Some issues im having is the fact that now that I'm letting ppl know that I'm pregnant and I am pretty much showing im getting tired of all the constant and same questions......like whats the gender and was i trying or is my family excited.....or is my husband excited like why wouldn't he be like duh and im tired of the having twins jokes and im noticing that there are a few of my friends/associates that seem to be living vicariously through me or something. Like some ppl that have never contacted me on a normal basis is all of a sudden constantly checking on "me and the baby". Im wondering if it is my hormones tht is causing me to be so annoyed?? What are some issues that someone else is going through?? Or am i all alone....lol
Re: some issues
One of my friends/coworkers just had a baby in January and by the last month we all joked that we were just going to get her a shirt made that said "due January 25th, it's a girl, her name is _____" because she would literally get the same questions from every person all day long.
So yes, it is very annoying, but you are not alone. People get crazy around pregnant women lol.
And yes the fake folks just about make me want to slap them....i be looking at them like really ppl like you are something else like all of a sudden we are going to be besties i dnt freaking think so. Ughhhh the frustration is real....lol
As for someone who hasn't contacted you for a long time- maybe they see this as an opportunity to reconnect.
Anyway, I get your "issues". It's weird how people suddenly want to associate with you in the fun times. But human.
P.S. I agree with puccagirl177 though! It's easy to think "where were you?" but the best response it to take advantage of the opportunity and respond graciously.
I agree with babyrover.. Self reminder: it's because they care! But the irritating part is when they tell you things that you think you haven't heard before like 'make sure you're eating properly' and 'stay active' thanks tips, my professional medical team hasn't mentioned that.