I get that people are annoyed when posters don't "search" prior to posting. But really, isn't the whole point of this community to be supportive of eachother going through this amazing but sometimes scary experience? Why not just skip posts that you're not interested in? Instead of berating eachother for double posting? I'm a FTM and was excited when I found this community/board/app for support with all the unknown. Now I just feel like it's become so negative and unsupportive that it's pointless.
Re: Almost every post I read has turned into a negative thread
Crazy things happened, amazing ladies got banned for little to no reason, and I completely understand why everyone was pissed off. I was too. I thought about leaving, but I can't find another website or app that I like because I don't want puppies and rainbows. But what's been going on? Calling women names and belittling them just because they were once lurkers but decided not to be anymore? And I'm still rather appalled by the behavior on that roll call thread the other day. Am I missing something? She just wanted to know who all was here and so she gets called a bitch? Let's act like adults, please.
And those of you who are rightfully pissed off, either move on to this new site or stop being so rude! There's no need for name calling th e people who are just now coming out...not everyone finds this site right away or some people just aren't ready to come out and speak.
But can I also please please ask that people start reading a few pages of the board before posting a new topic! Because seeing 5 out of 10 new topics of have you felt movement yet is getting old! And same with seeing baby names threads! There is already one that has been really popular that has about 13+pages to it read it!
I get pretty upset when I miss an update from someone who is going through a truly difficult time because 10 snowflakes felt the need to AW their babies sex or their name options in separate threads on this board instead of posting in the a/s thread pinned at the top or travelling over to the names board.
I get that people have had losses and that's really tough to deal with. But that's no reason to be rude to those who are excited about being FTM. Yes there is a lot of fluff on there and honestly we all aren't lucky to be stick skinny and look like a bump at first some of us do start off looking fatter than like having a bump! Those posts are sometimes people looking for others that feel the same way! In the world we live in people are shallow and make fun of those that are fat. I am sorry for those who have lost their babies it's a very difficult thing to deal with and talk about. But like I said not everyone deals with it and theirs no reason to be rude to those that aren't dealing with it.
2nd round exp 8/20/18.
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Married 10/9/2009
The beautiful Royelle Marie born 2/7/2012
Baby #2 coming June 11, 2015 (Scheduled CS)
Are you fucking kidding me? Not once has anyone said, we had a loss today all other threads aren't important. You're clearly an ignorant piece of shit to even think that, let alone say it. What has been said is that all of the damn "guess my gender", "it's a boy/girl", "need help with a name" posts belong in the stickied boards.
I understand by commenting I bumped this again, but you seem to be bumping a lot of junk. Try to stick to useful threads and hopefully we'll get the board back to normal.
If this place is to return to some normalcy (and I'm not holding my breath) the majority of the annoying/redundant/your so mean threads need to be ignored & not continuously bumped.
BFP #1: 11 October 2014
EDD: 22 June 2015 -- updated DD: 20 June 2015