Late Term and Child Loss
ikrystal
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Conner and Benjamin's first birthday is this Saturday. I am anxiously awaiting it and I am not sure how I feel about it. I keep getting flashbacks on what it was like to say hello to them, say goodbye, and leave the hospital without my babies. I know so many of us have gone through this major milestone before and many are close to their baby's first birthday, so I know that many of you know what I am talking about.
RAOK for my twins' first birthday
ikrystal
member
I'm not sure if this is okay to ask about or post here, so let me know if this is not okay.
My husband and I have chosen to see our boys as the biggest blessings of our lives. Their birthday, also the day they went to heaven, was easily the best and worst day we have ever had. But I do not want their legacy to be pain and sadness, so we are doing Random Acts of Kindness in their names this weekend.
If anyone would like to participate, I would be forever grateful to you. I have cards that can be emailed as well if you are interested. There is also more information here on my blog: https://xobenjaminandconnerxo.blogspot.com/2014/12/random-acts-of-kindness-for-conner-and.html. Thank you to everyone helping us celebrate our boys' lives 
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Re: RAOK for my twins' first birthday
October 2011 - DS (7)
July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)
August 2015 - DD (3)
April 2018 - 5 week loss
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I love this idea
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BFP# 1 7/7/12 Beautiful DD born still at 36 weeks 5 days on 3/2/13
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Me 32 (Stage IV Endometriosis, short luteal phase) DH 38
Married 5/2010
January 2014- DS born healthy at 35.4 weeks
February 2014- DS passed away due to complications from adenovirus
February 2015- Rainbow baby DD born at 36.3 weeks
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October 2011 - DS (7)
July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)
August 2015 - DD (3)
April 2018 - 5 week loss
CheesyPeas Yep, that is the card! If you want, I have pdf copies of it that I can email you and I have been sending a list of RAOK examples for people who want them as well. Thank you for doing this
We have an appointment at our clinic on Saturday, but I'm going to print a card from your blog today and try to do this at some point if we get out again.
queer couple - 32 (me) & 33 (my love) years old - donor sperm,
Our IF/TTC journey since Nov 2012.
Me: dx of DOR in Nov. 2012. Low AMH, AFC - 6, Normal FSH, SS-A (RO) Antibodies (Autoimmune issues), tubes clear, Sono (November 2013) NORMAL! <p>
7 IUI's - December 2012-September 2013. Medicated, Injected, Triggered.... all BFN.
My Love: (the amazing @Healz413)
Normal AMH & FSH, AFC ~27, blocked tube dx'd via HSG in 2012. Hydrosalpinx & ovarian cyst dx'd in May 2013.
dx of Stage IV Endo & bilateral salpinectomy in June 2013.
Partner IVF#1a- December 2013 - H's eggs, my Ute - CANCELLED due to low response
Partner IVF #1b - February 2014 - H's eggs, my Ute - ER February 4 (10 retrieved, 3 fertilized), Transfer Feb 7 of one Grade 1 and one Grade 2 day 3 embryos. 1 - Day 3, Grade 1 frosty saved. BFP - 6dp3dt via FRER, Beta #1 - 110, Beta #2 175, Beta #3 - 348, Beta #4 - 2222!, Beta #5 - 4255. Ultrasound (6w1d) - 2 heartbearts!
We lost our beautiful Twin baby girls on June 18, 2014. Tavin Sara and Casey Elizabeth were born at 21 weeks gestation and were absolutely beautiful, precious, amazing babies. We miss our daughters every day and love them with all our hearts.