So I don't do "birth plans" as far as what music you play or lighting/candle scents. My question though is at what point do you/did you talk to your OB/midwife? I've never had to have the discussion because DS #1 was an easy vaginal birth, DD was going to be but my water broke when I was dilated to 10 so she flipped and we had an emergency c/s, DS#2 was induced at 37 weeks due to oligohydramnios and IUGR and couldn't handle the contractions so he was a repeat C/S. Now DS #3 has been well so far, and we will be monitoring him closer than previous pregnancies, but on one hand I am not sure I'm done having children and I'm worried about risks of a 3rd, 4th, 5th etc... C/S, but I'm also worried about the risks of abruption if I VBA2C. Anyway, I'm 28 weeks, at what point do you seriously discuss birthing options?
Re: Birthing option discussion
Just bring it up during the next appt.