How long did your LO's 4 month wakeful period last. I am a little at my wits end here. Prior to hitting the 4 month wake like the Jan 6th (ish). She was waking at like 2:30 to eat and sometimes again 5:30. Sometimes she would just sleep until 7 however. I realize that is pretty good for an almost 4 month old. Now she goes down at 7:30 (nurses), wakes at 10, 12, 2, 4 and 6 to nurse. I could set my clock by her and I am exhausted. I feel like I have a brand new baby again (she wasn't even that bad at a couple days old!). I am so exhausted. Nothing really consoles her except nursing. Any words of wisdom?
Re: 4 month wakeful
About 3 weeks. After counting up how many weeks LO is (I moved to months about 2 months ago, lol) yeah - he calmed down around week 19. It was like, one night he just woke up once, and then not at all, and he has pretty much been sleeping from 8 pm until 6 am for the past 2 weeks.
We tried everything we learned from books and advice and finally we just thought, "eff it, we're going back to what we were doing before when he was sleeping through the night 3 weeks ago." My assessment is that there really is no secret formula for this that works in all situations. We started feeding him cereal and putting him down earlier around the same time he started sleeping better - don't know if it had anything to do with it. I think it was just coincidence, honestly.
I know it feels like it will never end. There were many a nights I held him while I cried, but it's part of it. It is what it is and it will get better. Promise.