Are you satisfied with your OB's care?

boxermamahm · January 2015

As a FTM, one thing I was deeply surprised about is how little time my OB spends with me at each appointment. The nurse or aide takes my weight and BP. And then the doctor comes in and I don't think I have her in the room for more than 3-5 minutes where she measures Fundal height and listens to baby's hb with the Doppler. I haven't had any complications or issues so I suppose it's fine but I just expected more monitoring and communication.

What has your OB experience been like? Are you satisfied with your care?

dana1047 · January 2015

My nurse does the fundal height & Doppler.

My OB comes in and discusses any questions & tells me what the next few weeks will be like.

Total visit time is around 20 minutes maybe? Unless it's high risk I assume this is normal.

lindsayanne14 · January 2015

I go to a practice and rotate between 6 OBs. This is not my first PG, so my appointments do seem shorter, but some Drs spend more time than others. I would say for me the average is 10 minutes. Truthfully, appointments are sort of like check-ins and really don't need to be very long.

That being said, FTMs often have lots of questions and your Dr should be making the time to be sure your questions are thoroughly answered. Although it may be late in the game to find a new OB for this PG, you may considering switching for a subsequent pregnancy if you aren't satisfied with her care.

boxermamahm · January 2015

RHoPA1109 said:
What more do you want? Have a conversation about the weather? It's just like any other medical situation, nurse does the dirty work, doctor comes in to address any major concerns. Monitoring of what? Communication about what?

If you have questions, ask them to the OB and they'll be happy to answer, but if you don't it's not like they're going to sit there and shoot the shit with you, there are 10 other pregnant women they need to see in the adjoining rooms. Be happy you have no concerns and don't have to speak with the OB or other specialists more extensively. If you want more personalized pregnant-lady attention hire a doula.

ETA: I'm a FTM as well. No beef with the OB here.

I'm not complaining, as she's pleasant and everything has been fine so far. I just sort of expected more monitoring, and wondered if my 3-5 minute face time with her is the norm.

It would be nice for her to have more questions/warnings about potentially troubling symptoms I should be aware of, and perhaps a little more education about what is to come as things progress. I have no idea when we discuss delivery or anything like that.

taahira · January 2015

What more monitoring are you expecting?
My prenatal is listed as a 15 min appointment. Within that time frame, they check BP, Baby, and urine sample. All of which would indicate any issues should they come back out of the normal range, in which further investigation would take place. Unless I have any questions or concerns there really isn't anything else to say or do. If I have questions, my OB has taken the time to answer them. I'm unsure what your expectations are, if your having an easy pregnancy, how much more monitoring are you looking for?

Ginja85 · January 2015

My OB experience is about the same as yours. I like just getting shit done, if I have questions I ask them & get my answers promptly. Maybe 5 minutes tops.

If you're looking for a more in-depth & handholding experience perhaps a midwife would be a better option. I met the midwife at my practice once & it was the longest appointment I've ever had, completely aggravated the shit out of me.

JAP09-02 · January 2015

I have to ditto RHoPA1109, in that you should be grateful you don't really have anything going on to warrant more time needed. If you have questions then you should be prepared to ask them, and your provider should take the time to answer them satisfactorily. I can understand being disappointed or upset if you felt like you are being brushed off.

AFM, I am happy with the care my OB provides. However, I saw the PA at my last appointment and was less than impressed. She just seemed uncomfortable with the situation and very "stiff." I also had to bring up the fact that my glucose challenge hadn't been scheduled yet. I feel that if I hadn't brought it up it would have been overlooked. Sometimes you have to be your own advocate.

RIngReady · January 2015

My appointments have always been similar to what you described. This is my second pregnancy with this Dr. so yes I have been satisfied.

I feel that this is my pregnancy and my child and therefore my responsibility to research, learn, and prepare for. If I have a question and ask my Dr. she will answer it, but feel I should respect her time and not expect a 15 minute conversation each visit unless it is necessary.

If you are unsatisfied with your care it is not to late to switch providers. Maybe a midwife would be a more appropriate fit for you, or perhaps a family doctor.

mapledonuts · January 2015

FTM here and yes, I was surprised too on how short the appointments are. Just think of them as mini check ups. They are just making sure you're on track and healthy.

aly&jj · January 2015

This is typical from my experience. If your having a complication free pregnancy there's really no need to do anything other than what they do. I would not be happy if these appointments took longer than 10 minutes, there's no need for it. If you have any concerns I would write them down and talk to her about them at your next appointment.

boxermamahm · January 2015

By way of example, in my first appointment, I was surprised that the doctor thought warning me not to sky dive or horseback ride (we live in a city and I don't think anything about me suggests I partake in either hobby), but completely neglected to mention anything about prenatal vitamins.

boxermamahm · January 2015

mapledonuts said:
FTM here and yes, I was surprised too on how short the appointments are. Just think of them as mini check ups. They are just making sure you're on track and healthy.

My surprise is that before conceiving,'I just sort of imagined the appointments would be longer and more in depth. I am very grateful for a so-far uncomplicated pregnancy and I am satisfied with my doctor's care-- just a little surprised that that's all there is to it!

jlworden710 · January 2015

My pregnancy has NOT been uneventful and my appointments are still "short" and to the point, but with that said, all my questions get answered and I love my OB office... I ask the questions that I need answered, but I also dont go in expecting for someone to describe what pregnancy is going to be like week by week.

That being said, I am a FTM, but this is my 3rd pregnancy. I go to a practice where I rotate through 7 OBs and whoever is on call with be the one that delivers. I have been through all of them at this point and love them all. My primary OB and I have been through a lot together, we have been through the 2 losses and the referral to the RE for the surgery and now I am back "home". Most people tend to not like her as much because she "isnt nice" and doesnt sugar coat things... frankly that is what I like about her... I dont need a hand holder, I need someone that is going to get me my baby here safe and healthy.

ETA: I would honestly only really be worried if you asked questions and they did not answer them... but everything you described seems to be a by the book OB visit.

fourthtimesacharm · January 2015

Pregnant women are (usually) healthy patients in comparison to other specialty clinics. Where I go, usually a medical assistant takes my BP & weight and asks if I have any concerns, and my MW goes over concerns. If everything is fine there is no reason for them to do anything else.

angelfish628 · January 2015

In my opinion, an uneventful, short, and to the point pregnancy appointment is a blessing. If you have questions, write them down and address them with your OB during the appointment. Like other PPs have said, all doctors are busy and don't have time to chat or mind read. They aren't going to know what your concerns are until you ask. If you have specific questions, I'm sure he or she would be willing to spend an extra 10 minutes with you. If not then it's time to find a new OB.

carter604 · January 2015

I swapped over to a midwife before Christmas for just this reason. I felt like I was getting more info from the Internet than I was from my doctor. She didn't even ask if I had questions. Perhaps they assume you're reading pregnancy books or just have a "we'll discuss that when the time comes" mentality. It could be worth switching providers if you still have time and options available. My new midwives are giving me the touchy-feely 45 min appointment experience I was looking for - it's up to you to take charge.

marybeth05 · January 2015

Short appointments are normal. With my first pregnancy I would always take my list of questions in with me so I didn't forget to ask. Now with my 4th pregnancy (1 loss) I appreciate the quick appointments!

CivilMommy · January 2015

short appointments are normal. If you don't ask questions -there isn't much to talk about. You aren't paying them for chit-chat really.

I like my OB. I make it a point to be conversational and ask questions and even then...I see here for a total of 5 minutes for these appointments.

ElizabethSwann · January 2015

I like them short and sweet and to the point.

boxermamahm · January 2015

Swoon13 said:
I love my OB. But yeah she only comes in and talks to me for about 5-10 mins. That's normal and expected.

The thing you have to understand is, she's not just in the office seeing 20 pregnant women for 10 mins at a time. She's also delivering babies.

Seriously, what were you expecting? Coffee and chat for an hour?

Actually, she's not delivering babies because the on call doctor is doing that. She's just seeing patients.

Not once did I imply I expected an hour to chat. I just think 3-5 minutes isn't really sufficient to be able to outline what to expect next, and to cover any questions and concerns. Truthfully I think the 10 minutes you mention your appointment with your doctor lasts would be far more sufficient-- it would be 2-3x the time I see mine!

I discussed this with a friend of mine who is a primary care physician and he agrees that I am absolutely not getting comprehensive care... But that's true of most patients at most doctors offices across America. He does spend a good 10-15 minutes with each of his patients, more as needed.

boxermamahm · January 2015

clairhuxtable said:
Short appointments are normal. If you'd like more information, maybe start asking what can you expect in the next few weeks until your next appointment, if there's anything you should or should not be doing, or any troubling symptoms to look out for. Basically, speak up. If you want more from the doc, ask more questions. It will open up more dialogue and hopefully make you feel more comfortable. And if you're wondering about what to ask, just think about all those symptoms and weird things that people ask about here that we say"you should really ask your doctor!"

Edit: oh and I love my doctor. She's the best. I'm super high risk and I still only see her for ten minutes at my regular appointments.

10 minutes is way better than 3! (And my doctor has been known to spend part of that time complaining about how cold or tired she is.) I usually rely on books and Internet for an idea of what's going on with my body and what symptoms are normal. But those things can't tell me what to expect my doctor to be doing at the next appointments; it'd be nice if she covered that, and made a point to ask if I had any questions. And I'm really not even dissatisfied with her! It's obviously fairly normal, but I think nervous pregnant women should maybe get slightly more comprehensive care.

taahira · January 2015

boxermamahm said:

Swoon13 said:
I love my OB. But yeah she only comes in and talks to me for about 5-10 mins. That's normal and expected.

The thing you have to understand is, she's not just in the office seeing 20 pregnant women for 10 mins at a time. She's also delivering babies.

Seriously, what were you expecting? Coffee and chat for an hour?
Actually, she's not delivering babies because the on call doctor is doing that. She's just seeing patients.

Not once did I imply I expected an hour to chat. I just think 3-5 minutes isn't really sufficient to be able to outline what to expect next, and to cover any questions and concerns. Truthfully I think the 10 minutes you mention your appointment with your doctor lasts would be far more sufficient-- it would be 2-3x the time I see mine!

I discussed this with a friend of mine who is a primary care physician and he agrees that I am absolutely not getting comprehensive care... But that's true of most patients at most doctors offices across America. He does spend a good 10-15 minutes with each of his patients, more as needed.

You have had a ton of advise on this thread, and still seem to think your care isn't sufficient, or less than what we are all getting. I would change your OB then, if your not happy with the care your receiving now. I'm sure you won't be happy when it comes to delivering your LO either.

mollymsalyers · January 2015

Be happy you see your actual OB. I spend more time with his PA's and only see him if there is a serious complication. Otherwise until baby is born I don't see him. This suits me, and I like knowing that the staff isn't worried about anything going on with me at the moment.

boxermamahm · January 2015

taahira said:

boxermamahm said:

Swoon13 said:
I love my OB. But yeah she only comes in and talks to me for about 5-10 mins. That's normal and expected.

The thing you have to understand is, she's not just in the office seeing 20 pregnant women for 10 mins at a time. She's also delivering babies.

Seriously, what were you expecting? Coffee and chat for an hour?
Actually, she's not delivering babies because the on call doctor is doing that. She's just seeing patients.

Not once did I imply I expected an hour to chat. I just think 3-5 minutes isn't really sufficient to be able to outline what to expect next, and to cover any questions and concerns. Truthfully I think the 10 minutes you mention your appointment with your doctor lasts would be far more sufficient-- it would be 2-3x the time I see mine!

I discussed this with a friend of mine who is a primary care physician and he agrees that I am absolutely not getting comprehensive care... But that's true of most patients at most doctors offices across America. He does spend a good 10-15 minutes with each of his patients, more as needed.
You have had a ton of advise on this thread, and still seem to think your care isn't sufficient, or less than what we are all getting. I would change your OB then, if your not happy with the care your receiving now. I'm sure you won't be happy when it comes to delivering your LO either.

I've heard nurses do allllll the dirty work in the delivery room if the L&D is going normally. I don't mind that. My friend had her OB show up for 5 minutes to catch the baby; wouldn't bother me as long as there are other professionals there to monitor and help.

I wouldn't even mind if I got more face time with the nurse at routine appointments. But even they are 3-5 minutes max-- most of which they are collecting urine, weighing me, and checking bp. There's very little time, with either party, to find out any information about what to expect or to ask any questions. I just think it's sad that I (and others) pay outrageous premiums for that sort of care.

taahira · January 2015

boxermamahm said:

taahira said:

boxermamahm said:

Swoon13 said:
I love my OB. But yeah she only comes in and talks to me for about 5-10 mins. That's normal and expected.

The thing you have to understand is, she's not just in the office seeing 20 pregnant women for 10 mins at a time. She's also delivering babies.

Seriously, what were you expecting? Coffee and chat for an hour?
Actually, she's not delivering babies because the on call doctor is doing that. She's just seeing patients.

Not once did I imply I expected an hour to chat. I just think 3-5 minutes isn't really sufficient to be able to outline what to expect next, and to cover any questions and concerns. Truthfully I think the 10 minutes you mention your appointment with your doctor lasts would be far more sufficient-- it would be 2-3x the time I see mine!

I discussed this with a friend of mine who is a primary care physician and he agrees that I am absolutely not getting comprehensive care... But that's true of most patients at most doctors offices across America. He does spend a good 10-15 minutes with each of his patients, more as needed.
You have had a ton of advise on this thread, and still seem to think your care isn't sufficient, or less than what we are all getting. I would change your OB then, if your not happy with the care your receiving now. I'm sure you won't be happy when it comes to delivering your LO either.

I've heard nurses do allllll the dirty work in the delivery room if the L&D is going normally. I don't mind that. My friend had her OB show up for 5 minutes to catch the baby; wouldn't bother me as long as there are other professionals there to monitor and help.

I wouldn't even mind if I got more face time with the nurse at routine appointments. But even they are 3-5 minutes max-- most of which they are collecting urine, weighing me, and checking bp. There's very little time, with either party, to find out any information about what to expect or to ask any questions. I just think it's sad that I (and others) pay outrageous premiums for that sort of care.

If your asking questions, the appointment wouldn't be wrapped up in 5 mins. As your OB would take time to answer your concerns. Like I said, it doesn't sound like you will happy with the care provided. Probably time to find a new OB.

specialsn0wflake · January 2015

I would suggest switching doctors but I doubt you'll be happy anywhere. Even with my high risk pregnancy I get less than 10 mins of face time per appt. she measures me, I tell her my current symptoms, and I always bring a list of questions if I have any.

You may not think it's comprehensive enough, but it's the standard as you can see in PPs responses. I'm not sure why you even asked since you seem prepared to argue with everyone that has bothered to take time to answer your question.

This is my 3rd pregnancy and I promise you, it's normal whether you like it or not.

jlworden710 · January 2015

boxermamahm said:

I love my OB. But yeah she only comes in and talks to me for about 5-10 mins. That's normal and expected. The thing you have to understand is, she's not just in the office seeing 20 pregnant women for 10 mins at a time. She's also delivering babies. Seriously, what were you expecting? Coffee and chat for an hour?
Actually, she's not delivering babies because the on call doctor is doing that. She's just seeing patients. Not once did I imply I expected an hour to chat. I just think 3-5 minutes isn't really sufficient to be able to outline what to expect next, and to cover any questions and concerns. Truthfully I think the 10 minutes you mention your appointment with your doctor lasts would be far more sufficient-- it would be 2-3x the time I see mine! I discussed this with a friend of mine who is a primary care physician and he agrees that I am absolutely not getting comprehensive care... But that's true of most patients at most doctors offices across America. He does spend a good 10-15 minutes with each of his patients, more as needed.

If you asked a question, I would like to think your doctor would answer it without a time limit... If you are expecting the doctor to give you a play by play of what to expect, I honestly think that is an unrealistic expectation of an OB... if that is what you are wanting, a midwife or doula may be more your speed. I also think primary care physicians have a different style when it comes to their time with their patients.

Just my 2 cents

emarsh0415 · January 2015

I haven't seen my primary OB since my 12 week appointment. There are 7 OB's total in the practice and I've been rotating through them. Each of them have spent 5-7 minutes with me tops and that's with me busting out my iPhone to read through my questions I've jotted down. These Drs have lots going on and while my pregnancy is my main focus, I'm just one of many pregnant women they see daily, so early on I realized that they weren't going to spoon feed me and go over what to expect week by week, they are always more than happy to answer my questions, but they trust that I'm being proactive and educating myself.

Also, one thing I love about my practice is that if you go into labor during normal business hours your primary OB will be the one to deliver the baby. Just my last appointment the OB I was meeting with had to run out to be at the hospital, a little frustrating as the patient being seen, but also encouraging that if I'm in labor they will drop everything to get to me.

boxermamahm · January 2015

jlworden710 said:

boxermamahm said:

I love my OB. But yeah she only comes in and talks to me for about 5-10 mins. That's normal and expected.

The thing you have to understand is, she's not just in the office seeing 20 pregnant women for 10 mins at a time. She's also delivering babies.

Seriously, what were you expecting? Coffee and chat for an hour?
Actually, she's not delivering babies because the on call doctor is doing that. She's just seeing patients.

Not once did I imply I expected an hour to chat. I just think 3-5 minutes isn't really sufficient to be able to outline what to expect next, and to cover any questions and concerns. Truthfully I think the 10 minutes you mention your appointment with your doctor lasts would be far more sufficient-- it would be 2-3x the time I see mine!

I discussed this with a friend of mine who is a primary care physician and he agrees that I am absolutely not getting comprehensive care... But that's true of most patients at most doctors offices across America. He does spend a good 10-15 minutes with each of his patients, more as needed.

If you asked a question, I would like to think your doctor would answer it without a time limit... If you are expecting the doctor to give you a play by play of what to expect, I honestly think that is an unrealistic expectation of an OB... if that is what you are wanting, a midwife or doula may be more your speed. I also think primary care physicians have a different style when it comes to their time with their patients.

Just my 2 cents

Point of clarification: I want to know what's going to happen at my upcoming appointments (what care/procedures/discussions to expect). I do read pregnancy books to understand what is going to happen with my baby and my body next. A pp suggested the Mayo Clinic book-- that's the one I rely on most!

but it doesn't outline when my doctor will discuss delivery, or disability leave, etc. I will yield your advice and just ask these questions; I'm just saying the environment isn't terribly conducive to it.

boxermamahm · January 2015

rsaj0807 said:
Ok, so you get 3 minutes with doc, right? They don't initiate you to ask questions, correct? Are you asking questions and they're just walking out on you in mid-sentence? If so, I reiterate, find a new doc. If you're not asking questions, then stand up for yourself, and ask some damn questions!

ETA at my last appointment I said, "hey doc, are we doing my GD test next appointment?" Guess what, she said yes.

At my most recent appointment I told my doctor that my heartburn had gotten out of control, in spite of 1/day Pepcid. She said if it gets unbearable she'll send me to a gastroenterologist. That was all-- I would have thought maybe she could prescribe a stronger antacid?

I also had to ask for the results of my anatomy scan and her response was "you passed." Grateful for that but would have been nice (and not time consuming) for her to say "we received the peri's report on your scan and everything looks normal."

taahira · January 2015

boxermamahm said:

jlworden710 said:

boxermamahm said:

I love my OB. But yeah she only comes in and talks to me for about 5-10 mins. That's normal and expected.

The thing you have to understand is, she's not just in the office seeing 20 pregnant women for 10 mins at a time. She's also delivering babies.

Seriously, what were you expecting? Coffee and chat for an hour?
Actually, she's not delivering babies because the on call doctor is doing that. She's just seeing patients.

Not once did I imply I expected an hour to chat. I just think 3-5 minutes isn't really sufficient to be able to outline what to expect next, and to cover any questions and concerns. Truthfully I think the 10 minutes you mention your appointment with your doctor lasts would be far more sufficient-- it would be 2-3x the time I see mine!

I discussed this with a friend of mine who is a primary care physician and he agrees that I am absolutely not getting comprehensive care... But that's true of most patients at most doctors offices across America. He does spend a good 10-15 minutes with each of his patients, more as needed.

If you asked a question, I would like to think your doctor would answer it without a time limit... If you are expecting the doctor to give you a play by play of what to expect, I honestly think that is an unrealistic expectation of an OB... if that is what you are wanting, a midwife or doula may be more your speed. I also think primary care physicians have a different style when it comes to their time with their patients.

Just my 2 cents

Point of clarification: I want to know what's going to happen at my upcoming appointments (what care/procedures/discussions to expect). I do read pregnancy books to understand what is going to happen with my baby and my body next. A pp suggested the Mayo Clinic book-- that's the one I rely on most!

but it doesn't outline when my doctor will discuss delivery, or disability leave, etc. I will yield your advice and just ask these questions; I'm just saying the environment isn't terribly conducive to it.

The point that everyone is telling you this that its your responsibility to ask those questions. "What's going to happen at my next app" that's what you ask. It's on you to ask all these questions, not the doctor to dish out random information with every patience.

taahira · January 2015

boxermamahm said:

rsaj0807 said:
Ok, so you get 3 minutes with doc, right? They don't initiate you to ask questions, correct? Are you asking questions and they're just walking out on you in mid-sentence? If so, I reiterate, find a new doc. If you're not asking questions, then stand up for yourself, and ask some damn questions!

ETA at my last appointment I said, "hey doc, are we doing my GD test next appointment?" Guess what, she said yes.
At my most recent appointment I told my doctor that my heartburn had gotten out of control, in spite of 1/day Pepcid. She said if it gets unbearable she'll send me to a gastroenterologist. That was all-- I would have thought maybe she could prescribe a stronger antacid?

I also had to ask for the results of my anatomy scan and her response was "you passed." Grateful for that but would have been nice (and not time consuming) for her to say "we received the peri's report on your scan and everything looks normal."

This sounds like you need to give your OB a script at every appointment so she knows what you want her to say, and how she should say it. If you felt her answer didn't have enough info, ask further questions.

boxermamahm · January 2015

@taahira. Fair enough. I will write it down among any other questions I have, and hopefully she'll take the time to respond.

boxermamahm · January 2015

Sorry, but I don't think expecting a doctor to provide brief feedback on results of prior testing is asking too much! I shouldn't have to ask for it, it should be part of the standard appointment.

jlworden710 · January 2015

boxermamahm said:

boxermamahm said:

I love my OB. But yeah she only comes in and talks to me for about 5-10 mins. That's normal and expected. The thing you have to understand is, she's not just in the office seeing 20 pregnant women for 10 mins at a time. She's also delivering babies. Seriously, what were you expecting? Coffee and chat for an hour?
Actually, she's not delivering babies because the on call doctor is doing that. She's just seeing patients. Not once did I imply I expected an hour to chat. I just think 3-5 minutes isn't really sufficient to be able to outline what to expect next, and to cover any questions and concerns. Truthfully I think the 10 minutes you mention your appointment with your doctor lasts would be far more sufficient-- it would be 2-3x the time I see mine! I discussed this with a friend of mine who is a primary care physician and he agrees that I am absolutely not getting comprehensive care... But that's true of most patients at most doctors offices across America. He does spend a good 10-15 minutes with each of his patients, more as needed.

If you asked a question, I would like to think your doctor would answer it without a time limit... If you are expecting the doctor to give you a play by play of what to expect, I honestly think that is an unrealistic expectation of an OB... if that is what you are wanting, a midwife or doula may be more your speed. I also think primary care physicians have a different style when it comes to their time with their patients.

Just my 2 cents
Point of clarification: I want to know what's going to happen at my upcoming appointments (what care/procedures/discussions to expect). I do read pregnancy books to understand what is going to happen with my baby and my body next. A pp suggested the Mayo Clinic book-- that's the one I rely on most! but it doesn't outline when my doctor will discuss delivery, or disability leave, etc. I will yield your advice and just ask these questions; I'm just saying the environment isn't terribly conducive to it.

____ stuck in quote box____

Ask the doctor... ask the nurse. Just ask someone, "hey what do these appointments consist of?" If the office doesn't answer the questions... that is a problem. But seriously, maybe look into a midwife. It seems more your style that you are looking for.

taahira · January 2015

boxermamahm said:
Sorry, but I don't think expecting a doctor to provide brief feedback on results of prior testing is asking too much! I shouldn't have to ask for it, it should be part of the standard appointment.

Unfortunately you do have to. They see many women daily, you do have to follow up with your OB about your pregnancy, your results, and your care going forward. Your expectations are way to high. I understand your a FTM, but everything you are describing is standard practice and care.

taramanter · January 2015

I'm on my third OB office. My first was ok but I had to switch because of changing military insurance. My last office was amazing (Fort Drum) I couldn't believe the one on one time with each doctor, it was very surprising to have the doctor do on site ultrasounds and even show me how to put on a belly support band properly. Now we moved and I have my first appointment next week.

emarsh0415 · January 2015

boxermamahm said:

rsaj0807 said:
Ok, so you get 3 minutes with doc, right? They don't initiate you to ask questions, correct? Are you asking questions and they're just walking out on you in mid-sentence? If so, I reiterate, find a new doc. If you're not asking questions, then stand up for yourself, and ask some damn questions!

ETA at my last appointment I said, "hey doc, are we doing my GD test next appointment?" Guess what, she said yes.
At my most recent appointment I told my doctor that my heartburn had gotten out of control, in spite of 1/day Pepcid. She said if it gets unbearable she'll send me to a gastroenterologist. That was all-- I would have thought maybe she could prescribe a stronger antacid?

I also had to ask for the results of my anatomy scan and her response was "you passed." Grateful for that but would have been nice (and not time consuming) for her to say "we received the peri's report on your scan and everything looks normal."

Most Drs go by the "no news is good news" rule, so if they don't bring it up, there's normally nothing to worry about.

abc829 · January 2015

Do you actually ask questions during your appointments? I love my doctor she is a wonderful lady. I can't imagine any of your doctors leaving your room in the middle of you asking questions. I'm sure they assume you are reading books, or have taken classes they suggested. Doctors aren't there for hair pets, they are there for serious issues and quick checks. Be happy your appointments aren't as long as some high risk mamas.

mapledonuts · January 2015

boxermamahm said:

rsaj0807 said:
Ok, so you get 3 minutes with doc, right? They don't initiate you to ask questions, correct? Are you asking questions and they're just walking out on you in mid-sentence? If so, I reiterate, find a new doc. If you're not asking questions, then stand up for yourself, and ask some damn questions!

ETA at my last appointment I said, "hey doc, are we doing my GD test next appointment?" Guess what, she said yes.
At my most recent appointment I told my doctor that my heartburn had gotten out of control, in spite of 1/day Pepcid. She said if it gets unbearable she'll send me to a gastroenterologist. That was all-- I would have thought maybe she could prescribe a stronger antacid?

I also had to ask for the results of my anatomy scan and her response was "you passed." Grateful for that but would have been nice (and not time consuming) for her to say "we received the peri's report on your scan and everything looks normal."

Send you to a gastroenterologist? There are meds she can discuss with you about your heartburn. I had issues with heartburn before pregnancy and made sure to discuss the meds I was currently taking for it when I had my first OB appointment. She had me switch as the one I was taking wasn't recommended while pregnant.

The appointments are going to be short wherever you go, but if you feel unhappy and don't think you are getting the care you want think about switching Doctors.

teril10 · January 2015

I'm a FTM, as well as high risk, and that sounds exactly like my appointments. As long as he's satisfied with my answers and every things going well, then no need to stretch the appt out. It gives him time to move onto someone who needs more time with him. If I have questions he will sit there and answer them, and never seems to be in a hurry. I absolutely love my OB!

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