Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

Hello, intro

Hi,

I started spotting on NYE, which turned into bleeding a day or two later. I had an ultrasound yesterday and everything looked great. The baby was measuring just a tad small, but had a strong heartbeat. Last night I started having severe cramps, and passed a large blood clot. After that I started feeling much better and stopped bleeding. I called the doctor this morning, and after another ultrasound they found nothing. I'm so sad and in shock since all was well yesterday. 

I don't know how I'm going to be able to return to work tomorrow... I don't really want to be around anyone but my husband. 

Unfortunate circumstances, but I'm glad to have somewhere to turn for support.

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TTC since 9/14
BFP 12/20/14    EDD 8/29     MC 1/5/15

Re: Hello, intro

  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

    It's a very difficult time, can you take a couple of days off? Some find going back to work is helpful but for others it's very difficult.

    *hugs* to you
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • I am so sorry for your loss. (Hugs)

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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     My Chart

  • I'm so sorry. I totally get not wanting to be around anyone. Be extra kind to yourself.
    Me: 34 | He: 40
    TTC since 08/2012
    DX: DOR




  • So sorry for the sudden loss. Take time for yourself! Big hugs!!
    Married DH 08.28.10
    Pregnancy #1: BFP 04.10.11 EDD 12.23.11 DD1 Born 12.4.11
     Pregnancy #2: BFP 5.12.14 MC 5.20.14 @ 5wk4d
    Pregnancy #3: BFP 11.1.14 EDD 7.5.15 MC 11.13.14 @ 6wk4d
    Pregnancy #4: BFP 1.31.15 EDD 10.5.15 DD2 Born 9.23.15
     
  • Another A15 here told. So sorry for your loss!

    Me: 28 
    DH: 34

    IUD out 8/29/13 and TTC since then.
    BFP 12/29/13
    Bleeding 1/17/14 with LO showing 10 days smaller.
    NMC 1/26/14

    Continued trying every month. Began seeing RE 7/2014.

    12/2/14 got first Rx for Clomid for following cycle.
    12/3/14 BFP!!!
    No heartbeat at 8w4d. D&C scheduled for Jan 7, 14 

  • I'm so sorry for your loss, big hugs to you.
    Me: 29 DH: 30
    DS born 12/29/12 @ 41+1 
    TTC#2 07/2014
    BFP 10/14/14 MC 11/14/14 D&C for RT 11/18/2014 
    Given all clear 12/15/2014 - back to TTC



  • Sending big hugs and am so sorry for your loss.
  • I'm sorry for your loss, hugs to you. I completely understand about wanting to be alone. Trying to pretend that everything is normal is the worst so taking some time off work is a great idea if it's possible for you. Take care of yourself!

    2 MC 2014/2015
    Baby #1 born 2/27/2016
    Baby #2 born 3/25/2018
    BFP 06/03/2020, EDD 02/10/2021

    Anniversary
  • Thank yo all for the kind words. I tried going into work, but my supervisor sent me home almost immediately. She had been through this before and just told me to take a week to rest. Still feeling a lot of sadness, but DH and I are trying to feel hopeful about the future.

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    TTC since 9/14
    BFP 12/20/14    EDD 8/29     MC 1/5/15

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