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To the cyberbully

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What you are doing is disgusting.

You are posting horrible, disparaging things on the walls of women who have been through hell. 

You claim to have experienced a loss but, instead of showing compassion, you choose to harass women who have gone through multiple losses and shown amazing love and courage and support to others. 

You call them bullies but you are the one being a bully.

You are a coward.

You hide behind a new screen name every day.

You attack women in pain.

You attack women who face a very real chance of not getting their rainbow.

You attack women who are not afraid to stand up and protect a beautiful place.

You attack women at a time of year that is incredibly hard, when each day is an endurance test to the next as we are reminded of what we do not have.

You are not worth my time.

You are not helping anyone.

You are a liar.

You are the cyberbully.

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  • buggirl72buggirl72 member
    wickedsugar said:
    Yup, and I'm getting tired of banning people that are acting like assholes.
    There are some people out there who are seriously broken. It saddens me to see someone come into our community and deliberately try to harm our members.

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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    This is so sad and so very pathetic. Some people truly are sick :(

    *hugs* to anyone that's been targeted.
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    I'm pretty sure the amount of ladies on this board (and ones that have moved on from TTCAL) that have found so much awesome support from you wonderful ladies FAR outnumber those this have been hurt and claim they have been "bullied". So, whatever. You ladies just keep doing the great job you're doing, so many appreciate you.

    I'm confused a bit though, is there a secret society somewhere :-/



    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • EIsieMaeEIsieMae member
    What the crap?! Is there something in the water lately, making people all hateful?
    I'm so sorry to any of you ladies you have been hurt by this hateful cyber bully.
    ((Hugs))
    BFP #1: 5-14-2010, DD born 1-22-2011
    BFP #2: 4-20-2012, Natural MC 5-1-2012
    BFP #3: 7-19-2012, DS born 3-27-2013
    BFP #4: 9-13-2014, MMC discovered 10-27-14 at 10w, d&c on 11-6-14 

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  • catvaughn5002catvaughn5002 member
    @ wickedsugar - I just got a harassing PM that my chemical pregnancy wasn't a real baby. I truly can't handle this right now. I'll check in in the morning :(
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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  • buggirl72buggirl72 member
    catvaughn5002 said:
    @ wickedsugar - I just got a harassing PM that my chemical pregnancy wasn't a real baby. I truly can't handle this right now. I'll check in in the morning :(
    @catvaughn5002 - I am so sorry ((((hugs)))). Your baby was a real baby. Do not listen to this person.

    Many, many ((((hugs))))

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  • renegadewhitrenegadewhit member
    @catvaughn5002 that's despicable. I'm so sorry. (((big hugs)))
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    I'll be at a new place providing support. 


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  • MenrandesMenrandes member
    @#$%%%$$%%^^^#!!!!!!

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  • megrae12megrae12 member
    Oh ladies, my heart is breaking. I'm so sorry for those that have been targeted. All my love and ((hugs)).

    To the cyber bully, you really need to GTFO! :angry: X( :ar!
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    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
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  • NOBB14NOBB14 member
    Grrrrrrrrrrr I hate that this is still going on. Seriously so sorry to those being targeted , again. Those bullies are definitely on Santa's naughty list this week. Ugh.
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  • flyoffeveflyoffeve member
    (Hugs) to all attacked.

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    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    How ridiculous. Many hugs to all the ladies being targeted.
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    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
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    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    catvaughn5002 said:

    @ wickedsugar - I just got a harassing PM that my chemical pregnancy wasn't a real baby. I truly can't handle this right now. I'll check in in the morning :(

    I'm so sorry, sweetie. I know that's hard to see but really... Think about the source that said it. So many *hugs*
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • ellebelle2384ellebelle2384 member
    Oh @catvaughn5002‌ I am so sorry someone PMed you that. That is absolutely heartbreaking. Sending you so much love.

    (Hugs) to the other ladies being targeted too.
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
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    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
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  • Km380Km380 member
    @catvaughn5002‌ (((hugs))) sweetie I'm so so sorry.

    I cannot believe someone is doing this. My heart is breaking for anyone who is being attacked. This is just sick. (((Hugs))) for anyone that need it, you are all amazing, wonderful, supportive women.

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    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

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  • mholmes92mholmes92 member
    Omg! I am going to lose my shit! This is...I can't even...I don't have the fucking words! Has there been an IP ban? Are they all the same people?

    I mean I'm not saying any of you ladies DID do anything wrong but IF you did there isn't even any reason for them to stoop to that level! What the fuck!

    You ladies have welcomed so many people in just the last few days I've been here with nothing but open arms, encouraging atleast myself to jump in on topics. You've answered my very noob-ish questions patiently. If said person/people would just take the time to try to see that!!!

    Ugh! Interwebs today. JFC!
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  • mflowers929mflowers929 member
    Some people are just so broken. I can't even imagine what is going through their minds to make them think that this behavior is okay for anyone, let alone someone who is claiming to have gone through the same things as we all have.
    I'm so sad for this person that they feel the need to put others down this way. They obviously have much deeper issues.

    Everyone I've interacted with for more than a week here has been awesome in their own way. And honestly, to me, that's what matters the most.
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  • stephy1221stephy1221 member
    @catvaughn5002‌  that someone had the audacity to say something so hateful. big hugs.
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  • rubysirubysi member
    I am sorry and offer huge hugs to the ladies that have had to endure the harassment.

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  • forevermyfenixforevermyfenix member
    Oh gosh. It been mia lately and on mobile. I haven't seen the attacks by damn this sucks. Bug hugs to all of the issues who have been attacked. Sure there have been some heated moments but these attacks are unwarranted and cruel.
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  • imnotfancyimnotfancy member
    catvaughn5002 said:

    @ wickedsugar - I just got a harassing PM that my chemical pregnancy wasn't a real baby. I truly can't handle this right now. I'll check in in the morning :(

    @catvaughn5002‌ this made me cry. I'm SO SO sorry that anyone could even think this! You probably don't need me to say this, but I will... You have a beautiful baby that is very very loved by you. Even though you never got to hold your baby, he/she is a real baby and you have EVERY right to miss him/her. Hold tight to your sweet memories of your BFP and take care of yourself.

    Lots and lots of ((hugs)) to everyone being affected by this. This is ugly and heartbreaking.

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  • mrspippmrspipp member
    @catvaughn5002‌ so so many (((hugs))). You do not deserve to hear something so false and so cruel.

    Big hugs to all the other ladies being attacked, and all of TTCAL. I just can't put into words how awful this is.
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  • PinkCaminoPinkCamino member
    catvaughn5002 said:

    Thank you ladies for the hugs and kind words. It's nice to feel support. I'm sorry to all the others who experienced the horrible cyber bully.

    When you have a moment check your PMs. :)
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