Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry for your loss. This breaks my heart. I remember how I felt when I lost each of my grandparents. I'll be thinking about and praying for you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss, your story about the past Christmas is wonderful, and I am so glad you have that memory to hold on to.
I will be thinking of you and your family.
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T&Ps I can totally empathize after a similar experience with my first pregnancy and my great grandma passing suddenly. It's so hard and very understandable to take a break from socialization. Not block your family out though, I'm sure you're close to them from what you've said. Family is such an excellent support for each other through loss. Lots of Love to you and yours!
@tiffbot1985 I'm so sorry for your loss! My grandma passed away this past weekend (last Friday), so I know exactly how you feel. She lived 10 mins away and we were at her house two or three times a week throughout my entire childhood. She had advanced Alzheimer's, but I'm so thankful that I got married while she still could remember who I was. I know she would have been so excited to meet my baby and I'm so sad Baby will never get the chance to know his or her wonderful great-grandma. I'll be thinking of and praying for your family!
I'm so sorry to hear this. Both my grandfathers died from illness when I was young and I get choked up thinking about them not getting to meet their first great-grandchild. It must be so hard when it's so close and sudden. I wish he'd been able to brag about 14. I'm so glad you were able to have that Christmas together and get family pictures. That was an inspired idea. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I agree with @brennazesquire that it makes sense to want to know now. I think you should give it serious thought and go with what feels right.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find some peace. It's hard even if you know it's coming. He's in a better place and not sick anymore. I pray that brings you comfort.
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So sorry for your loss. It seemed like you got to spend some quality time together with your family before he passed and it is so special that there was a photographer there to capture it all.
So sorry for your loss Hun! My grandfather passed away nov 26th suddenly in his sleep. I know how you're feeling about wishing he could've met baby on the way. But I also know that he'll be watching over when baby does arrive. Sending prayers and thoughts your way.
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I will be thinking of you and your family.
Mom to P (12/7/10) Step-Mom-to-be to H (05/29/13)
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BFP 06/19/2015 16 week loss, Penny June
2015 Working with RI; Diagnosed with thrombopheiia and celiacs
BFP 03/12/16 TWINS AGAIN! PLEASE BE OUR RAINBOWS
Lots of Love to you and yours!
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Laparoscopy/Dye Test August 2014 showed blocked fallopian tubes - both cleared!
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