what time is your LO's last nap? I'm struggling with scheduling- if he gets up at 7 he typically will nap 3x but that stretch from 530-830 which is his last feeding is painful- I just don't know when it's time to stop trying to get a cat nap in there. He usually wails and fights it. I can't put him down for the night earlier due to feeding and poor eating and weight gain.
Re: Late naps
So in theory, if I had your schedule, I wouldn't have the last nap later then 7. But everything always looks good on paper, in life its a different story.
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we still hold our habits so that he knows it is night time, not awake time. when he gets up after we put him down, we are in his darkened nursery, no stimulation beyond eating, very brief rocking after he is finished then right back down. repeat as necessary.
since you are dealing with low weight, do you still need to wake LO at certain intervals? if he is already up a lot due to leap four, would it hurt to try putting him down for the night earlier anyway and then feeding him as necessary through the night? i know PP mentioned dream feeding as something to try.
i think the difference in being down for the night, for us, is really just how we respond to him and his environment in terms of lighting / noise / interaction. i know that being consistent has definitely helped him learn the difference between night time and day time, so even if he wakes up a lot at first with the earlier bed time, he should come to learn that it is no longer a "nap" and is intended to be a longer sleep period.
good luck...
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