I had no idea that you could find out the gender now from a blood test. I was never given the option, unless this is a fairly new thing? If it were me, I would want to wait until the 20 week anatomy scan, but knowing how impatient I am I would probably ask to find out.
@kateliznelsen let us know what the doctor says. From what I read the blood work is not performed at my office unless you are over 35 or have chromosomal issues in your family. Insurance doesn't cover it to just do it for gender. My co workers are paying 800$ to do it privately and I can't jump on that wagon. Let me what your doctor says
$800? Not worth it, especially when you are already getting an ultrasound anyway. I'll still ask, but there's nothing that justifies that kind of unnecessary expense. @bishopgn I'm not heading to the Dr for a few weeks, but I will let you know what I find out.
We have actually decided that we don't want to know - I know it's not common anymore but both my husband and I feel that this is one of the only true surprises in life and think it will be that much better to find out at the birth.
Thanks for the feedback everyone! Our physician does blood work at 10 weeks anyway, so we're just going to find out then. It isn't at an additional cost.
We're really excited, and I think it will be special still.
We found out with my first at an ultrasound at 15 weeks, second with 3d ultrasound at 14 weeks. This time we'll probably just wait until the 18-20 week unless MIL wants to pay for the 3d since she's going nuts for a girl (and she'd probably ask for her money back if it's a third boy. Half kidding).
At 15 weeks I'm so excited ! Storkvision (Atlanta) does them for $45 that includes pics and a DVD. I did it w/ my son back in 2011. Couldn't wait for the 20 wk gender ultrasound w/ my doctor.
I was told I could find out through the MaternaT21 blood test. I'm old so they suggest I do it. Find out the gender at 9 weeks! That's crazy! I'm impatient so I'll probably ask the gender.
Anatomy scan. The blood test is only offered here if you're over 35 and wouldn't be covered by my insurance until then either.
I know people will do what they want- but earlier this year the FDA put out a warning about those optional ultrasound places. They are finally studying the effects of multiple exposures to ultrasounds and say moms should stay away unless medically necessary. I unfortunate needed quite a few ultrasounds in the last 6 weeks of my pregnancy last time due to concerns... It was great to see the baby but the risks always worried me a little.
Sex not gender. We will hopefully find out at 20ish week ultrasound, same as with our first child. I wouldn't pay money to find out earlier but only cuz money is tight. I'm antsy and would love to know asap!
Already know. We did IVF with PGD. (Genetic testing) due to previous losses and so we knew that our embryo was/is a girl when we transferred (only had one embryo frozen from a past cycle). Crazy to already know as soon as I had a positive test that our baby is a girl especially since we already have two boys.
Just FYI, those 10week blood tests can be wrong: one of DH's coworkers had it done, it said girl! She bought a lot of (very expensive!) pink things. At the 20wk ultrasound: surprise! They had to buy all new stuff!! (I think if it were free, I might do the blood work anyway, but because it would cost a lot extra for me, we'll wait for the ultrasound)
Just FYI, those 10week blood tests can be wrong: one of DH's coworkers had it done, it said girl! She bought a lot of (very expensive!) pink things. At the 20wk ultrasound: surprise! They had to buy all new stuff!! (I think if it were free, I might do the blood work anyway, but because it would cost a lot extra for me, we'll wait for the ultrasound)
Really? I had no idea they could be wrong. Good to know.
Re: when are you finding out the gender (assuming you are)
DD 12.2010
The blood test is only offered here if you're over 35 and wouldn't be covered by my insurance until then either.
I know people will do what they want- but earlier this year the FDA put out a warning about those optional ultrasound places. They are finally studying the effects of multiple exposures to ultrasounds and say moms should stay away unless medically necessary.
I unfortunate needed quite a few ultrasounds in the last 6 weeks of my pregnancy last time due to concerns... It was great to see the baby but the risks always worried me a little.