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Pregnant after a Loss
mflowers929
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Shocked to be here...
mflowers929
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... and tbh probably won't be here for long. But since I just had a mini freak out and it's not appropriate for me to be posting on ttcal right now, well, here I am.
As for the shocked - H and I had literally just decided to put ttc on hold while we focused on other life things for a while. We started tta with condoms after a normal period in the middle of December. Then I started spotting. After spotting for almost a week and a half I decided I was going to call my ob at the end of this cycle if it kept up. For shits and giggles, I took a hpt to rule out pregnancy. Color me shocked when it came back positive.
Of course, that day the bleeding picked up so H and I headed to the hospital after I got off of work. But by then the bleeding had stopped for all intents and purposes, I wasn't experiencing cramps, and I was staring down a 7-8 hour wait just for them to take my blood. I had bleeding on my last mc and know the drill pretty well since I went to the er 3 times in a week. I decided to leave and just call my doctor today.
Of course, upon calling my doctor, he's off on vacation until tomorrow *facepalm*
Idk, I don't have much hope and can't seem to rally myself to it considering that it seems to be following the same trend as last time. I know that's a defeatist attitude, and I apologize for it. Just, can I hang out here while I'm stuck in limbo? I'd really appreciate it.
Oh, and here's some cookies if you made it this far.
As for the shocked - H and I had literally just decided to put ttc on hold while we focused on other life things for a while. We started tta with condoms after a normal period in the middle of December. Then I started spotting. After spotting for almost a week and a half I decided I was going to call my ob at the end of this cycle if it kept up. For shits and giggles, I took a hpt to rule out pregnancy. Color me shocked when it came back positive.
Of course, that day the bleeding picked up so H and I headed to the hospital after I got off of work. But by then the bleeding had stopped for all intents and purposes, I wasn't experiencing cramps, and I was staring down a 7-8 hour wait just for them to take my blood. I had bleeding on my last mc and know the drill pretty well since I went to the er 3 times in a week. I decided to leave and just call my doctor today.
Of course, upon calling my doctor, he's off on vacation until tomorrow *facepalm*
Idk, I don't have much hope and can't seem to rally myself to it considering that it seems to be following the same trend as last time. I know that's a defeatist attitude, and I apologize for it. Just, can I hang out here while I'm stuck in limbo? I'd really appreciate it.
Oh, and here's some cookies if you made it this far.
Momma to 3 angels and two amazing children
F born June 2018
W born September 2020
#3 due November 2022
W born September 2020
#3 due November 2022
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Re: Shocked to be here...
My Ovulation Chart
W born September 2020
#3 due November 2022
Me: 34; DH: 38; SD: 9
TTC #1 since November 2013
BFP #1: 2/4/14--EDD 10/14/14--CP 2/8/14
BFP #2: 3/1/14--EDD 11/15/14--MMC at 12w6d (baby stopped developing at 11w4d)
D&C 5/13/14; Retained Tissue Found: Cytotec 5/30/14; 2nd D&C 6/20/14
BFP #3: 12/13/14--EDD 8/27/15--MMC at 7 weeks (no fetal pole and measuring 1 1/2 weeks behind)--Cytotec 1/9/15
January 2015: Off to RE for RPL testing
***Losses mentioned.*** TTC #1 since May 2012. Me: 37, OH: 41. Ectopic August 2012 => tubal damage.
TTC #1 since January 2013
BFP #1: April 5, 2013; EDD December 11, 2013; Missed M/C May 15, 2013
BFP #2: February 17, 2014; EDD October 30, 2014; M/C March 15, 2014
BFP #3: August 1, 2014; EDD April 14, 2015 - Praying for our RAINBOW!
I'm sorry that you're already in limbo but congrats! I hope you can see your doctor soon and that he might have good news for you.
W born September 2020
#3 due November 2022
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
8/12-Suprise BFP- Sweet Bunny Born Sleeping 11/21/12 (19 weeks)
-5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)
11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13
8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF
IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties
12/19/14- FET of 2 embabies = BFP!!! One Little Bean EDD: 9/3/15
Everyone Welcome.
October 2011 - DS (7)
July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)
August 2015 - DD (3)
April 2018 - 5 week loss
W born September 2020
#3 due November 2022
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
**ALL AL/IF Welcome**
My Chart
Holding my breath for you. ((((Hugs))))
Started TTC Nov. 2011
1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d
W born September 2020
#3 due November 2022
I shall be stalking you and keeping everything crossed :x
BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
Keeping everything crossed for you!! >:D<
PgAL welcome
Married 6/11/2011
Me & Hubby: 34
TTC journey started 12/2012
BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks
BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)
Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.
Also have hypothyroidism
Started TTC again 12/2013
IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN
IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN
Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498
***Siggy Warning - loss mentioned***
*S15 Siggy January Siggy Challenge - Happy Dance*
ME: 32 DH: 38
BFP#1 - 7/18/14; EDD 3/23/14; MMC 8/11/14 (passed naturally on 8/17/14)
BFP#2 - 12/29/14; EDD 9/10/15 *PLEASE BE OUR RAINBOW!*
Me 34 DH 31, Together since 2003, Married August 20, 2011, TTC since May 2013
BFP #1 August 24, 2013! MMC discovered Oct. 3, 2013, D&C Oct. 4, 2013
BFP #2 December 17, 2013! MMC discovered Jan. 28, 2014, D&C Jan. 30, 2014
Testing done: male with complete Trisomy 16, not hereditary. Tested me for clotting disorders, all normal.
Feb. 2014 all clear again to TTC! Will start progesterone supplementation with the next BFP just in case. Oct. 2014 more testing just because, thyroid and autoimmune panels = normal. Diagnostic U/S = no abnormalities. Will keep trying for 3-6 more months, doctor still optimistic!
BFP #3 December 11, 2014! Beta #1 14DPO = 122.4 Beta #2 17DPO = 296.8 Please stick little one and be our Rainbow!
Perfect little heartbeat of 156 seen 1/7/15
***Everybody Welcomed***
EDD 8/21/2015 Team Green!
August 2015 Siggy Challenge: Favorite mean girl from a movie or show: Kathy Bates in "Misery"I've got everything crossed for you! I'm sorry you're in limbo.
W born September 2020
#3 due November 2022
I have so much crossed for you lady!
Diagnosed with Lyme Disease June 2010 Diagnosed with PCOS March 2011 Diagnosed with Celiac Disease January 2013
BFP #1: August 25th 2013 EDD May 4th 2014 SCH MC October 3rd 2013
BFP #2: February 14th 2014 EDD October 25th 2014 CP February 17th 2014
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