I've read conflicting things too. Honestly, most massage therapists don't have you switch to prenanatal massages for a while anyway. Here's what I'd suggest.
If your transfer cycle fails (FX that is doesn't), no matter how safe the massage was it will be in your head that you read some things about it not being recommended. And you'll feel bad. So maybe reschedule.
If you do go, be sure to tell them your situation. They'll likely avoid some things like pressure on your feed.
Me: 41, DH 38, Diagnosis DOR
Started TTC 12/2013
First Trip to RE: 11/2014
IVF Round 1: 2/2014 - BFP
DD Born 11/9/2014
TTC a Sibling Started 5/2015
First IVF Round 8/15 - BFN
Taking a break to go on vacation + enjoy the holidays before FET and/or another IVF round in 2016!
Re: Massage post transfer?!