dear diary-heart broken

Re: dear diary-heart broken

• shrkfan member

  February 2015

  I'm so sorry your going thru this.

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• Ndm410 member

  February 2015

  I'm sorry. I'm sure your emotions are all over the place and being pregnant doesn't help that. As pp stated, I hope you have some friends or family you can look to for support. Only time can make it better and hopefully that comes soon for you. Just try to focus on yourself and you LO and making sure you both have everything that you need. In the end, that's all that really matters. Good luck.

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• court476 member

  February 2015

  nonyaeffinbusiness said:

  Are you kidding me with this post? Sounds like he needed a reason to dump your ass before things got really messy and couldn't think of anything better. Also how does he have two step kids? Unless he's still married to someone else or you have 2 other kids that doesn't make sense. One more thing, if this isn't his baby I think I can safely assume that you have been together for less than 8 months and would most likely not know if you were "perfect" for each other in the first place.

  
  
  He was married but got divorced. The kids technically aren't his but he still spends time with them when he's in. He doesn't have time because he works off shore 14 days out 7 days in. When he gets home he likes to spend time with the kids. Which leaves no time for "us". No we haven't been together for 8 months. Just shy of that. But either way it doesn't hurt any less.

  
  

  

  

  
  

  
  

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• dbsbaby2015 member

  February 2015

  Oy vay...prayers for your baby. That's all I've got...

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• dana1047 member

  February 2015

  I'm sorry you're going through this. I have found though that if someone cares enough, they will make time for you. Keep your head up & do what's best for you & baby.

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• pistachio&blush member

  February 2015 edited February 2015

  I don't feel sorry for you. You got pregnant by X. Then started dating Y 1 month later while pregnant by X. Or maybe you were dating X & Y at the same time? Now you are upset that Y broke up with you.
  
  Your focus should be on your child and not dating right now.

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• Dvine21 member

  February 2015

  I sense a whole lot of spontaneous irresponsible decision-making sorry. Your focus should be on nothing else but baby period. Love should come later considering the circumstances.

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• angelike81 member

  February 2015

  Break ups are always hard. Sorry your going through this right now when your very vulnerable but it's better that he broke it off now. Like others said if you were truly important to him he would be willing to make time for you just like he makes time for his step kids. It's probably more than he can handle.

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• mrsmeyer419 member

  February 2015

  I'm sorry, that's rough. Breakups are hard enough not pregnant, and for those of y'all being all judgey, maybe she wasn't in a serious commutes relationship when she got pregnant, then started dating this guy and later found out she was pregnant. There are tons of senarioes that could be goin on. Unless your shit don't stink stop judging.

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• pistachio&blush member

  February 2015

  mrsmeyer419 said:

  for those of y'all being all judgey .... Unless your shit don't stink stop judging.

  
  You don't get to dictate other peoples responses and opinions.
  
  
  If giving my opinion is "judging" then you are judging too when you gave yours. You are no better than anyone else.
  
  
  The OP never mentioned any concern about her baby. I stand by what I said. Her focus should be on her child.

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