Implantation Pain

DR53114 · March 2015

Hey All, I am sure I am just a nervous nauseous lol but all day I have had a slight to moderate pain in my left side, almost where my leg crease is in my pants when I sit down. Could this be implantation? I am due for my period on the 13th. A part of me thinks its all in my head and I don't want to get happy just yet obviously! When should I test!

Thanks!

jnnfrrose6 · March 2015

You need to take the advice you were given yesterday and not read into any possible "signs." Also, as PP said, if you're period isn't due until the 13th (which I have to question if you're temping because it seems early for crosshairs if that's true), then implantation hasn't happened yet.

TheBorg7of9 · March 2015

Not to be obvious, but you know your uterus is not near your leg crease, right?

DR53114 · March 2015

Yes I am aware of all of these things and personally I think it's rude for everyone to be commenting like this! It's a forum where you can ask questions because you want to see if anyone ehas ever experienced the same feeling, Not to be attacked and called dumb or be told to listen to what ppl told me yesterday!

I am new to all of these things and there's lots of information and new things happening to my body. Sorry for asking!!! Maybe you all should learn not to be rude.

27alex · March 2015

DR53114 said:
Yes I am aware of all of these things and personally I think it's rude for everyone to be commenting like this! It's a forum where you can ask questions because you want to see if anyone ehas ever experienced the same feeling, Not to be attacked and called dumb or be told to listen to what ppl told me yesterday!

I am new to all of these things and there's lots of information and new things happening to my body. Sorry for asking!!! Maybe you all should learn not to be rude.

Maybe you should consider being realistic and learning how your body works.

No one was mean or rude.

concreteayngel · March 2015

While I agree with the advice given in the comments here, OP is not wrong in getting defensive. I'm new to this forum as well, and it seems like there are quite a few veteran TTCers that love to make snotty comments to people who ask questions that have answers that may seem obvious to the rest of you. We're new. It's exciting and scary, as I'm sure you remember. I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't think anybody means to offend you or waste your time, but, as I've seen in other threads, posting gifs of characters banging their head against the wall, or asking rhetorical questions meant to make the OP feel stupid, doesn't help anyone. Thanks for reading, and as always, GL on your BFPs.

jnnfrrose6 · March 2015

concreteayngel said:
While I agree with the advice given in the comments here, OP is not wrong in getting defensive. I'm new to this forum as well, and it seems like there are quite a few veteran TTCers that love to make snotty comments to people who ask questions that have answers that may seem obvious to the rest of you. We're new. It's exciting and scary, as I'm sure you remember. I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't think anybody means to offend you or waste your time, but, as I've seen in other threads, posting gifs of characters banging their head against the wall, or asking rhetorical questions meant to make the OP feel stupid, doesn't help anyone. Thanks for reading, and as always, GL on your BFPs.

Here's a crazy idea. Before posting a question, use that nifty search box in the upper right hand corner. You know why people get head banging gifs? Because they ask THE EXACT SAME QUESTION as someone else that could be answered by just looking a little before posting. There's only so many ways to tell people symptoms mean nothing without a +, implantation bleeding or cramps are recognized in hindsight, and without temping to confirm ovulation you have no way to know if your period is "late." And of course, no, we cannot tell you if you are pregnant. One person's experience had no bearing on yours.

TheBorg7of9 · March 2015

concreteayngel said:
While I agree with the advice given in the comments here, OP is not wrong in getting defensive. I'm new to this forum as well, and it seems like there are quite a few veteran TTCers that love to make snotty comments to people who ask questions that have answers that may seem obvious to the rest of you. We're new. It's exciting and scary, as I'm sure you remember. I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't think anybody means to offend you or waste your time, but, as I've seen in other threads, posting gifs of characters banging their head against the wall, or asking rhetorical questions meant to make the OP feel stupid, doesn't help anyone. Thanks for reading, and as always, GL on your BFPs.

Who was snotty? I really try really hard to be nice to people, but I honestly did not understand how leg crease pain could have anything to do with implantation unless she didn't know where her uterus is? I think you may be reading a nasty tone of voice in responses just because they don't have smiley emoticons and stuff. I'm serious and not trying to be snotty.

27alex · March 2015

concreteayngel said:
While I agree with the advice given in the comments here, OP is not wrong in getting defensive. I'm new to this forum as well, and it seems like there are quite a few veteran TTCers that love to make snotty comments to people who ask questions that have answers that may seem obvious to the rest of you. We're new. It's exciting and scary, as I'm sure you remember. I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't think anybody means to offend you or waste your time, but, as I've seen in other threads, posting gifs of characters banging their head against the wall, or asking rhetorical questions meant to make the OP feel stupid, doesn't help anyone. Thanks for reading, and as always, GL on your BFPs.

I learned by using the search function to answer my questions. And I took responsibility for my own knowledge.

Jessie42613 · March 2015

DR53114 said:
Hey All, I am sure I am just a nervous nauseous lol but all day I have had a slight to moderate pain in my left side, almost where my leg crease is in my pants when I sit down. Could this be implantation? I am due for my period on the 13th. A part of me thinks its all in my head and I don't want to get happy just yet obviously! When should I test!

Thanks!

Really, really, really unlikely.

When your period is late.

concreteayngel · March 2015

You are absolutely right about that. Nobody wants to be redundant, eh?

All I'm trying to say, without causing any further exasperation, is that this isn't the easiest site to navigate, and that us noobs would appreciate a bit of your wisdom, and a lot of your patience. The ladies on these boards quite literally talk in code. AF DTD OPK HPT BD DPO CD BBT, etc etc....it took me an entire day just to get the lingo down! Lol.

jnnfrrose6 · March 2015

concreteayngel said:
You are absolutely right about that. Nobody wants to be redundant, eh? All I'm trying to say, without causing any further exasperation, is that this isn't the easiest site to navigate, and that us noobs would appreciate a bit of your wisdom, and a lot of your patience. The ladies on these boards quite literally talk in code. AF DTD OPK HPT BD DPO CD BBT, etc etc....it took me an entire day just to get the lingo down! Lol.

Man, it'd be really nice if we had some sort of document pinned to the top of the board with all that information. Oh wait, we did and TB decided to get rid of it.

PugsandKisses · March 2015

You know what. when I first came here in 2006 or 2007 with my knot name, I asked a dumb question. I mean really dumb.
I was flamed for being stupid. I pouted, laughed then came back and was like ' ok that was dumb'. Instead of throwing a tantrum and

jnnfrrose6 · March 2015

PugsandKisses said:
You know what. when I first came here in 2006 or 2007 with my knot name, I asked a dumb question. I mean really dumb.
I was flamed for being stupid. I pouted, laughed then came back and was like ' ok that was dumb'. Instead of throwing a tantrum and

And what? I'm waiting with bated (sp?) breath.

Kayla&Josh7 · March 2015

If I were you I would find another site to ask questions and get advice because if you read pretty much every single post on here someone makes a smartass/rude comment about something. It's quite discouraging!

DR53114 · March 2015

Your right it is quite discouraging and that's sad because that's not what this should be about.

sunflower071913 · March 2015

I feel the same way. Its like the girls on here are jealous that another girl might get pregnant before them so they attack them. It's not nice. I thought these sights where so we could all get together and support each other. You can give advice in a nice way instead of being rude. My opinion is its pretty immature of them to be so rude.

PugsandKisses · March 2015

lynetteStrader said:
I feel the same way. Its like the girls on here are jealous that another girl might get pregnant before them so they attack them. It's not nice. I thought these sights where so we could all get together and support each other. You can give advice in a nice way instead of being rude. My opinion is its pretty immature of them to be so rude.

Not trying to get pregnant, so nope not jealous. I am just flabbergasted about dumb questions, and instead of only it, acting all butt hurt, calling people rude and bullies when they call out their dumb questions (not calling them dumb, just their questions ).

@jnnfrrose6 sorry. mobile is being stupid.
instead of owning it, adult women are having temper tantrums. And crying words like 'rude', bullies' and 'unsupported '.

Like I said. My question was very stupid. I think about it all the time and laugh now.

jnnfrrose6 · March 2015

lynetteStrader said:
I feel the same way. Its like the girls on here are jealous that another girl might get pregnant before them so they attack them. It's not nice. I thought these sights where so we could all get together and support each other. You can give advice in a nice way instead of being rude. My opinion is its pretty immature of them to be so rude.

WTF is that supposed to mean? First of all, this place is for XO to make money from advertisers because we're on here. It has nothing to do with support. Secondly, jealous of stupidity? Are you kidding me? There are people at all stages of life. Some just starting out, some who have been trying for awhile for their first, some who have a kid (or more) and would like more, and some who aren't even trying but are on here because they can (public forum and all). This isn't high school. Jealousy has nothing to do with it. Seeing the same questions repeatedly asked when a simp,e search will provide the answer required means that no one's going to sugar coat their responses at this point.

PugsandKisses · March 2015

jnnfrrose6 said:

lynetteStrader said:
I feel the same way. Its like the girls on here are jealous that another girl might get pregnant before them so they attack them. It's not nice. I thought these sights where so we could all get together and support each other. You can give advice in a nice way instead of being rude. My opinion is its pretty immature of them to be so rude.

WTF is that supposed to mean? First of all, this place is for XO to make money from advertisers because we're on here. It has nothing to do with support. Secondly, jealous of stupidity? Are you kidding me? There are people at all stages of life. Some just starting out, some who have been trying for awhile for their first, some who have a kid (or more) and would like more, and some who aren't even trying but are on here because they can (public forum and all). This isn't high school. Jealousy has nothing to do with it. Seeing the same questions repeatedly asked when a simp,e search will provide the answer required means that no one's going to sugar coat their responses at this point.

Yep. Plus there isn't like a quote on babies. So it is not like 'we'll shit, she got pregnant, we meet quota For this month. Maybe I can been in next cycle month'.
So your pregnancy or lack or pregnancy has NOTHING to deal with the state of my uterus.

TheBorg7of9 · March 2015

lynetteStrader said:
I feel the same way. Its like the girls on here are jealous that another girl might get pregnant before them so they attack them. It's not nice. I thought these sights where so we could all get together and support each other. You can give advice in a nice way instead of being rude. My opinion is its pretty immature of them to be so rude.

Nice try, but many of us already have children. Let me ask you this question, is it nicer to tell someone that leg crease pain could be implantation or to explain the truth? False hope is pretty cruel in my opinion.

shibelvr4eva · March 2015

Shibes was here.

KonaCoffeeBean · March 2015

lynetteStrader said:
I feel the same way. Its like the girls on here are jealous that another girl might get pregnant before them so they attack them. It's not nice. I thought these sights where so we could all get together and support each other. You can give advice in a nice way instead of being rude. My opinion is its pretty immature of them to be so rude.

The majority of the regular posters on this board who dispense common sense advice everyday already have children. So, no, I don't think that they "are jealous that another girl might get pregnant before them." How does that even make sense?

DR53114 · March 2015

The point to begin with was I was asking a general question and regardless if I searched a head of time it is under "trying to get pregnant" and there was nothing specific to implantation pain....also what I meant by crease isn't my thigh and yes I know where my uterus is, It feels very similar to cramps so which is why I was asking, I also sit at a desk so the crease I am talking about is also near my hips. I can understand about asking silly questions but I was looking for advice and if anyone else had similar issues. I wasn't looking to be poked fun at or made fun of or told I shouldn't be asking questions or I should search the forums. As far as I am concerned "trying to get pregnant" falls under symptoms and issues.

Sorry for thinking other women would be supportive of someone new here and would help with advice. This whole thing is new and scary...doesent make the TWW any better...thanks for nothing.....

27alex · March 2015

DR53114 said:
The point to begin with was I was asking a general question and regardless if I searched a head of time it is under "trying to get pregnant" and there was nothing specific to implantation pain....also what I meant by crease isn't my thigh and yes I know where my uterus is, It feels very similar to cramps so which is why I was asking, I also sit at a desk so the crease I am talking about is also near my hips. I can understand about asking silly questions but I was looking for advice and if anyone else had similar issues. I wasn't looking to be poked fun at or made fun of or told I shouldn't be asking questions or I should search the forums. As far as I am concerned "trying to get pregnant" falls under symptoms and issues.

Sorry for thinking other women would be supportive of someone new here and would help with advice. This whole thing is new and scary...doesent make the TWW any better...thanks for nothing.....

You say "it feels very similar to cramps". So now that you're TTC, it must be implantation, instead of just plain old cramps like you know? See how that's not logical?

Come on now. You crying boo-hoo and saying people were mean and rude for pointing out the obvious is quite ridiculous.

DR53114 · March 2015

I didn't say everyone, was rude, but all I was looking for was some answers or had anyone else ever experienced anything like this....not for people to comment like they did, I didn't find all of it not helpful and I think that a lot of what was initially said was good.

"Don't read into every little twinge"- yes, absolutely, this is a good piece of information. (anything I feel right now I get excited about)If you're due on the 13th, implantation probably hasn't happened yet. It happens like 7-10 days after O- This is great to know too!

"We really need to put up all the info again, because people just don't have good information and it would be extremely helpful to know things like when implantation occurs" (Yes can someone please do this lol, as well as the language because its A LOT & overwhelming)

"Here's a crazy idea. Before posting a question, use that nifty search box in the upper right hand corner. You know why people get head banging gifs? Because they ask THE EXACT SAME QUESTION as someone else that could be answered by just looking a little before posting" ( Is this necessary AT ALL)

"Not to be obvious, but you know your uterus is not near your leg crease, right?" like come on!!! How would anyone take that?

There is so much information out there which is why it can make things confusing which is why I was asking so many questions. I don't necessary know what everything or anything will feel like its all new. My issue was just how it was said and all I was asking for was information and support. It is very discouraging to have to be treated like this when I was just asking a question!!!!! which Is the whole point of this to begin with. It just makes me feel like I cant ask anyone anything without getting negative comments.

No not everything is rainbows and sunshine and I don't want anyone to sugar coat things, all I was looking for was some support and information at such a scary time. Thank you to the people who gave me good information, as for the others it is what is it. Maybe next time you will think about what you say before you type something. You honestly don't know how it will effect someone.

TheBorg7of9 · March 2015

I honestly didn't understand how you could think that pain near your leg crease or hip would be connected to your uterus. I tried to ask in the nicest way possible, but tone of voice does not come across online. I'm sorry if you think you were treated badly, but the responses you got to your question were incredibly tame compared to what they would have been on this site a few weeks ago. So, try to understand that you were not attacked. Good luck.

PrimRoseMama · March 2015

lynetteStrader said:
I feel the same way. Its like the girls on here are jealous that another girl might get pregnant before them so they attack them. It's not nice. I thought these sights where so we could all get together and support each other. You can give advice in a nice way instead of being rude. My opinion is its pretty immature of them to be so rude.

I'm never jealous of anyone getting pg before me. I've never had trouble getting pg. What the heck?

I haven't seen anyone "get attacked"? Are we reading the same board?

PrimRoseMama · March 2015

Also, FYI OP the last time I had a pain like you described I ended up having a kidney stone. The pain migrated from my groin/hip/leg crease area, & around to my back. So, drink lots of water & keep an eye on it.

TTC is awesome, but not every pain is related to a potential baby. You do have other organs & things.

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BlueWaffleSpeshul · March 2015

lynetteStrader said:
I feel the same way. Its like the girls on here are jealous that another girl might get pregnant before them so they attack them. It's not nice. I thought these sights where so we could all get together and support each other. You can give advice in a nice way instead of being rude. My opinion is its pretty immature of them to be so rude.

Are you serious with this? This is one of the more obnoxious things I've read on here.

moomee · March 2015

Wtf did I just read? Lol

PugsandKisses · March 2015

moomee said:
Wtf did I just read? Lol

Nobody knows.
cues twilight zone music

BlueWaffleSpeshul · March 2015

Oh look, another unnecessary banning.

chrgood27 · March 2015

Im sorry for all the rude anwsers u got from ppl... No one ever feels pain the same way so they should not act like that...i have two boys and the feeling are almost always diffrent... With my first i didnt feel anything just felt pg...with my second i had a little bleeading and cramping and i felt it in the place u are talking about so yes its possible... Im not saying it is caz im not a doc. And im also ttc with number three hopeing for a girl this time. I feel i might be i had a little spotting ob the 28 and ever sence then im cramping and feeling like i have the flu... So wishful thinking... Good luck

TheBorg7of9 · March 2015

chrgood27 said:
Im sorry for all the rude anwsers u got from ppl... No one ever feels pain the same way so they should not act like that...i have two boys and the feeling are almost always diffrent... With my first i didnt feel anything just felt pg...with my second i had a little bleeading and cramping and i felt it in the place u are talking about so yes its possible... Im not saying it is caz im not a doc. And im also ttc with number three hopeing for a girl this time. I feel i might be i had a little spotting ob the 28 and ever sence then im cramping and feeling like i have the flu... So wishful thinking... Good luck

So you had some cramping in your groin with your second pregnancy? What makes you think that was related to the pregnancy? I have also had two babies. Not every muscle cramp has to do with your reproductive organs. Isn't it more likely that you just had a cramp while you happened to be pregnant? I also went through infertility to get my first successful pregnancy. I over analyzed every twinge, comparing every cycle to my miscarriage cycle. This went on for 20 cycles. You can always point to some "feeling" or cramp that indicates you are pregnant. Where does that leave you when your period comes? Heartbroken again. After about 12 cycles (it took about 24 cycles for me to conceive our first full term baby) I realized that I was causing myself more heartache. Every symptom has been attributed to pregnancy by someone at sometime, but it made me feel so much better when I realized the fact that if the hpt was negative, the symptom was simply in no way caused by pregnancy. We are just trying to help people avoid engaging in symptom spotting -- at best a waste of time and at worst psychologically crushing. It is not attacking to explain the truth to people.

chrgood27 · March 2015

Im sorry for the stuggle u have been through... It could have been something else but it was what i had so i was sharing my experince is all. Every woman is different and feels things different.i wasnt trying to give false. Im sorry if thats how it came off to you or anyone else

jnnfrrose6 · March 2015

@TheBorg7of9 you're my favorite.

ETA in a totally non-creepy way.

Jessie42613 · March 2015

DR53114 said:
I didn't say everyone, was rude, but all I was looking for was some answers or had anyone else ever experienced anything like this....not for people to comment like they did, I didn't find all of it not helpful and I think that a lot of what was initially said was good.
"Don't read into every little twinge"- yes, absolutely, this is a good piece of information. (anything I feel right now I get excited about)If you're due on the 13th, implantation probably hasn't happened yet. It happens like 7-10 days after O- This is great to know too!
"We really need to put up all the info again, because people just don't have good information and it would be extremely helpful to know things like when implantation occurs" (Yes can someone please do this lol, as well as the language because its A LOT & overwhelming)
"Here's a crazy idea. Before posting a question, use that nifty search box in the upper right hand corner. You know why people get head banging gifs? Because they ask THE EXACT SAME QUESTION as someone else that could be answered by just looking a little before posting" ( Is this necessary AT ALL)
"Not to be obvious, but you know your uterus is not near your leg crease, right?" like come on!!! How would anyone take that?
There is so much information out there which is why it can make things confusing which is why I was asking so many questions. I don't necessary know what everything or anything will feel like its all new. My issue was just how it was said and all I was asking for was information and support. It is very discouraging to have to be treated like this when I was just asking a question!!!!! which Is the whole point of this to begin with. It just makes me feel like I cant ask anyone anything without getting negative comments.
No not everything is rainbows and sunshine and I don't want anyone to sugar coat things, all I was looking for was some support and information at such a scary time. Thank you to the people who gave me good information, as for the others it is what is it. Maybe next time you will think about what you say before you type something. You honestly don't know how it will effect someone.

Dude come on, learn to laugh at yourself a little.. cause that was funny.

RogueDDG · May 2015

I'm not sure that everyone understands the dynamic on this site.... the first few replies were actually offering genuine advice, or (heaven forbid) poking fun when we're all stuck in the same world of trying to conceive. It's really in how you read the post.

Although I understand that she wants to see if anyone else has experienced this before, it honestly does not help to know whether or not anyone else has experienced it as someone else's experience won't make you pregnant. We are genuinely advising that you should not symptom spot as we have all been there before; over-analyzed ever minute detail and been HEARTBROKEN when what we thought were pregnancy symptoms turned out to be last night's bad chili. We are trying to save you the pain of every month that we went through. So please ladies, when we say we don't symptom spot here, it's not to be mean/snarky, it's to try to make this experience a little better for those who come after us.

To the lady that said "the girls on here are jealous that another girl might get pregnant before them so they attack them".... really? this could not be further from the truth... considering if you really listen to the advice offered here by those "mean" veterans YOU MIGHT ACTUALLY GET PREGNANT SOONER

28alex · May 2015

ddacost1 said:
I'm not sure that everyone understands the dynamic on this site.... the first few replies were actually offering genuine advice, or (heaven forbid) poking fun when we're all stuck in the same world of trying to conceive. It's really in how you read the post.

Although I understand that she wants to see if anyone else has experienced this before, it honestly does not help to know whether or not anyone else has experienced it as someone else's experience won't make you pregnant. We are genuinely advising that you should not symptom spot as we have all been there before; over-analyzed ever minute detail and been HEARTBROKEN when what we thought were pregnancy symptoms turned out to be last night's bad chili. We are trying to save you the pain of every month that we went through. So please ladies, when we say we don't symptom spot here, it's not to be mean/snarky, it's to try to make this experience a little better for those who come after us.

To the lady that said "the girls on here are jealous that another girl might get pregnant before them so they attack them".... really? this could not be further from the truth... considering if you really listen to the advice offered here by those "mean" veterans YOU MIGHT ACTUALLY GET PREGNANT SOONER

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