Just saying hello to other angel baby mamas

Re: Just saying hello to other angel baby mamas

• ALK2008 member

  February 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss, I just had my d&c this morning and it's either all the pain meds or the fact that it's truly over now that I feel like can move on from it. I have random break downs like when I went to target yesterday and saw the baby section and a pregnant women. It's like little trigger things that cause me to cry, I also had been angry for awhile too where everything made me so mad. I just want to give you lots of hugs and don't feel bad at all for feeling any of those emotions. I tried to bottle mine in and it just made things worse.
  
  I know eventually this will heal, give yourself the time you need and hopefully I can listen to my own advice.
  

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• ekrubanit member

  February 2015

  Thank you Ashley, and lots of hugs to you too. My DH and I have had some long, cathartic crying, and think we feel ready to move on as well. When I do return to work, one of coworkers is just a little farther along than I am.... which is going to be so hard. First I had to deal with her getting pregnant so easily after I waited for 2 years, and now she'll go along to have a happy, healthy pregnancy. Of course I'm so happy for her, but I know this will be my hardest test.
  
  All we can do is be here for each other. XOXO

  

   

  

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• Kristin83 member

  February 2015

  I'm so, so sorry for your loss.  I had my first miscarriage a few weeks ago and it sucks. 
  
  I didn't have a D&C but I hear it's super easy recovery.
  
  Hugs to you.
  

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• mbjones0928 member

  March 2015

  @awishtheheartmakes I had a mc in Dec and my husband and his mom both had dreams it was a girl and my aunt was told by a phsycic (not saying I'm big into psychics...she was at a party) and she told my aunt that my little girl was in heaven with my grandpa. So we're saying it was a girl too . My husband got a tattoo of a sweetpea flower bc according to the aps she would have been as big as a sweetpea.

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• nyc2015 member

  March 2015

  I am so very sorry for your loss.    My first m/c was natural but last month's was a mmc, with a d and c.  I was scared about the procedure over nothing.  They will take such good care of you and it is over before you know it.  No problems afterward either experienced.  Again, I am so very sorry and am sending you healing thoughts and prayers.  I hope all your dreams come true some day soon as you so deserve.    Take extra good care of yourself in the coming weeks~

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• NicoleJustin111711 member

  March 2015

  I'm scheduled for my D&C tomorrow morning. While I'm nervous for the surgery, I'm anxious to put this behind me and start trying again. I have my moments where I lose it, but overall I know there was a reason for the loss and there's nothing we could've done. I'm trying to be positive and just concentrating on the future. Good luck to you! {{hugs!}}

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• jenaabug member

  March 2015

  I lost my daughter to a still birth at 22 weeks in November of 2014. I am so sorry for your loss, and I completely understand the pain, you are not alone 

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