sex.

althacker · March 2015

Alright ladies....with our new beautiful, and larger, bodies, sex is definitely different! Hubs and i are having a little touble getting comfortable during. Any position suggestions?!?

LBland09 · March 2015

I just told my hubs last night..."it's time to do something different, I just don't know what..." So glad you posted this...

Jennym2b · March 2015

Doggy

chantellbroussard · March 2015

I agree with previous poster... or my husband also likes for me to lay on my side and he lays behind me. That is pretty much all we do these days, those two positions.

ChristyM87 · March 2015

We have done it doggie style, though I get tired after a while. You could also try it with you bending over the bed for support and him doing rear entry

lovermyboys · March 2015

He lays on his side and you come at him do you guys make a T. You are both on your backs and it's lovely

Jennym2b · March 2015

When we do doggy style/rear entry I have been propping my.hips up with a pillow so if I do get tired I have that as support.

inLOVEalready715 · March 2015

I always preferred female superior coital position( girl on top), I just have to sit up more than i used to but i try to hold the headboard for support and so I'm not leaning and squishing my belly. DH has been terrified of being on top since my BFP he is afraid of crush injuries. sex is still great but its a lot more careful and slow than it used to be.

Ebunnee87 · March 2015

I was getting bored with the same ole' stuff so I looked up some good ones

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&cd=2&ved=0CBMQFjAB&url=http://thestir.cafemom.com/pregnancy/140898/10_best_sex_positions_while&ei=LL79VOrABIGFNv_WgaAG&usg=AFQjCNFLjB5-5YtKaMa4NuwReOCEPIgzsg&sig2=R3wcpQeHONZM8qoyCZicmA

Sorry for the long link and it has really stupid pictures.

kacdanz · March 2015

This made me giggle and blush ( yea I'm immature)! We've been going with doggy and spooning positions. We also try with me on top and I hope we can do this throughout the pregnancy.

mrssnyder83 · March 2015

Pretty sure I'm the only pregnant person who has no interest in sex. My poor hubby.

oneblessedmess · March 2015

mrssnyder83 said:
Pretty sure I'm the only pregnant person who has no interest in sex. My poor hubby.

I'm hot and cold. Some weeks I'm all over him and other weeks I'm like "Don't touch me". Glad we have patient and understanding hubbies!

ETA: Forgot to answer the original question, but we are all about doggy over here!

asherk · March 2015

mrssnyder83 said:
Pretty sure I'm the only pregnant person who has no interest in sex. My poor hubby.

nope; i'm the same. i guess i'm going to have to man up and start giving some bjs because i have exactly 0 interest in anything going into my vagina any time soon. (is this tmi? sorry if it's tmi.

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Koalaknuckles · March 2015

I'm 21 weeks and I'm not at the point where any of the positions are uncomfortable for me yet.

Still having as much fun as ever

amfasse · March 2015

You ladies are making me jealous.. hubby has shown little interest in sex since we got preggers

I have complained and he tried to be more into it but he just isn't. And having sex with someone who isn't interested is definitely not enjoyable.

nmo941 · March 2015

Nope, I have ZERO interest, didn't with my first and I don't with this one

asun123 · March 2015

Me and fiance's sex life was pretty 50 shades of grey before being pregnant. (that's what probably got me pregnant)

Yes, I'm serious about 50 shades. We have paddles, blind folds. straps to hold me (or him) down against the bed. And more stuff you probably don't want to hear.

But since I became pregnant. We ditched all that and packed it all up in boxes and put it in storage.

It's so different now, just having normal sex and sometimes it gets a little intense where I have to let him know I'm hurting.

We mostly stick to doggy and some really different positions we made up (maybe they have a name but I just don't know)

But I keep asking him if my bigger body turns him off, and luckily he tells me I'm hotter than ever. (Because I'm not feeling too hot)

biaromoy · March 2015

I wasn't interested until I got bigger haha, so glad the libido is back.

My partner prefers the spooning position and I've been mad for me being on top when previously I wasn't a fan.. Pregnant sex is great when u find something that works

BabysMomma4 · March 2015

We have the same issues...LOL. So far we've made it work, but it definitely isn't as passionate as non preggo sex. Try to make up for it by focusing less on the actual intercourse and on foreplay. That is my suggestion! Other positions that work mechanically don't really do much for me at all so the increase of the other stuff has seemed to help some.

Good luck!!

Ckorines · March 2015

Ladies with no libidos... My doctor says the bigger the belly, the bigger the sex drive. Stay patient, maybe yours will come soon!

mrssnyder83 · March 2015

Ckorines said:
Ladies with no libidos... My doctor says the bigger the belly, the bigger the sex drive. Stay patient, maybe yours will come soon!

Yeah I don't see mine coming back anytime soon... lol

Ckorines · March 2015

mrssnyder83 said:

Ckorines said:
Ladies with no libidos... My doctor says the bigger the belly, the bigger the sex drive. Stay patient, maybe yours will come soon!
Yeah I don't see mine coming back anytime soon... lol

Stay hopeful, momma!

AlexandraMarcotte · March 2015

I've been getting a sharp pain on my right side whenever my husband and I have sex in missionary position (man on top). So we definitely second going with doggy style, woman on top, and I also like when I lie down at the edge of the bed and he is standing... It's a relaxing position and a great angle to see those arm muscles of his in action! Haha

Mudhappy · March 2015

Yeah I have had no sex drive since becoming pregnant, so don't worry!

pinktorridora · March 2015

We have not been able to find a position that is comfortable for me. We have tried missionary with me sitting up a little bit, doggy, spooning - it all feels like he is poking something. I have my 20 week checkup on Wednesday so I'm going to mention it to the doctor, but have any of you felt this way?

kleinjm1 · March 2015

Super jealous as our doc put us on a sex ban (technically a no orgasm for me ban) until34 weeks!!!! My libido is definitely not dead so it really sucks. Hubby has been great, super hands off and doesn't make me feel bad at all. he was so freaked out after I had some very light spotting and cramping at 18 weeks, all it took was the doc saying she thought sex caused it for his libido to go out the door. I don't think he'd touch me at this point ban or not! LOL! We are high risk with an IVF baby so we aren't taking any chances...I really miss sex though!!!

beccer123 · March 2015

lovermyboys said:
He lays on his side and you come at him do you guys make a T. You are both on your backs and it's lovely

this is what we do at this point.

beccer123 · March 2015

asherk said:

mrssnyder83 said:
Pretty sure I'm the only pregnant person who has no interest in sex. My poor hubby.
nope; i'm the same. i guess i'm going to have to man up and start giving some bjs because i have exactly 0 interest in anything going into my vagina any time soon. (is this tmi? sorry if it's tmi. )

I don't even want to do that! my poor guy! every once in a while, i'll actually want to be in the mood.

ccarrozza1 · March 2015

Definitely have less of a libido. And a bit nervous actually having sex when I do. I know it is supposed to be safe...

althacker · March 2015

Thanks all! And no libido ladies...mine just kicked up after 5 months, youll get there. It has honestly probably added to the awkwardness and there was almost no sex for that long.

mrsjones1012 · March 2015

Reverse cowgirl on the couch worked for us last night

crsnwd · March 2015

Had a great sex drive before getting preggers but then lost it

started to finally get that drive back then was put on pelvic rest, go figure

NewMumzy25 · March 2015

Hmm, my libido has gone way up and before I was already a horn dog when it came to my man lol. I'm sorry ladies with 0 interest I think I'd be going crazy. It's been 2 months since I've seen my man and I'm going insane, week and a half left till I'm back with him! Last time we were together missionary wasn't too bad but cowgirl and reverse cowgirl have been the best, haven't tried the spooning one so thanks for for the idea

and haven't tried doggy since being pregnant gonna have to try that too. Hopefully you find something that works for you I like cowgirl cause you have the control.

Knottie38556322 · March 2015

I wouldn't say I've lost interest in sex but it definitely takes me a lot longer to achieve orgasm, it's harder to get my engine running. It drives me crazy, the spirit is willing but the flesh isn't.

corndogrobot · March 2015

Not sure which was longer...
Tha lat time we had sex?
Or the last time I pooped?
I'm loosing track. Either way, I'm uncomfortable.

BrookieBubs · March 2015

Lay on your side and its amazing

leslieannlsu · March 2015

God bless my poor husband for trying to work with me. Everything feels so uncomfortable. The spooning position has worked best for us, but it gets old quick because I don't feel like he can get in deep enough (sorry if that's TMI). With me on top or doggy style I feel like I my ginormous boobs are flopping all over the place and they HURT! I don't feel sexy at all! Oh, and I've reached the point where I'd rather just fall asleep for a few hours before I know I'm going to have to wake up to pee than stay awake to get laid. -lame-

ChristineMichael28 · March 2015

Lay on your back with your legs hanging off the bed and he's standing on the floor. Works for us lol

mom2be7215 · April 2015

I'm 27 weeks and to be honest we are running out of positions that are comfortable. Doggy happens to be the favorite I think so far. Other then that we have done riding an I'm curious if anyone else has my same problem with riding which is TMI but when I'm all the way down on him it's painful because of the pressure. Does anyone else have this issue?

stparrish · April 2015

Reverse cowgirl is best for me.

barbiedoll1192 · April 2015

ChristineMichael28 said:
Lay on your back with your legs hanging off the bed and he's standing on the floor. Works for us lol

We do this and I'm still able to put my legs up on his shoulders, I lay on a couple pillows under middle/upper back and it's been the most comfortable position for me that and reverse cowgirl.

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