January 2015 Moms

38weeks 5 days no sign of labor

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Re: 38weeks 5 days no sign of labor

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  • @longcat07‌ I want donuts now .... there is a shop close and I'm considering calling a friend to take me there... omg
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  • You all stick together like shit to a blanket.
  • I'll say what I like. As they have to me. Assholes anyone??
  • bigbobdolebigbobdole member
    edited January 2015

    I'll say what I like. As they have to me. Assholes anyone??

    Violation! :-q
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  • I'll say what I like. As they have to me. Assholes anyone??
    QFP

    Well you certainly have enough to pass around!  
  • You all stick together like shit to a blanket.

    That's called "asshole comradery" my dear!  = D

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  • Ladies its really not that big a deal I'm a first time mom and I was just concerned and anxious didn't know that was a crime I wasn't trying to offend anyone. Seriously And if you don't like this post why not just continue with your life why stop and waste time just to be rude about it.
  • AU88 said:

    People are so rude on this. I remember being a FTM and it would've made me more relaxed knowing people are in the same boat as me. People need to quit being mean to other moms. On that note, I am 37w3d with my 3rd, had my blood show 3 days ago and nothing but contractions and cramping since. I was at a 1 1/2 cm and 50% effaced but even then those numbers mean nothing really.

    I agree, that has discouraged me from asking anything since joining.

  • I was to busy to reply & just because I didn't reply back to everyone comments doesn't mean I didn't see them an appreciate them.

    Some of yall are just bullies an it really not nice

  • mperez95 said:

    AU88 said:

    People are so rude on this. I remember being a FTM and it would've made me more relaxed knowing people are in the same boat as me. People need to quit being mean to other moms. On that note, I am 37w3d with my 3rd, had my blood show 3 days ago and nothing but contractions and cramping since. I was at a 1 1/2 cm and 50% effaced but even then those numbers mean nothing really.

    I agree, that has discouraged me from asking anything since joining.


    We were all new here once though, remember that. Nobody came in here already knowing everyone. We just spent time investing in each other, and not just asking our quick questions and leaving never to return again until we have another need of our own. 

    Seems like you need a life, sorry most of us have those and can't spend all day investing our time into a website to make online friends that team up on new people.

  • Maebb said:

    I'll say what I like. As they have to me. Assholes anyone??
    I thought you were going back to "baby bump" two hours ago.

    To the OP, your baby will come whenever he "Deziahs" to do so. Do you like my joke?

    But seriously, I was showing no signs with DS at 38w5d, and then he was born at 39w2d. It was a quick, healthy, and relatively painless labor, and I wish the same for you and all of us. The waiting is not easy, but there's not much else we can do at this point short of medical interventions.


    =)=)) =))

    Lol that's acually funny thanks for the laugh
  • mperez95 said:
    mperez95 said:
    People are so rude on this. I remember being a FTM and it would've made me more relaxed knowing people are in the same boat as me. People need to quit being mean to other moms. On that note, I am 37w3d with my 3rd, had my blood show 3 days ago and nothing but contractions and cramping since. I was at a 1 1/2 cm and 50% effaced but even then those numbers mean nothing really.
    I agree, that has discouraged me from asking anything since joining.
    We were all new here once though, remember that. Nobody came in here already knowing everyone. We just spent time investing in each other, and not just asking our quick questions and leaving never to return again until we have another need of our own. 
    Seems like you need a life, sorry most of us have those and can't spend all day investing our time into a website to make online friends that team up on new people.
    Then why in the world would these same people want to respond to your random questions?  If people didn't invest the time, there would be no board.  If there is no board, then no questions would be answered here.

    There are people who are invested in this board - some more than others.  But all with any level of investment know to read the other threads (at least the most recent ones) before posting the same questions over and over.
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  • @NicoleMarie0914‌ okay I understand and I apologize I came at you snotty cause I felt attacked but I understand what your saying im kinda new to this whole thing I don't have ppl around me to talk to about these things so I thought coming on here would be a good way to get advice from other mothers who have been there that's all again I apologize to anyone I offended next time I will just read other threads instead of asking questions I guess
  • There are no signs.. Doesn't matter if you're dilated/effaced or your nasty plug came or you're having BH contractions. Signs simply don't exist with labor. My water broke when I was taking a nap during my first pregnancy, you can go into labor spontaneously. Why is everyone so impatient for labor? Why not enjoy some days of rest and worry about things when it's time.
    This is where you lose me. Maybe it is more of a FTM thing, but there is definitely anxiety and excitement when it comes to waiting on labor. I've never been through it before, and honestly I'm more anxious about knowing when it will happen than the actual labor itself. Not to mention, I'm uncomfortable and just want to feel like 'me' again instead of pregnant me. There's nothing wrong with feeling impatient. 


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  • @NicoleMarie0914‌ okay I understand and I apologize I came at you snotty cause I felt attacked but I understand what your saying im kinda new to this whole thing I don't have ppl around me to talk to about these things so I thought coming on here would be a good way to get advice from other mothers who have been there that's all again I apologize to anyone I offended next time I will just read other threads instead of asking questions I guess
    Feel free to ask questions, just maybe try searching the board first. And in this case, all you would have had to search was the first page. Anyone is welcome here as long as they don't come in pushing and shoving! And please stick around to tell a couple new moms congratulations, and a few good lucks. We had similar experiences with everyone coming on here asking about their hospital bags, and we had like 3 of the same question all on the first page with some really helpful responses. It gets boring after a while, and we don't like boring very much.



  • @NicoleMarie0914‌ okay I understand and I apologize I came at you snotty cause I felt attacked but I understand what your saying im kinda new to this whole thing I don't have ppl around me to talk to about these things so I thought coming on here would be a good way to get advice from other mothers who have been there that's all again I apologize to anyone I offended next time I will just read other threads instead of asking questions I guess

    Feel free to ask questions, just maybe try searching the board first. And in this case, all you would have had to search was the first page. Anyone is welcome here as long as they don't come in pushing and shoving! And please stick around to tell a couple new moms congratulations, and a few good lucks. We had similar experiences with everyone coming on here asking about their hospital bags, and we had like 3 of the same question all on the first page with some really helpful responses. It gets boring after a while, and we don't like boring very much.

    Okay I will thanks :)

  • @NicoleMarie0914‌ okay I understand and I apologize I came at you snotty cause I felt attacked but I understand what your saying im kinda new to this whole thing I don't have ppl around me to talk to about these things so I thought coming on here would be a good way to get advice from other mothers who have been there that's all again I apologize to anyone I offended next time I will just read other threads instead of asking questions I guess
    Feel free to ask questions, just maybe try searching the board first. And in this case, all you would have had to search was the first page. Anyone is welcome here as long as they don't come in pushing and shoving! And please stick around to tell a couple new moms congratulations, and a few good lucks. We had similar experiences with everyone coming on here asking about their hospital bags, and we had like 3 of the same question all on the first page with some really helpful responses. It gets boring after a while, and we don't like boring very much.
    And maybe don't tell people they need a life... especially since you said yourself you don't have anyone to relate to other than internet strangers... I have a lot of friends and family, but they get tired of hearing me talk about my pregnancy. I come here because everyone can relate. Simple.

  • @NicoleMarie0914‌ okay I understand and I apologize I came at you snotty cause I felt attacked but I understand what your saying im kinda new to this whole thing I don't have ppl around me to talk to about these things so I thought coming on here would be a good way to get advice from other mothers who have been there that's all again I apologize to anyone I offended next time I will just read other threads instead of asking questions I guess
    Feel free to ask questions, just maybe try searching the board first. And in this case, all you would have had to search was the first page. Anyone is welcome here as long as they don't come in pushing and shoving! And please stick around to tell a couple new moms congratulations, and a few good lucks. We had similar experiences with everyone coming on here asking about their hospital bags, and we had like 3 of the same question all on the first page with some really helpful responses. It gets boring after a while, and we don't like boring very much.
    And maybe don't tell people they need a life... especially since you said yourself you don't have anyone to relate to other than internet strangers... I have a lot of friends and family, but they get tired of hearing me talk about my pregnancy. I come here because everyone can relate. Simple.
    A different poster made the comment about getting a life. 
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  • @NicoleMarie0914‌ okay I understand and I apologize I came at you snotty cause I felt attacked but I understand what your saying im kinda new to this whole thing I don't have ppl around me to talk to about these things so I thought coming on here would be a good way to get advice from other mothers who have been there that's all again I apologize to anyone I offended next time I will just read other threads instead of asking questions I guess

    Feel free to ask questions, just maybe try searching the board first. And in this case, all you would have had to search was the first page. Anyone is welcome here as long as they don't come in pushing and shoving! And please stick around to tell a couple new moms congratulations, and a few good lucks. We had similar experiences with everyone coming on here asking about their hospital bags, and we had like 3 of the same question all on the first page with some really helpful responses. It gets boring after a while, and we don't like boring very much.

    And maybe don't tell people they need a life... especially since you said yourself you don't have anyone to relate to other than internet strangers... I have a lot of friends and family, but they get tired of hearing me talk about my pregnancy. I come here because everyone can relate. Simple.

    I never said anyone needed to get a life

  • @NicoleMarie0914‌ okay I understand and I apologize I came at you snotty cause I felt attacked but I understand what your saying im kinda new to this whole thing I don't have ppl around me to talk to about these things so I thought coming on here would be a good way to get advice from other mothers who have been there that's all again I apologize to anyone I offended next time I will just read other threads instead of asking questions I guess
    Feel free to ask questions, just maybe try searching the board first. And in this case, all you would have had to search was the first page. Anyone is welcome here as long as they don't come in pushing and shoving! And please stick around to tell a couple new moms congratulations, and a few good lucks. We had similar experiences with everyone coming on here asking about their hospital bags, and we had like 3 of the same question all on the first page with some really helpful responses. It gets boring after a while, and we don't like boring very much.
    And maybe don't tell people they need a life... especially since you said yourself you don't have anyone to relate to other than internet strangers... I have a lot of friends and family, but they get tired of hearing me talk about my pregnancy. I come here because everyone can relate. Simple.
    A different poster made the comment about getting a life. 


    @NicoleMarie0914‌ okay I understand and I apologize I came at you snotty cause I felt attacked but I understand what your saying im kinda new to this whole thing I don't have ppl around me to talk to about these things so I thought coming on here would be a good way to get advice from other mothers who have been there that's all again I apologize to anyone I offended next time I will just read other threads instead of asking questions I guess
    Feel free to ask questions, just maybe try searching the board first. And in this case, all you would have had to search was the first page. Anyone is welcome here as long as they don't come in pushing and shoving! And please stick around to tell a couple new moms congratulations, and a few good lucks. We had similar experiences with everyone coming on here asking about their hospital bags, and we had like 3 of the same question all on the first page with some really helpful responses. It gets boring after a while, and we don't like boring very much.
    And maybe don't tell people they need a life... especially since you said yourself you don't have anyone to relate to other than internet strangers... I have a lot of friends and family, but they get tired of hearing me talk about my pregnancy. I come here because everyone can relate. Simple.
    I never said anyone needed to get a life

    __Stuck in box__  

    Thanks for the correction ladies!


  • There are no signs.. Doesn't matter if you're dilated/effaced or your nasty plug came or you're having BH contractions. Signs simply don't exist with labor. My water broke when I was taking a nap during my first pregnancy, you can go into labor spontaneously. Why is everyone so impatient for labor? Why not enjoy some days of rest and worry about things when it's time.

    This is where you lose me. Maybe it is more of a FTM thing, but there is definitely anxiety and excitement when it comes to waiting on labor. I've never been through it before, and honestly I'm more anxious about knowing when it will happen than the actual labor itself. Not to mention, I'm uncomfortable and just want to feel like 'me' again instead of pregnant me. There's nothing wrong with feeling impatient. 




    Yes the anticipation is fun, but why not spend time preparing for it instead of obsessing on the internet all day over signs. One thing I have learned in life is that when you are really anxious for something it won't happen, and the minute you take your mind off of things and focus on something else it usually does.
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  • There are no signs.. Doesn't matter if you're dilated/effaced or your nasty plug came or you're having BH contractions. Signs simply don't exist with labor. My water broke when I was taking a nap during my first pregnancy, you can go into labor spontaneously. Why is everyone so impatient for labor? Why not enjoy some days of rest and worry about things when it's time.
    This is where you lose me. Maybe it is more of a FTM thing, but there is definitely anxiety and excitement when it comes to waiting on labor. I've never been through it before, and honestly I'm more anxious about knowing when it will happen than the actual labor itself. Not to mention, I'm uncomfortable and just want to feel like 'me' again instead of pregnant me. There's nothing wrong with feeling impatient. 



    You're right, there's nothing wrong with feeling impatient, but there's nothing any of us can do about it, and we don't know when someone else will go into labor so why bother asking?  We're all anxiously awaiting our LOs, some are more ready than others but we're all in the same boat right now... The Random thread is a great place to post "OMG i can't wait for this baby to come out already!" it doesn't need it's own post. 

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