April 2015 Moms

Update on my TMI - hemorrhoids

So to recap, I had a cluster go external on Thursday last week and finish coming out by Sunday. I would call it a 6-7 at all times on pain scale, with small spikes of worse. Went to Urgent Care that evening, they prescribed a suppository, but no pain meds cause of pregnancy.

Saw my OBGYN Tuesday morning. She said that at least two had thrombosed since Sun and managed to find me an appointment for Wed to have them drained, prescribed me some lidocaine gel (doesn't help at this point).

Go to the self-proclaimed 'butt doctor' (who was both cute and had a sense of humour), and he said they were definitely the worst he'd seen in two months. He drained I think at least three because they were all so tender and painful, and all seemed well till I got in my car. Then the worst burning sensation occurred all around the area. Seveeeeeere burning. Tried a Sitz bath, no difference. Tried the lidocaine gel, no difference. Then it started bleeding a little more freely than I liked (they warned me of spotting. It was more than spotting) From the time I sat in the bath I could not calm myself down enough to stop crying.

So back to the surgeon I went, who double-checked and said everything was fine. Turns out I am just hyper-fucking-sensitive around the entire area. I literally could not stop leaking tears/moaning, and after some calls to his OB friends and to my OB, I was finally prescribed some Percocet and Ativan, because by then my blood pressure was skyrocketing (139/97) and I was shaking all over.

I have adjusted to the pain a little even when the meds are cleared out, though I think the Ativan is helping with that.

Ladies, I am very hopeful none of you will have to deal with this.
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Re: Update on my TMI - hemorrhoids

  • Oh ouch... Hope u heal soon
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  • This is my worst nightmare. I'm currently having hemmi pain myself and luckily it's internal, for now.

    I hope you get to feeling better ASAP! Hugs to you!
  • I am so sorry you're going through this:( it makes me hurt for you reading all of that:(
  • This sounds just horrible. I feel for you! Hope the pain subsides soon.

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  • Man that's terrible! I'm dealing with them too- did before pregnancy as well- but not that bad. Trips to the butt dr are never fun. I hope they calm down soon!
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  • I'm so sorry! Ouch!
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  • Oh that sounds like pure hell. I'm sorry you're going through this.
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  • Than you for the update--I've been wondering! I also catch myself complaining and then think of you and tell myself to shut the F up immediately!! I don't know how you are doing it. Keep your head up and the meds in!!
  • I'm sorry you are dealing with this. I hope it gets better for you soon
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  • Oh my gosh! I had no idea hemorrhoids could cause so much terror! You poor thing. I wish I had some advice or the magic words to say, but all I've got are hair pets and glitter for you. >:D<
  • Aw that sounds terrible! I'm so sorry you have to deal with that..i hope it heals quickly.

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  • So sorry you're going thru this. I had one several years ago and ever since I heard they are common during pregnancy, I've been terrified to be pregnant. Luckily I have not dealt with it thus far (knock on wood!). Hopefully things get more bearable for you and the pain goes down. Hugs!
  • I'm so sorry you're in so much pain and discomfort... Hoping something will give and you can find some relief soon.
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    (ETA: I'm not one to share so much, but I want you to know that I really do know how you feel)


    Unfortunately, I do know how you feel. I was diagnosed with IBS (constipation and diarrhea) at the age of 10 and the older I get the worse it gets (hemorrhoids, internal and external, started around 20 years old and I'm 32 now). My mom did say I suffered from terrible constipation as a baby, as well. I have only dealt with hemorrhoids bursting for the past 5 years or so. I am sure that's the same pain you're experiencing from them being drained and such. Rubber band ligation has only been brought up by my doctor since I had a diarrhea/bursting hemorrhoid episode this pregnancy. Probably because he knows they're only going to be worse following my pregnancy. I need to wait until after delivery to do this, of course. At least I will get 2-3 years of relief.

    I have not been able to find a balance in my diet to this day. The only "relief" I get is from a lukewarm sitz bath and drinking Metamucil every day. Although, I find Metamucil can add too much bulk some days and make me more constipated (if I am already constipated). I find the sooner I can take proactive measures the better the outcome. Once it's too late... it's too late.

    So sorry you're having to experience this. I would never wish it on anyone.
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  • I'm sorry your going through this! Great big creepy Internet hugs to you and I hope you heal quickly xo
  • You poor thing. This made me cringe. i had them early on when I was pregnant with my son and I spent almost an entire weekend in bed with an ice back on my butt :( Probably should have gone to the doctor for them but I was too embarassed so I stuck it out til they resolved themselves a liftle. Definitely wasn't as severe as yours though. I hope you get some relief ASAP!
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  • So sorry you're dealing with this. I'm terrified of getting hemmroids and I thought I might have had them a few weeks ago but was nothing. (Hugs) hope all goes well from this poin on.

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  • OMG. This sounds miserable. Beyond miserable. And whatever is even further beyond that. Miserable times infinity?
  • wahhhh this is my worst nightmare/fear.
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  • I didn't even know any of this was possible.  Sorry for your pain!
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  • Oh that sounds horrible. I am so sorry. Hope you find some relief soon.




  • I am so sorry! That sounds terrible, I can't even imagine. Hope things get better soon!
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  • You poor thing!  I'm so sorry you're suffering like this.  I hope it gets better for you soon.  
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  • My husband has pretty severe chronic hemorrhoids. I've seen him laying in the fetal position weeping like a baby over the pain. I wouldn't wish it on anybody. Really hoping the worst is over and you'll only feel better from here!
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  • Sorry to hear that you have to go through this! :( sending thoughts & prayers your way! <3
  • Ugh!! Waiting for the day mine go external. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.
  • Yikes this sounds awful. So sorry you are having to go through so much pain! Hope things subside soon!
  • Wow that sounds absolutely terrible. I'm so sorry you're going through that!
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  • I am so sorry you are going through this!  It sounds so awful. T&P coming your way.  April is far off and I do not envy you!

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  • I am so sorry you're dealing with this! I wanted to cry just reading your story~ Sending positive vibes your way!
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  • Owie, that sounds so painful you poor thing. Definitely take another sick day you need to give yourself a break. So sorry, I hope you can get some relief soon.
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