My last pregnancy wasn't exactly planned but we weren't using birth control. We forgot it on our honeymoon. Haha. People couldn't understand why we would want to get pregnant on our honeymoon and it was bothering DH so he told everyone is wasn't planned. To this day it bothers me that people think this because my DD is my life and I don't want people ever thinking she wasn't wanted. It's not like we love her any less.
Wow...glad I'm not the only one dealing with this. My husband and I aren't in the "best" position to have a baby. I was the only one working for a while because my husband had reconstructive foot surgery and needed a year to recover. Most people don't know he has a job now. I told one of my friends we were pregnant and her response was "well I guess it won't have things but at least you will love it". Ummm excuse me??!!!! Yes it will be loved but it will also be well taken care of thank you very much! No...we won't be able to provide every expensive toy out there for our baby...but if I remember correctly the best toy when I was a kid was a box! Lol or pots and pans!!
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People should mind there own business grrrr...