July 2015 Moms

devastating news at 18 week ultra sound:((

I went in for my level 2 ultrasound 2 days ago,blood work prior was absolutely perfect, I was thirlled we we going to find out if was girl or boy, only to be told this baby is incompatible with life, chromosome 13 n showed major deformities on ultrasound if I carry on the baby will pass after delivery:(( I have no words I can not stop crying, nor did I ever think this would happen, giving a 1 percent chance, I was the 1 percent.
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Re: devastating news at 18 week ultra sound:((

  • My heart aches for you. I'm so sorry.
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  • I am so sorry for this news.  I can't imagine.

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  • So terribly sorry for you...
  • I am so sorry for the devastating news. You are in my thoughts & prayers. Truly heartbreaking... Please take care.
  • Im so so sorry- that should never happen to anyone
  • I'm so sorry. My T&P are with you.
  • I am truly sorry for your terrible news. Please take care of yourself. You and your baby will be in my thoughts and prayers.
  • My heart just broke for you. I am so sorry. You and your family will be in my T&P.
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  • That is heartbreaking news. I know no words will help you feel better, but I just want to let you know that you are not alone. Friends of mine went through the same experience many years ago, and 2 years later were blessed with a daughter. Hugs to you, and I hope you have an amazingly loving support system surrounding you. 


     







     
              
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  • Thoughts and prayers to you!
  • I am so terribly sorry. I have no words but my heart goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your beautiful baby and your family.
  • Sending love
  • ((Hugs)) I'm so sorry. Please be kind to yourself.

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  • I am so sorry. Many hugs for you.
  • I am so sorry. Praying for you.
  • I'm so sorry to read this, many thoughts and prayers for you all.
  • Wow this is so tragic, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. So sorry for you :(
  • Ugh, this literally makes me feel sick. I can't even imagine what I would do. So sad for you.
  • Will keep you in my thoughts. I'm sorry. We will never understand why these things happen. Try to stay strong and surround yourself with the support you need. I never thought I'd get thru my 2 previous losses.... You WILL get thru this!!!!
  • I'm so sorry and I know there are no words to comfort u. Please know you are in my thoughts right now. XoXo.
  • I'm so so sorry. I can't say anything to make it better, but know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • Praying for strength, grace and comfort. I am so sorry to hear this.
  • That is heartbreaking, my thoughts & prayers are with you & your family. I am so sorry.
  • Many thoughts and prayers for you and your family at this time. Take care of yourself.
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  • Sending positive thoughts your way. I'm so sorry this had to happen to you.
  • I am so sorry :( sending prayers your way
  • So so sorry you are dealing with this. I wish you peace during this time and time to heal. Please be gentle with yourself.
  • I am so so sorry. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through right now. Sending prayers your way!
  • Very sorry for your sad news :(
  • I am so terribly sorry! Prayers for healing for you and your family <3
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  • My heart is breaking for you and your family. I'm sorry to hear such devastating news. You will get your rainbow baby <3
  • So so sorry for you. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
  • I'm so very sorry. This happened to a friend of mine at 20 weeks. To give you hope she went on to get pregnant again 8 weeks after the abortion and had a healthy baby girl. Such a devastating ordeal, I'm so sorry.
  • I'm very sorry to read your sad news. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
  • So sorry for your devastating news. Whatever you decide to do will be for the best for you and your family xx
  • cls2015cls2015 member
    edited February 2015
    I am so sorry you are going through this. My husband and I had a similar thing happen last year - we found out our baby had a severe deformity that was 100% incapable with life. We made the incredibly hard decision to terminate the pregnancy - in the end we felt it was less traumatic for the baby and for us to do this at an earlier stage than to lose our baby at birth. Please take as much personal time as you need to figure out what you need to do. It's the hardest thing I've ever been through, but lean on the people you trust most and you will make it through. T&Ps
  • I'm so sorry this is happen. I will say a prayer for your family.
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