Not sure if it's just me being irrated or what. I really don't want anyone at hospital but my husband and mother. Is this wrong? My family can be super annoying and I want to be peaceful and focus on birth and rest before coming home to the rush. Is that selfish? They make me feel so obligated to do things the way they want , so tired of it I cry. My family isn't normal by the way, so many issues.
Re: Family at the hospital
But anyways, my hospital has a list that you write the name of who you want to go and be back in the room. At any point. You can't get back in the room unless you've got a wristband with my room number on it. I think that's a fantastic system and all hospitals should do that if they don't already!
The more people who visit us at the hospital, the less who will stop by the house after we're home.. That's my thinking. I don't really want company until a couple weeks later. I need to get adjusted at home before I can handle baby, dog, and visitors all at the same time.
For a second I thought DH was going to be mad but he agreed and even said he'd call his friend when he felt like we we're both ready. He doesn't show it but I don't think DH wants to share his little one with anyone just as much as I don't want to be bothered. Lol.