice over my 3 years posting here on TB. The posters who know me well would attest to that. However, when someone posts something that I don't agree with I post on that as well. I don't think there's anything wrong with offering a different perspective.
Telling someone what they want to hear is not the only way to offer support. Sometimes you need to be told you are wrong, ridiculous, etc.
This was her 2nd post after she had the first one posted I commented and tagged her in it ! Then she replied with this.
Me thinks thou doth protest too much...
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@amberrmariee20 I most certainly offer support where it's warranted and have offered a lot of valuable advice over my 3 years posting here on TB. The posters who know me well would attest to that. However, when someone posts something that I don't agree with I post on that as well. I don't think there's anything wrong with offering a different perspective.
Telling someone what they want to hear is not the only way to offer support. Sometimes you need to be told you are wrong, ridiculous, etc.
This was her 2nd post after she had the first one posted I commented and tagged her in it ! Then she replied with this.
You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
I think I'm arguing more for the point that the rude and unnecessary comments went both ways. Posters want to hate on Berry but don't realize she actually had a lot of knowledge and just had a no bullshit way of putting it out there. Some people are sensitive, and sometimes that was warranted, often not. However, unless inidividuals can see that they play a role in the rudeness, it will just continue.
Maybe it was the way she worded it. But even if I don't agree with others I don't put it negatively, I'll usually explain myself and why I think that way, and still encourage them to go with their decisions !
I think there's a big difference between blunt and negative, and many people on this site do not know the difference.
A lot of the threads I saw berry on and participated were shower threads. I don't like that I feel like I have to censor my opinions on 2nd showers (bad) because I'm "negative" or "rude" or that someone is going to take offense to the word "tacky" and report me. Cause quite honestly, a lot of the bannings on here seem arbitrary. It goes both ways.
Every post doesn't have to be patting someone on the head all the time. You all seemed to know who Berry was, so you could have easily ignored her as well. In fact, there's an ignore user function.
We don't always have to agree 100% with one another*
*Except names. I am always 100% right on names.*
*(That was a joke)
< /blockquote>
I won't use the ignore feature, for the reason they may post something I'll eventually like, names, advice you know !
I'm going to use Berry as an example just because it's recent, but I think we can all agree we're past this being solely about her being banned.
Did you personally read every single comment she ever made? Truly. Because I think a lot of what goes wrong is people see a handful of posts, perceive a person a certain way, and then continue to believe her posts must be nasty or rude. But they overlook times when she was extremely knowledgeable or kind.
Ultimately, no one can hear tone or see body language. Blunt and honest is too often mistaken for rude on these boards, and it's a shame that truly knowledgeable women are banned for hurting someone's feelings.
None of us know each other so to say people banned together and went out on a witch hunt is a bit dramatic. Obviously she rubbed too many people the wrong way, call it blunt being sensitive frankly I don't really care. She offended me several times with her responses and I never reported her so for her to be banned I can only imagine how many other people were unhappy with her activity on the boards. Anyway she's no longer here life goes on.
@amberrmariee20 I most certainly offer support where it's warranted and have offered a lot of valuable advice over my 3 years posting here on TB. The posters who know me well would attest to that. However, when someone posts something that I don't agree with I post on that as well. I don't think there's anything wrong with offering a different perspective.
Telling someone what they want to hear is not the only way to offer support. Sometimes you need to be told you are wrong, ridiculous, etc.
This was her 2nd post after she had the first one posted I commented and tagged her in it ! Then she replied with this.
1) It's okay to be offended. Sometimes it's GOOD to be offended. Sometimes it means that you are wrong and need to be knocked down. Some people on here say "she offended me" like they were physically assaulted.
2) I know the conversation has shifted BUT DEAR GOD THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SEX AND GENDER. You CANNOT learn your baby's gender from an ultrasound.
You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
I think I'm arguing more for the point that the rude and unnecessary comments went both ways. Posters want to hate on Berry but don't realize she actually had a lot of knowledge and just had a no bullshit way of putting it out there. Some people are sensitive, and sometimes that was warranted, often not. However, unless inidividuals can see that they play a role in the rudeness, it will just continue.
Maybe it was the way she worded it. But even if I don't agree with others I don't put it negatively, I'll usually explain myself and why I think that way, and still encourage them to go with their decisions !
I've perceived some of your posts as very negative.
And that's the point. There are posters who believe Berry was negative and there will be posters that think you were. But, people went on a witch hunt to get her banned and that's what is wrong here. It'll be someone new any minute now.
I don't think you have any evidence of that. Most people involved have said they didn't report her.
None of us know each other so to say people banned together and went out on a witch hunt is a bit dramatic. Obviously she rubbed too many people the wrong way, call it blunt being sensitive frankly I don't really care. She offended me several times with her responses and I never reported her so for her to be banned I can only imagine how many other people were unhappy with her activity on the boards. Anyway she's no longer here life goes on.
I disagree. Especially because there was evidence of private messages about her and how wrong she was posted in this very thread...
You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
I think I'm arguing more for the point that the rude and unnecessary comments went both ways. Posters want to hate on Berry but don't realize she actually had a lot of knowledge and just had a no bullshit way of putting it out there. Some people are sensitive, and sometimes that was warranted, often not. However, unless inidividuals can see that they play a role in the rudeness, it will just continue.
at the end of the day we the posters, or the people who reported berry we weren't the ones that banned her. From what I understand those refered to as BG's are the only ones who hold the "power" to bann any one. While she might have had a lot of knowledge. The way she went about it was what at the end of the day cause her her banning. I don't see the point in arguing w each other about it ...is what i meant!
You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
I think I'm arguing more for the point that the rude and unnecessary comments went both ways. Posters want to hate on Berry but don't realize she actually had a lot of knowledge and just had a no bullshit way of putting it out there. Some people are sensitive, and sometimes that was warranted, often not. However, unless inidividuals can see that they play a role in the rudeness, it will just continue.
at the end of the day we the posters, or the people who reported berry were the ones that banned her. From what I understand those refered to as BG's are the only ones who hold the "power" to bann any one. While she might have had a lot of knowledge. The way she went about it was what at the end of the day cause her her banning. I don't see the point in arguing w each other about it ...is what i meant!
You folks don't even know.
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You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
I think I'm arguing more for the point that the rude and unnecessary comments went both ways. Posters want to hate on Berry but don't realize she actually had a lot of knowledge and just had a no bullshit way of putting it out there. Some people are sensitive, and sometimes that was warranted, often not. However, unless inidividuals can see that they play a role in the rudeness, it will just continue.
at the end of the day we the posters, or the people who reported berry were the ones that banned her. From what I understand those refered to as BG's are the only ones who hold the "power" to bann any one. While she might have had a lot of knowledge. The way she went about it was what at the end of the day cause her her banning. I don't see the point in arguing w each other about it ...is what i meant!
When Bump Admin receive a report notice they look at one individual post. The entire thread is not taken into context, nor is whether she was antagonized for not.
You guys kno ur all arguin over someone who isnt here anymore and unless she makes up another. Name and a new email i guess we wont b seeing her ....(whch if it was me it would be crazy) /:)
I think I'm arguing more for the point that the rude and unnecessary comments went both ways. Posters want to hate on Berry but don't realize she actually had a lot of knowledge and just had a no bullshit way of putting it out there. Some people are sensitive, and sometimes that was warranted, often not. However, unless inidividuals can see that they play a role in the rudeness, it will just continue.
Maybe it was the way she worded it. But even if I don't agree with others I don't put it negatively, I'll usually explain myself and why I think that way, and still encourage them to go with their decisions !
I've perceived some of your posts as very negative.
And that's the point. There are posters who believe Berry was negative and there will be posters that think you were. But, people went on a witch hunt to get her banned and that's what is wrong here. It'll be someone new any minute now.
I don't think you have any evidence of that. Most people involved have said they didn't report her.
SOMEONE did. Funny how everyone scatters and nobody admits it from behind their keyboard.
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DD: 10/17/13
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Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
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This was her 2nd post after she had the first one posted I commented and tagged her in it ! Then she replied with this.
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
However. She can't delete entire posts. The idea that she deleted it to make you look bad is ludicris.
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
But even us on computers can't delete posts like that. I paged @bumpadmin, but I highly doubt we'll get a response.
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
I really want a girl and my husband really wants a boy! but in the end as long as the baby is healthy ill be happy!
And that's the point. There are posters who believe Berry was negative and there will be posters that think you were. But, people went on a witch hunt to get her banned and that's what is wrong here. It'll be someone new any minute now.
Every post doesn't have to be patting someone on the head all the time. You all seemed to know who Berry was, so you could have easily ignored her as well. In fact, there's an ignore user function.
Diagnosed with PCOS: Summer 2007
Married: July 2013
Began TTC: June 2015
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LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
Low progesterone
Baby boy born 01/2016
Currently: NTNP
Low progesterone
Baby boy born 01/2016
Currently: NTNP
at the end of the day we the posters, or the people who reported berry we weren't the ones that banned her. From what I understand those refered to as BG's are the only ones who hold the "power" to bann any one. While she might have had a lot of knowledge. The way she went about it was what at the end of the day cause her her banning. I don't see the point in arguing w each other about it ...is what i meant!
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
SOMEONE did. Funny how everyone scatters and nobody admits it from behind their keyboard.