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Oh my GOD! A gif story.....***warning dumbest hot guy in the world***

O2girlO2girl member
edited January 2015 in TTC After a Loss
So H and I were out and about and ran into this guy we know through passing. The man is really easy on the eyes
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but so, so dumb
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So dumb hot guy asks the inevitable question
"So when are you guys gonna have a baby"?

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"Well......" I say. "You see we have been trying with IVF....."

Dumb hot guy says "oh? No luck?"

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So I say, "no, no luck. We did have a miscarriage at the end of April, it was twins; but no actual luck I guess."

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Dumb hot guy says, "oh I think my wife had one of those things in between our two oldest kids".......

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Hmmmm will he stop talking?? Nope and nope....

Hot guy proceeds to tell me about a friend of his who's wife was pregnant with twins

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Dumb hot guy drew a comparison! ;)

So he says, "the wife delivered the babies at 34 weeks, one was stillborn, that's what they call it, and the other died shortly after. So you see your's was like a really bad PERIOD, but their's must've been really hard.?"

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Then the idiot closed it with.....
"Don't worry another friend of mine went through IBF (not a typo) and had twins then knocked up his wife right after naturally, so there's hope for you guys!"

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So dumb hot guy
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And
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Now I may cry because I've learned my massive SCH and miscarriages were just "really heavy periods"!

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:::::::sigh::::::::

I find all the idiots to talk to
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Me: 38
DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant

DH: 34
MFI due to Testicular Cancer

Married March 2012 <3
IVF w/ICSI #1
10 little polar bears
FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN :(
FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
Beta 1= 276
Beta 2= 662
4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
5/3/14 ~ D&C
FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y



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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    Well, clearly he has nothing worthwhile to offer on any topic (but I guess at least he's pretty). What. An. Idiot. (This is where I would insert a GIF of Hermoine from Harry Potter if my iPad didn't hate life).
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    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • rubysirubysi member
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    I am sorry you had to deal with that...hugs

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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    PetraStonegirl said:
    meredithcarole said:
    Well, clearly he has nothing worthwhile to offer on any topic (but I guess at least he's pretty). What. An. Idiot. (This is where I would insert a GIF of Hermoine from Harry Potter if my iPad didn't hate life).
    I got you covered.

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    Love you! Thanks!
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    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • alm288alm288 member
    OMG - what a fucking idiot. I'm sorry you had to listen to him blabber on and deal with such ignorance. (((hugs)))
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • firefly143firefly143 member
    I have no words.... Kevin Hart and Will Ferrell have to help me out tonight... What a jackass!

    Me:21 Hubs:23

    Married 5/19/12

    BFP#1: 6/6/12 EDD: 2/8/13 DS: 2/11/13

    BFP#2: 8/18/14  EDD: 4/25/15 MC: 5wks 5days

    Holding out hope our firefly will light up our world again!

     

     

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  • MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    edited January 2015
    I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Seriously, what a moron.
    I hate when people think that their inexperienced 2 cents are worth something. Ugh so frustrating. Im honestly pissed off FOR you!
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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  • O2girlO2girl member
    agpjt413 said:

    Enjoyed the GIF story...but so sorry such an idiot inspired it! Ugh!! Why is it that the pretty ones just need to be mute?! :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

    I just realize now why H and I RARELY see dumb hot guy and his wife together in the same room.......
    Me: 38
    DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant

    DH: 34
    MFI due to Testicular Cancer

    Married March 2012 <3
    IVF w/ICSI #1
    10 little polar bears
    FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN :(
    FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
    Beta 1= 276
    Beta 2= 662
    4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
    5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
    5/3/14 ~ D&C
    FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
    October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
    Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y



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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    What the hell??  I think he's more then just dumb....
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    The gif story made me lol. 

    I have no words for the guy though..seriously, wtf?
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • dandb925dandb925 member
    Wow, just wow. I'm so sorry you had to go through that!! What a jackass. I get the feeling he has no idea how babies are made or how the human body works in general. Fucking idiot...((hugs)) your way!!!

    Married: 9/25/10
    TTC # 1 since 5/2013
    BFP # 1: 2/7/14, mmc 3/12/14, D&C 3/19/14
    Boy, Trisomy 13, Karyotyping and Genetic Testing all normal
    Hysteroscopy and D&C 6/2/14, retained tissue
    Off the bench 7/14
    BFP # 2: 10/3/14, Blighted ovum, D&C 11/12/14
    Girl, no chromosomal abnormalities detected
    RPL Testing: Pre-diabetic, ANA+
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  • buggirl72buggirl72 member
    I'm sorry you had to deal with such an asshole

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  • catvaughn5002catvaughn5002 member
    He sounds like a real charmer.  I'm sorry you had to deal with that. ((hugs))

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    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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  • blackbird818blackbird818 member
    Wow...just wow. Giant (((hugs))) to you for dealing with such an asshat so gracefully. You deserving a fucking medal for not kicking that guy in the dick, which is what he really deserves. I don't think I would have been so gentle. (actually I'm quite sure BB would have lost it)



     

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    M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks
    AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera
    Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13
    Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely
    BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/14...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14

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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    I can't even....
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    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • TheAerialistTheAerialist member
    I have no gifs to add because I'm just sitting here with my mouth open just dumbfounded.


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  • mrswheelomrswheelo member
    I'm so sorry! Wishing his wife would teach him some manners. And that he came with a mute button. Seems like he would be more enjoyable to be around with a mute button ;)
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  • Km380Km380 member
    Wow. What a fucking moron. He must fall down a lot.
    The gif story made me laugh but the situation, shit. I'm sorry this actually was a real conversation

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    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

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  • O2girlO2girl member
    Thanks ladies! I'm not really broken up about it..... I actually lol when I got home because to me it was like a bad script and I thought for sure I was being punked!
    Me: 38
    DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant

    DH: 34
    MFI due to Testicular Cancer

    Married March 2012 <3
    IVF w/ICSI #1
    10 little polar bears
    FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN :(
    FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
    Beta 1= 276
    Beta 2= 662
    4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
    5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
    5/3/14 ~ D&C
    FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
    October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
    Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y



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  • MellyMel15MellyMel15 member
    What a simpleton! Man, I'm sorry you had to go through that. I would have been giving him the death glare (I've been working on it :P ). 
    * Me: 31, DH: 33 * Married 10.16.10 * Parents of our furbaby Sophie *
    BFP: 8.28.14 | EDD 5.6.15 | MMC Discovered 9.25.14 (8 weeks)| D&C 9.30.14

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    "Everybody here has got a story to tell. Everybody's been through their own hell. There's nothing too special about getting hurt, but getting over it that takes the work. Because one way or another, we all need each other. Nothing's going to turn out the way you thought it would. Friends and lovers, don't you duck and cover because everything comes out the way it should in the end." -Glen Phillips, "Duck and Cover" 


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  • FrenchteachermamaFrenchteachermama member
    OMG is all I can say.  What.the.fuck?!  So sorry you had to deal with such a complete idiot!



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    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14
    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
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  • stephy1221stephy1221 member
    WOW!!!! That is just WOW.

    So sorry you had to hear those words, even though you knew going in he was the village idiot it still must've stung really hard. Hugs.
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  • LtlbanditoLtlbandito member
    I am sorry you had to hear that. Some people just don't know when to shut up.

    Love the gifs!
    Me: 30 DH: 28
    Married: April 7, 2009
    BFP March 14, 2014 EDD November 21, 2014
    Annabeth Eilidh born sleeping November 22, 2014 
    @ 3:39pm 6lbs 13oz 20.5in long
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  • ellebelle2384ellebelle2384 member
    What a fucking moron.  Love the GIFs though.  ((hugs)) lady!
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    TTC #2 since 12/13
    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

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