Hello! I know that you can't "plan" when you get pregnant because it can be unpredictable, but I am wondering when other teachers are starting to TTC. Obviously, a baby born any time is a wonderful surprise, but in a job where maternity leave is limited, I would love to try to time things in order to have the most time home with a new baby without using up all of my vacation/sick leave.
My insurance allows me to get pregnant as soon as May 1, but a baby conceived at that time would be due in Feb. (Which would mean covering 14 weeks of maternity leave before summer break starts). Ideally, I'd love an early May (or even late April) due date. I know things can take time, and I'll be just coming off the BCpill which I know can slow things down. What do you think? Start TTC in May and go with the flow if it happens right away, or hold off?
On the plus side, I'd much rather have an early baby, return to work for a couple of weeks and have the summer off again than have to have the baby in Sept. and come right back to work in a few weeks. What are other teachers thinking?
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But, I'm also in Canada - so mat leave is different. I don't think that would have swayed my decision though, because I had been on BCP for well over a decade and we were ready for it to take a long time.
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And the players gonna play play play play play? Seriously, you asked for opinions. You got opinions. Just because it's not the opinion you wanted, don't get your panties in a bunch. No I would not hold off on ttc. That means in an entire year you only will try two months? You only have a 20% chance. What if you have trouble ttc? You won't find out for 6 years then because you'll only have two months a year to go on. It's 12 months of unprotected sex/trying before you will be considered Infertile.
She's a teacher so she can't say "gonna."
OP, I'm a teacher too. I started trying last Feb because I thought it would be perfect to have my baby in November and not come back until January. How naive I was. Here I am a year later and looking into REs. Bottom line... You can't plan life. If being a mother is so important to you, you'll be happy to take what you can get.
I was here for six years. I found your post absolutely ridiculous. You would love to have a baby at a time that doesn't use up all your sick/leave time? WOULDN'T WE ALL?? I have to use up all my sick and leave time for my maternity time. Most of the US does.
Get a clue about the real world.
Good luck and God bless you for teaching the students of today who are so entitled. Those of you who aren't teachers: try to walk a mile in a teacher of today's shoes. It's even harder pregnant.
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