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Too scared to try again after 2 losses..

nyc2015nyc2015 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
26 days post d and c and pretty sure AF is here. 
Feeling way too scared to try again. I am in my 40s.  Got pregnant first try both times but lost the babies.  My gut feeling is I can get pg again 
but most likely will not carry a healthy baby to term.  Though i hope beyond hope against the statistics.  Really I feel too afraid again-
not so much of another loss, though i am..but more of complications during pregnancy with the baby and this is probably very unrealistic-
dying during childbirth.  I have definitely let fear get the best of me, unfortunately.  Looking into adoption but it is overwhelming/confusing and 
surrogacy is so expensive!
Thanks for listening.   These fears are tough to deal with and I know fear keeps good things from happening that we want in life!
Hope everyone is doing as alright as can be.  On the bright side-- March is here tomorrow.  Good riddance February!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Too scared to try again after 2 losses..

  • tracij12tracij12 member
    So sorry to hear of your losses. The fear is definitely understandable. After my 2nd loss I wasn't sure if want to try again either. Take the time you need and make the decision you feel is right for you. Big hugs!
    Married DH 08.28.10
    Pregnancy #1: BFP 04.10.11 EDD 12.23.11 DD1 Born 12.4.11
     Pregnancy #2: BFP 5.12.14 MC 5.20.14 @ 5wk4d
    Pregnancy #3: BFP 11.1.14 EDD 7.5.15 MC 11.13.14 @ 6wk4d
    Pregnancy #4: BFP 1.31.15 EDD 10.5.15 DD2 Born 9.23.15
     
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