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**chalmette**

brandonswife07brandonswife07
in Babies: 9 - 12 Months

why would you try to make me feel worse in my surgery post?

of course i'm going to be terrified when he's under anesthesia.  why would you post that?

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  • vanillacouragevanillacourage member
    She was making an observational statement.

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  • chalmettechalmette
    Prepare yourself so you don't go into hysterics when they wheel him away.
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  • brandonswife07brandonswife07

    wtf is wrong with you?

    did you read my post or are you just looking for a fight for fun?  i believe it said, "yes i will be scared the day of" or something like that.

    go therapize yourself.  figure out what is wrong with you, because it's beyond me.

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  • akiernanakiernan

    BW, I think you took her response to your OP completely the wrong way, merely because you just don't like her. 

     


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  • chalmettechalmette
    imagebrandonswife07:

    did you read my post or are you just looking for a fight for fun?

    I believe you hopped over to my usual board and paged me. I was simply trying to be courteous and warn you that you are not allowed to be with your child when they anesthetize him. You have to say good-bye to him awake. You will be a mess. I was unaware of that fact, pregnant and in hysterics when my firstborn was wheeled away.

    I also believe I put "I hope everything goes smoothly" in my reply to your thread. Read.For.Comprehension.

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  • rjbear21rjbear21 member
    kind of unrelated to this post bw, but does S have trouble urinating then?
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  • breezey2323breezey2323
    imagechalmette:
    imagebrandonswife07:

    did you read my post or are you just looking for a fight for fun?

    I believe you hopped over to my usual board and paged me. I was simply trying to be courteous and warn you that you are not allowed to be with your child when they anesthetize him. You have to say good-bye to him awake. You will be a mess. I was unaware of that fact, pregnant and in hysterics when my firstborn was wheeled away.

    I also believe I put "I hope everything goes smoothly" in my reply to your thread. Read.For.Comprehension.

    I didn't read the OP. But I find this really helpful advice. I got a little anxious/teary reading it. Mikey has surgery scheduled in May and he has to be put under. It makes me feel sick that I won't get to be with him.

    Tongue Tied

    B-Dub, maybe you just took it the wrong way.

     

     

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  • brandonswife07brandonswife07

    i've talked to plenty of moms whose babies have had surgery, including my sister, and i am, what i feel is well-prepared.  one got to go with her baby for the anesthesia, another didn't.  the one who did advised me not to go.  i planned on taking that advice if i was offered.

    just the, "you're going to be terrified, but i hope it goes well!" especially who it came from, sounded kind of stupid.

    of course i will be scared.  my baby's going to be cut open.  no need to rub it in.

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  • chalmettechalmette
    Your first mistake, BW, was thinking I'd care what you think. Your second was your inability to separate the center of the universe from yourself. It's called empathy. I can see that it was wasted.
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