Yeeeeep. Here we go. LO is sleepy but I'm wide awake. I freaking hate that I can't take advantage of this sleep time. That whole "sleep when the baby sleeps" is a load of crap and the next person who gives me this advice is going to get all the wrath. Ok. End rant... for now.
After four hours of inconsolable screaming and multiple mommy breakdowns, we drove around for a hour to get LO to sleep. It worked, but she's now awake again and wanting to nurse constantly...but at least she's not screaming at the top of her lungs.
After four hours of inconsolable screaming and multiple mommy breakdowns, we drove around for a hour to get LO to sleep. It worked, but she's now awake again and wanting to nurse constantly...but at least she's not screaming at the top of her lungs.
Hugs! Glad she isn't screaming anymore. Hope you get some sleep soon. We're nursing now and I practically had to force DS to nurse from the 2nd side because it was so engorged and he's been going to town. I hope he doesn't spit all this up!
Baby girl has been gassy and fussy the past hour and nothing was working. Finally after some baby yoga she let out the hugest fart and is happy again. I feel so glad I could help her and for learning that from you guys.
I put LO to sleep in the bouncer tonight in hopes that it helps with his gassiness (is that a word?). These past 3 days have been miserable for both of us. He is clearly super uncomfortable and inconsolable and I'm losing my damn mind. Gas drops worked wonders 2 days ago. Yesterday, not so much. Here's hoping his slightly inclined sleeping position tonight works.
@ineedmorecoffee - I'm shocked at the farts I can get out of LO with baby yoga! So crazy.
Man I get nothing from the baby yoga.. But then again I have THE most tense baby ever!! Her fist are always so tightly clenched.. She gets his from her dad and her dad apologizes regularly for it to me and her! Lol
Count me in for a wide awake LO. He slept so well during the day I should have known this was coming. He has been yawning for the past hour, but refuses to sleep. We've tried cuddling, walking, bouncing, reading, singing, baby yoga.....I finally turned out all the lights and put him in his swing. By the light from my phone I can see him staring at the mobile, totally awake.
Add me to the up all night list. It's 4:30am and Maddie hasn't slept yet. Crazy gas and fussiness. I totally blame the Karo Syrup from Tuesday- she hasn't been the same since. I'm ready to lose my mind.
I fell asleep nursing waiting for H to call. Woke up to LO passed out cuddled with my boob, my 100lb dog cuddled across my lap with LO, and missed calls from H. Put LO down in his chair and he wakes up. I can here him trying to fight the snot to breath, I hate it I feel like he is going to suffocate!
Tonight is a flop. DD1 had a rough beginning to the night. Now, LO had been partying for almost 2 hours.
We are meeting with the bank today about getting a loan for a house! It is exciting and frightening at the same time. The odd part is that DH and I agreed on a house right away. Let's hope the financing goes as smoothly.
It could be that I'm tired from being up since 3am, but I swear after giving LO her bottle just now, she SMILED! Again, I could have hallucinated it.. this whole being awake & waiting for the baby to wake up to eat in the middle of the night thing is BS. My body is tired, why won't my brain shut off??
@silverwings72 I'm with you 100% - if my husband says "just go back to sleep after you pump/breastfeed" one more time I'll lose it. Of course I want to go back to sleep...I even try to nap, but this Mommy brain doesn't seem to believe in sleep.
Trying to successfully have my almost 5 week old fast for a few hours this morning for an ultrasound sounds like a fun time! We're about 1 and a 1/2 hours in and he's sleeping... I know he won't stay sleeping while I'm getting him ready and out the door, but here's to hoping he magically does! I already feel bad when he's hungry and crying... knowing I can't feed him when he wakes up is going to be upsetting! Ahh!
@MrsC430 tommee tippee is all my sister uses and she loves them! I also use them for my son when I pump... no complaints here!
@IndianaMommy08 - love the hair! Hugs and sleep to those who need it. DS was extremely fussy last night. I thought maybe it could be his throat because my throat is sore but it was just gas.
Is there such a thing as separation issues with newborns? He is 6 weeks but if some one else holds him for more than a few min, he freaks out. He seems to only be content if I am near him. DH thinks I coddle him because I never let him cry for more than a few minutes. I didn't think newborns could be spoiled. I am worried about how he will be while I am in surgery.
TTC Since 2009
BFP 1: Nov 2010 MMC at 5 Weeks
BFP 2: June 2010 First Round of Clomid Blighted Ovum at 7 weeks
Surprise BFP 3: Feb 2014, Healthy Baby Boy Due October 27th 2014. OB thinks this is it!
@shaddox16 that sounds like me. My bleeding was almost nonexistent and I had just stopped wearing a pad or panty liner and then I got bright red bleeding again, almost like a period. I don't really had any answers for you, but I talked to a few other people (SIL and friends) and they said they had a few surges before it ended too. Might be worth a call though!
Hugs to those who need sleep. LO kept napping all day yesterday after feedings. After her 11pm bottle, she was wide awake, smiling and cooing and kicking for DH. Then had a big dirty diaper. Changed that and still not sleepy.
I took her to bed to cuddle and I swear I was asleep before she was. She slept on my chest until I transferred her to the RNP so I can pump. We got 6+ hours. But, owie, the breasts.
@shaddox16 and @AnnieRoo13 my pp bleeding came and went a few times before finally leaving, the last surge still had some bright red blood. My OB said that it was totally normal.
Going to rename my babe Squirmy McGrunterson. This girl hasn't pooped overnight in days, she saves it for the morning... Which on one hand is nice, but on the other hand results in the loudest grunting and restless sleeping partway through the night. She sleeps great! Just LOUDLY. Tries baby yoga before bed and got nothing... May have to have a 3am yoga session and are if it helps. Sigh.
Hugs to all, because what new mom couldn't use one?
So I can't really complain because it's a first for us, but last night Jackson never slept more than 1.5 hours, mostly not more than an hour. Dislike. And certainly not how I wanted to close out his first 4 weeks. No idea how the mamas here handle it for days on end.
Meeting a mom off CL today to buy a like new Moby wrap. FX it works better for me than the K'Tan and Ergo have so far... I really want to be able to wear him so I can clean the house so I can decorate at least a smidge for Christmas.
@shaddox16 I actually just called my doctor yesterday for the same issue. I haven't had any bleeding for a while and yesterday had some bright red blood. It kind of freaked me out. Doctor said that if you're not soaking a pad every hour, and if it tapers off instead of getting heavier, it's fine and normal for it to ebb and flow like that for a while since we are still healing.
She did say there's a slight chance it could be a period but if you're EBF it's very unlikely.
My 2yr old has figured out if he waits till mommy is breastfeeding the baby he can basically get away with murder and I can't stop him with baby attached to my boob. He looks right at me, gets a shit eating grin on his face and proceeds to do whatever it is he KNOWS he isn't suppose to do. ( pull ornaments off tree, unplug and plug back in Xmas lights, ride the dog like he is a horse, etc.)
I was looking online for something to wear for Christmas and stumbled across this gem. Sent it to DH and said I found my Christmas outfit. His reply was "Seriously?" Can't decide if I should think its funny he thought I was for real or be offended!
DH keeps talking about needing to lose weight so I'm searching for healthy recipes on pinterest. He struggles with weight and I figure some healthier recipes can be my contribution. We've talked about him needing to work out but since I feel like I'm nagging him when I remind him he needs to go to the gym, I feel like cooking healthier options can be my contribution.
Also thanks to our lovely new hair cut pictures being posted, I finally scheduled a haircut for myself. i'm so excited it needed to be cut for some time and I'm at the point if I don't go soon I'm taking scissors to it myself.
Whats the longest you've left your LO for? I left her for a little over an hour today with DH because I know I need to start getting used to leaving her. I had a lab appointment. I was a wreck the whole time. He did wonderfully but me not so much.
When I even think about going back to work, I get emotional and tear up. I am dreading it so much. I have a month left, but I just don't know if I can do it. I have no choice though Thankfully I am very fortunate that she will be going to a family members house while I am at work and not daycare but that just actually makes me jealous that they get to spend more time with her than me, her own mother.
Update: We got pre-approved for the amount we wanted and we qualify for a grant as well. We also scheduled our appointment to go check out the house tomorrow afternoon. We are extremely excited! I am beyond ready for OUR home.
Just went through the photos of LO's baptism that DH's cousin/sister (long back story but more sister like than cousin) took. She managed to cut me out of all the photos of us walking in and lighting the advent wreath, none of my family's group photos, and only 1 of the blessing over me. She has a crap load of DH and his side. This is exactly why I told DH I was glad my aunt was coming down and would be taking photos (he didn't think we needed her too). This is a good lesson for future family events that we take photos for always get someone from my side to take photos if I want to be in them. At least the large group photos with both sides came out well.
Re: Thursday Randoms
@silverwings72 - Hope you can fall asleep!
Dx: PCOS
DS1 born 11/2014
DS2 born 11/2018
3 previous losses
Rainbow baby due 12/2021 - Team Green
LO is almost 7 weeks and still wakes up every 3 hours often on the dot almost to eat...stretch these out little man!
@ineedmorecoffee - I'm shocked at the farts I can get out of LO with baby yoga! So crazy.
ET 9/10 - transferred 1 perfect 5AA blast
7dp5dt BFP ~~ Beta on 9/19 - 77.4 Beta #2 on 9/21 - 357
Low heartbeat on 10/7 86, lower heartbeat on 10/11 76, no heartbeat 10/14/13. D&C 10/15/13
Tests revealed MTHFR c677t mutation, put on Folgard.
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FET #1 1/6/14 - 4BB blast - BFN
This should make for a fun tomorrow!
We are meeting with the bank today about getting a loan for a house! It is exciting and frightening at the same time. The odd part is that DH and I agreed on a house right away. Let's hope the financing goes as smoothly.
@silverwings72 I'm with you 100% - if my husband says "just go back to sleep after you pump/breastfeed" one more time I'll lose it. Of course I want to go back to sleep...I even try to nap, but this Mommy brain doesn't seem to believe in sleep.
-Is anyone using Tommee Tippee bottles? Avent & Playtex were both fails. No idea what to try next, but a friend recommended TT.
It's twin girls!! Born on 11-2-14!
@MrsC430 tommee tippee is all my sister uses and she loves them! I also use them for my son when I pump... no complaints here!
Hugs and sleep to those who need it. DS was extremely fussy last night. I thought maybe it could be his throat because my throat is sore but it was just gas.
Is there such a thing as separation issues with newborns? He is 6 weeks but if some one else holds him for more than a few min, he freaks out. He seems to only be content if I am near him. DH thinks I coddle him because I never let him cry for more than a few minutes. I didn't think newborns could be spoiled. I am worried about how he will be while I am in surgery.
I took her to bed to cuddle and I swear I was asleep before she was. She slept on my chest until I transferred her to the RNP so I can pump. We got 6+ hours. But, owie, the breasts.
So I can't really complain because it's a first for us, but last night Jackson never slept more than 1.5 hours, mostly not more than an hour. Dislike. And certainly not how I wanted to close out his first 4 weeks. No idea how the mamas here handle it for days on end.
Meeting a mom off CL today to buy a like new Moby wrap. FX it works better for me than the K'Tan and Ergo have so far... I really want to be able to wear him so I can clean the house so I can decorate at least a smidge for Christmas.
She did say there's a slight chance it could be a period but if you're EBF it's very unlikely.
I was looking online for something to wear for Christmas and stumbled across this gem. Sent it to DH and said I found my Christmas outfit. His reply was "Seriously?" Can't decide if I should think its funny he thought I was for real or be offended!
When I even think about going back to work, I get emotional and tear up. I am dreading it so much. I have a month left, but I just don't know if I can do it. I have no choice though