June 2015 Moms

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  • Today I went in for my Anatomy scan. Doctor had to go to deliver a baby and no one was available to help me. So now I go back tomorrow. Not a huge bummer I mean babies have to come out :)
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  • How are y'all even wanting sex? My hubby practically begs for it and I'm all nope, not going to happen. The few times it has happened, I can freaking walk straight.

    I don't want it but it was our first time since bfp. Felt bad. It was just awkward, he didn't want to hurt me and in my mind i was like stop breathing on me!
    Me 29 DH 38
    Married 07.01.2011
    TTC #1 BFP 09.28.2014 EDD 06.07.2014
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  • @pcrunk I ugly cried over BH during sex so this is probably end of sex until summer..I'm going to cry again..I wish I could just rule out one position and keep going
  • We went for our a/s today and while I was on the fence about wanting to find out baby's sex...DH wanted to so I agreed...well baby wouldn't uncross it's legs so needless to say we couldn't find out. I'm annoyed. Overjoyed that baby is healthy and such however I FINALLY got on board and was excited as I already have two boys and now I don't know :-( I don't like others making those decisions for me! The tech did say she didn't see a penis...but couldn't say with certianty that there wasn't in fact one there. Sigh. Only 22 more weeks!

    Omg this happened to me at 16 weeks! Opposite though. Doctor said he maybe could see something but maybe not. My stepson was in the room and put his hands over his ears n said it is not a boy! It was a hot mess. I find out tomorrow. ...If baby feels like revealing itself ♡
  • My big bitch today is my DH's bestie... Grr this man pisses me off! Hes one of those single men with no children who like to give you a list of things youre doing wrong with your life/pregnancy. So my husband comes home and tells me hes coming over anytime now which I hate keep me in the loop please and then he walks in the door with his dinner and starts trying to dog whisper my dog or some shit yelling at her and stuff so my DH puts her in her crate. I dont think its fair that my dog who lives here has to be locked up every time hes over because he doesnt like normal dog behaviour. Then he proceeds to talk major shit about pretty much everybody we know. My DH doesnt believe he talks crap about US (especially me) even though several people have told him he does. He makes comments about me having my hubby on lockdown and Ive ruined my hubbys life. Um no! My DH grew up yall are almost forty its time to stop bar hoppin and put your big boy pants on.

    Sorry rant over I just hate this guy. He told my husband when we first started dating that "Shes definitely no supermodel" in front of me when I was still losing weight and was insanely self concious.
  • Maybe my sex drive is broken... :(
  • mcp6286mcp6286 member
    edited January 2015



    How are y'all even wanting sex? My hubby practically begs for it and I'm all nope, not going to happen. The few times it has happened, I can freaking walk straight.

    Wut?? It's all I want, all the time. My DH is always like "no, please, just let me eat my dinner in peace you psycho"

    Muahahaha me too @thelittlestbee‌

    And thanks for all your opinions on my friend rant. Sorry to hear that others have dealt with this crap too but thankful for the support. Still don't know what to do but have a feeling I'll take your advice @staciecoffey‌ and try to be the bigger person.
  • I want the sex, but at awkward times, usually when H is late for work
    Or not here, so I'm pretty unfulfilled these days.
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  • pcrunk said:

    YOU GUISE. I'm pretty sure I just had sex in my FAVORITE position for the last time. My bump was in the way and it was distracting and making it push up on my diaphragm more than it already ease so it was definitely not kind to my breathing. Excuse me while I go ugly cry now.

    Not knowing positions for pregnant sex and we tried with me on my back, yeah didn't work out so great. We basically didn't finish and left it at well, yeah good try, how about nxt wk!
    There is a book that had positions and had a whole section on pregnancy fun. I am a little afraid to name it.
  • pcrunk said:

    YOU GUISE. I'm pretty sure I just had sex in my FAVORITE position for the last time. My bump was in the way and it was distracting and making it push up on my diaphragm more than it already ease so it was definitely not kind to my breathing. Excuse me while I go ugly cry now.

    Not knowing positions for pregnant sex and we tried with me on my back, yeah didn't work out so great. We basically didn't finish and left it at well, yeah good try, how about nxt wk!
    There is a book that had positions and had a whole section on pregnancy fun. I am a little afraid to name it.
    Do it on your sides! Laying down of course he can hold your leg (from behind, trying to face each other this way is awkward/hilarious) sorry if tmi but learned this one pre pregnancy and not alot of work involved. :wink:
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    @preggopooters I am in total agreement with this one!  Easiest way.

    My rant is that by complete chance yesterday I rang my midwives and to cut a long story short it came out that I am rhesus negative.  The midwife was very shocked I hadn't been told this at my December appointment and asked if i had been given all the information on it / the anti-D vaccine.  I said obviously not considering I wasn't even told I was rhesus negative!  It's just so annoying as it's complete chance I phone them and that this came out.  I know now I have time to deal with it but I am frustrated that in London now you seem to have a group of midwives rather than one assigned to you and it can completely depend on whether you get a good one or a bad one!
  • My big bitch today is my DH's bestie... Grr this man pisses me off! Hes one of those single men with no children who like to give you a list of things youre doing wrong with your life/pregnancy. So my husband comes home and tells me hes coming over anytime now which I hate keep me in the loop please and then he walks in the door with his dinner and starts trying to dog whisper my dog or some shit yelling at her and stuff so my DH puts her in her crate. I dont think its fair that my dog who lives here has to be locked up every time hes over because he doesnt like normal dog behaviour. Then he proceeds to talk major shit about pretty much everybody we know. My DH doesnt believe he talks crap about US (especially me) even though several people have told him he does. He makes comments about me having my hubby on lockdown and Ive ruined my hubbys life. Um no! My DH grew up yall are almost forty its time to stop bar hoppin and put your big boy pants on.

    Sorry rant over I just hate this guy. He told my husband when we first started dating that "Shes definitely no supermodel" in front of me when I was still losing weight and was insanely self concious.

    Sounds like a real winner. What a jackass!

    Married 10/9/2009

    The beautiful Royelle Marie born 2/7/2012

    Baby #2 coming June 11, 2015 (Scheduled CS)

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  • @mommacandi‌ ya hes an absolute asshat...
  • @mommacandi‌ ya hes an absolute asshat...

    Blah, I'm sorry you have to deal with that!!

    Married 10/9/2009

    The beautiful Royelle Marie born 2/7/2012

    Baby #2 coming June 11, 2015 (Scheduled CS)

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  • @mommacandi‌ ya hes an absolute asshat...

    Blah, I'm sorry you have to deal with that!!
    Thanks! He generally keeps his trap shut around me now after I went a little crazy one day on him because of something he said lol. He makes me think of that Simple Plan song "Grow up" :smiley:
  • My big bitch today is my DH's bestie... Grr this man pisses me off! Hes one of those single men with no children who like to give you a list of things youre doing wrong with your life/pregnancy. So my husband comes home and tells me hes coming over anytime now which I hate keep me in the loop please and then he walks in the door with his dinner and starts trying to dog whisper my dog or some shit yelling at her and stuff so my DH puts her in her crate. I dont think its fair that my dog who lives here has to be locked up every time hes over because he doesnt like normal dog behaviour. Then he proceeds to talk major shit about pretty much everybody we know. My DH doesnt believe he talks crap about US (especially me) even though several people have told him he does. He makes comments about me having my hubby on lockdown and Ive ruined my hubbys life. Um no! My DH grew up yall are almost forty its time to stop bar hoppin and put your big boy pants on. Sorry rant over I just hate this guy. He told my husband when we first started dating that "Shes definitely no supermodel" in front of me when I was still losing weight and was insanely self concious.
    Ugh I totally feel your pain! DH has this dumb friend that would come over at the worst times, like 11 pm on Tuesday night. The guy has no girlfriend, no job, lives with his parents, etc....So to him it wasn't a big deal to hang out at inconvenient times. Well I DO have a job and I have to get up early every morning, so after one night that him and my DH stayed up late drinking and playing pool, I flipped my shit on DH. I told him if he kept letting his stupid friend come over, we were going to have serious marital problems. I had to get really bitchy with my DH but it worked. His stupid friend doesn't come over any more. 
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  • @thelittlestbee‌ lol thats pretty much exactly what happened with us. His friend was in the living room playing the guitar really loud til 1 am and i had to be up at 2 for work. I said something to my DH about it the jerk said something rude and I lost it! Lol that was pre pregnancy if he says something now I may actually kill him. :wink:
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