Welcome to the October Check-In. This check-in is for anyone who has had a loss with an EDD in October.
Members, give us an update on how you are doing. If I didn’t tag you with specific questions, it’s only because we didn’t hear from you last time (or for a few weeks) - please jump back in. Please pop in and let us know how you’re doing even if you don’t have time to respond to everyone individually this week! New members, introduce yourself so that we can get to know you.
If you get a BFP, please PM me so everyone can congratulate you!
Quote of the Week
"My role in society, or any artist's or poet's role,
is to try and express what we all feel.
Not to tell people how to feel.
Not as a preacher, not as a leader,
but as a reflection of us all."
~John Lennon
Question of the Week:
Do you find yourself reflecting on your year with 2014 drawing to a close?
Is that a good thing? How do you feel?
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Updates:
@Stephy1221- How are you doing this week?
@Momentomori- Were you able to get the HSG scheduled?
@vesperlynch - How long is your break from school?
@whitneyandconcep - How did the SA and the rest of the tests with the RE go? Do you have a plan of action yet? Also, congrats on the tentative crosshairs!
@yorkielove83 - Any word on the repeat loss testing? How about the foster care? Have you looked into that further?
Anyone else who missed the last check-in, jump back in with an update!!!
*Warning BFPs mentioned below*
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Congratulations to @daystardreamson graduating to PGAL! Please stop by that board to congratulate her.
ETA: fixed tag
Re: ~~~ October Angel Mamas' Check-In 12/29/14 ~~~
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CD3 bloodwork showed high insulin (supposed to be under 15, mine was 22)
Hysteroscopy showed no abnormalities in my uterus.
Ultrasound and SIS showed normally shaped uterus. One ovary is functioning properly and producing follicles. The other is covered in about 9 cysts.
X-ray showed tubes are open (I forget the name of the procedure).
SA showed all normal (DH didn't write anything down when he got the results and didn't remember anything beyond "normal" so I guess I'll get details on the 7th)
The testing went well. I had some pain during and after, but that all passed. I already have a PCOS diagnosis, and the testing all points to that. Nothing else was found.
On a positive note, I got my first positive OPK since October, and I might have actually O'd! I'm doubting that it was Friday, but I guess we'll see. (Details on the crazy train today).
QOTW: I haven't really spent much time thinking about 2014. Between being busy at work and busy with the holidays (and this week busy taking advantage of an actual FW), I haven't even really reflected at all. When I do look back, there's so much good stuff - my wedding, two weeks with my in-laws on the ranch in Mexico, my US reception, several trips, job interviews, a promotion at work, DH's new job - my loss was a part of all of it, but I'm feeling fortunate that it didn't define 2014 for me. Looking forward to 2015, I'm focusing on TTC, being healthier, enjoying being married, and working on my career. What I've learned this year is that I cant put any of those things on hold in hopes that any of the others will go a certain way.
Happy New Year everyone!
35's not so bad. What day is your birthday? Mine is May 11th (I will be 36, however).
I hope you and H do get in a little BDing this evening or tomorrow. If you haven't had a temp shift then that is a good thing in this case. As for staying out of your head, that is wise. Don't go there. And yes, fuck 2014.
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Men really suck at writing down details. I am guessing you will get the detailed results on the 7th. I am so glad the rest of the testing went well. I hope the doctor has a great plan for you going forward!
I am happy the the loss didn't dominate this year for you. I think it is great that you had a positive take away from everything (don't put things on hold for something you can't plan).
Happy New Year!
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I just wanted to jump in and give a quick update, I had a CP. Had my blood drawn again today, hoping my hcg is back at zero. I'm sorry I don't have time for a proper post but I wanted to chime in with a big fuck 2014 and well wishes for the next year!
TTC #1: February 1, 2014
BFP #1: 2/21/14 EDD: 10/31/14 MMC: discovered 3/31/14 (blighted ovum) D&C: 4/3/14 at 9w6d
BFP #2:12/18/14 EDD: 8/27/14 Beta #1 (16 DPO): 50 Beta #2 (18 DPO): 54 CP: 12/25/14 at 5w0d
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Formally LisaG09
"Everybody wants to be happy. Nobody wants to feel pain but you can't have a rainbow without the rain."
@daystardreams Oh God, I am so very sorry. So many (((hugs))).
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Well, we only have to make it 3 more days and we can send 2014 packing. I think we are all feeling it a bit moving into January.
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TTC #1: February 1, 2014
BFP #1: 2/21/14 EDD: 10/31/14 MMC: discovered 3/31/14 (blighted ovum) D&C: 4/3/14 at 9w6d
BFP #2:12/18/14 EDD: 8/27/14 Beta #1 (16 DPO): 50 Beta #2 (18 DPO): 54 CP: 12/25/14 at 5w0d
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Formally LisaG09
"Everybody wants to be happy. Nobody wants to feel pain but you can't have a rainbow without the rain."
Amen to that.
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