TTC After a Loss

Intro time

Hello ladies! So I have been making the rounds on TB boards, started with 3T and IF, then to PAIF and my BMB, now here.
A bit about me for those that are mobile (I usually am), both DH and I are 31 and have been TTC for almost two years. After 4 IUIs we moved on to IVF in November and got our first BFP ever! Betas were a little tough in the beginning but turned around nicely and our first u/s showed a beautiful baby with a HB of 116. This was when I finally let myself get excited about our pregnancy. Then 10 days later (last Monday) we went in for a second u/s to find there was no heart beat and the baby had barely grown. Repeat u/s on Friday confirmed the same, so I started misoprostol that night and miscarried over the weekend. It has been a tough process to say the least but we were praying for a healthy pregnancy and just have to assume this wasn't that and God intervened.
We have been open with friends and family about our IF which led to most of them knowing early and us having to then tell them about the mc, but everyone has been so supportive. Next steps are following my beta down to zero, getting AF, then prepping with BCPs for a FET with my two frosties. Sorry this was so long but I am glad to be joining your group, these boards have helped me so much in my world where every friend has gotten pregnant easily and went on to have healthy babies. Not many people can relate to our situation, and I hope to be of support of you all here. :)
***pregnancy and loss mentioned***

Me: 31 DH: 31
Dx: unexplained IF
TTC since March 2013 
IUI#1 with OB: BFN (April 2014 - clomid 50mg)
IUI#2 with OB: BFN (June 2014 - clomid 50mg)
IUI#3 with OB: BFN (July 2014 - clomid 50mg)
IUI#4 with RE: BFN (August 2014 - clomid 50mg, ovidrel 250mcg, Crinone 8%)
IVF #1 with pICSI in November
ER 11/13 - 14R, 13M, 11F
ET 11/19 - 2 grade AA hatched blasts transferred
Beta #1: 58 - BFP!!, Beta #2: 140, Beta #3: 347, Beta #4: 931
First u/s 12/19 - baby measuring 6w4d with HR of 116
Second u/s 12/29 - baby measuring only 7 weeks, no heart beat detected
01/02/15 - misoprostol administered vaginally

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Re: Intro time

  • Welcome to the board.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I am also new to the board and I have found it to be a very supportive community.
    Married to DH since 6/30/2007
    Me: 32  DH: 32
    BFP #1: 4/1/2010 DS born: 12/3/10
    TTC #2 since 5/2014
    BFP # 2 : 6/16/14 EDD: 2/25/15  Missed Miscarriage discovered 7/10/14 D&C 7/17/14 Pathology results normal
    BFP #3
    : 10/21/14 EDD: 7/6/15  11/24/14:  Saw heartbeat! 
    Missed Miscarriage discovered 12/22/14 at 12w0d D&C 12/23/14 Pathology: Partial Molar Pregnancy/Triploidy
    ~~Currently benched following PMP~~ 
    **all AL welcome**



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  • Hey there! I am so sorry for your loss but welcome to the board. *hug* I hope you find the same comfort and support as I have here :) 
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    BFP #1: 5-14-2010, DD born 1-22-2011
    BFP #2: 4-20-2012, Natural MC 5-1-2012
    BFP #3: 7-19-2012, DS born 3-27-2013
    BFP #4: 9-13-2014, MMC discovered 10-27-14 at 10w, d&c on 11-6-14 

  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 
    BFP #1 DS born 10/16/12 at 39w6d
    BFP #2 DD lost 11/17/14 at 17w2d
  • I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome.

    Married 9/13/14

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    Me: 24 / DH: 24

    BFP#1 10/15/14 - EDD 6/19/2014 - MC 10/23/14

    BFP #2: 12/18/14 - EDD: 8/31/15 - MC 1/4/14 5w6d

    **Currently Benched until TBD**

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  • I'm very sorry for you loss. Welcome to the board!

    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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  • Sorry for your loss. Welcome! I hope you're able to get your FET scheduled soon. 

    IUI#3 brought us our dragon baby Z

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    TTCAL January 2015 Siggy Challenge: Animal Snow Interactions 


  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm a newbie here as well after a recent loss. I hope you find support and healing here. These ladies are spectacular. Good luck and lots of (((hugs)))

    Me: 28 
    DH: 34

    IUD out 8/29/13 and TTC since then.
    BFP 12/29/13
    Bleeding 1/17/14 with LO showing 10 days smaller.
    NMC 1/26/14

    Continued trying every month. Began seeing RE 7/2014.

    12/2/14 got first Rx for Clomid for following cycle.
    12/3/14 BFP!!!
    No heartbeat at 8w4d. D&C scheduled for Jan 7, 14 

  • Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your loss ((hugs)).

    Married: 9/25/10
    TTC # 1 since 5/2013
    BFP # 1: 2/7/14, mmc 3/12/14, D&C 3/19/14
    Boy, Trisomy 13, Karyotyping and Genetic Testing all normal
    Hysteroscopy and D&C 6/2/14, retained tissue
    Off the bench 7/14
    BFP # 2: 10/3/14, Blighted ovum, D&C 11/12/14
    Girl, no chromosomal abnormalities detected
    RPL Testing: Pre-diabetic, ANA+
    "I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart) I am never without it." - e.e. cummings

  • I'm sorry for your loss and for your struggles. I hope you find comfort and support here. Welcome to the board. 
    * Me: 31, DH: 33 * Married 10.16.10 * Parents of our furbaby Sophie *
    BFP: 8.28.14 | EDD 5.6.15 | MMC Discovered 9.25.14 (8 weeks)| D&C 9.30.14

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    "Everybody here has got a story to tell. Everybody's been through their own hell. There's nothing too special about getting hurt, but getting over it that takes the work. Because one way or another, we all need each other. Nothing's going to turn out the way you thought it would. Friends and lovers, don't you duck and cover because everything comes out the way it should in the end." -Glen Phillips, "Duck and Cover" 


  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome. 
    TTC since August 2013 BFP #1 1/15/14...MMC 2/24/14...D&C 3/3/14 BFP #2 5/11/14 ... severe pre-e placental abruption our angel born sleeping at 22 weeks Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • So sorry for your loss and welcome.
    Me:40  DH:42
    Married 8/2/14
    TTC since 12/2013
    BFP #1: 3/22/2014 EDD 11/27/14; MMC/D&C 4/28/14
    BFP #2 : 11/27/2014 EDD 8/7/2015, MMC diagnosis 1/5/15, NMC 1/7/15...loss due to Trisomy 3 
    Benched pending RE test results
  • Im very sorry for your loss, Welcome
    Me: 29 DH: 30
    DS born 12/29/12 @ 41+1 
    TTC#2 07/2014
    BFP 10/14/14 MC 11/14/14 D&C for RT 11/18/2014 
    Given all clear 12/15/2014 - back to TTC



  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    Me: 24 (hypothyroidism)
    DH:25
    Married June 2012 
    TTC September 2014
    BFP #1 October 17, 2014
    MC #1 October 26, 2014
    Benched 2 cycles (hoping to TTC January
    Off the bench as of Jan 2015
  • Wecome. I am sorry for your loss.
     Daisypath Anniversary tickers        Daisypath Happy Birthday tickers

    Oct Angel*BFP 1/25/14 * EDD 10/6/14 * US#1 2/26/14 *US#2 3/3/14 no heartbeat*d&c 3/12/14*

    BFP 1/17/15 * EDD 9/30/15

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  • I'm sorry for your loss. If you haven't already, please take some time to read the "Read This Before You Post" sticky at the top of the board and the newbie blog. Some ladies have a really hard time hearing that miscarriage is "God's Plan" because it's hurtful to think that God would take our babies away and put us through this. That's not to say religion isn't welcome here, and we even have a bible study check-in that you may be interested in. Welcome to this board.
    Agreed, @whitneyandconcep. While I give it up to the big man every Sunday, I fall into the let's not talk about God/miscarriage having anything to do with each other. (Just my opinion....)

    OP, I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to a great community. 
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    Married my partner in crime 06/11/11
    DH: 29, Me: 28
    Started TTC 10/01/2013
    BFP#1: 03/05/14 | EDD: 11/11/14 | MC: 04/10/14 | D&C 05/01/14 [Molar]
    BFP#2: 10/15/14 | EDD: 06/25/14 | MC: 12/02/14 | D&C 12/04/14 [MMC]
    Current Status: RE appt 01/20/15 & Cleared to TTC
    Plan: Baby Aspirin, More (raw) folate, PNP, Iron, diet
    DX: MTHFR hetero C677T, ANA+ Homogeneous, Anemia. Ige sensitivities: gluten, egg, dairy
    All AL Welcome<3
    “Once you are real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always.”
    We will never forgot our angels<3


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