So... I'm somewhat afraid of mentally challenged people. It has to be the more extreme cases, but if someone is very obviously challenged I get really nervous around them. When I was little I used to think it was contagious and was even worse about it.
I'm always very careful to not be rude or make demeaning comments to or about them, but I have been known to say avoid an aisle at the store because what if they say something to me and I can't understand them and then I look uncomfortable and offend someone!?
I'm totally over thinking it, but the feeling is there none the less.
So... I'm somewhat afraid of mentally challenged people. It has to be the more extreme cases, but if someone is very obviously challenged I get really nervous around them. When I was little I used to think it was contagious and was even worse about it.
I'm always very careful to not be rude or make demeaning comments to or about them, but I have been known to say avoid an aisle at the store because what if they say something to me and I can't understand them and then I look uncomfortable and offend someone!?
I'm totally over thinking it, but the feeling is there none the less.
I feel the same. I don't want to make them feel bad...and so in doing that, I make them feel bad. To be fair, I freak out when talking to toddlers or people with accents, too. I just don't like not understanding.
I was in the kitchen making dinner. Chuck patty with havarti melted on top, corn, and a slice of chocolate cake. I started making up a song, since its kind of a habit when DS1 is around. Thankfully he was sleeping for this song.
Corn is good, corn is great, corn makes you masturbate. Cake is good, cake is greaaaaaaaaaaaaaat, Cake makes you MASTURBATE!.
Do you guys remember as kids what it was like to go spend time at a friend's house, and their family had rules or traditions that you found bizarre and it made you stoked to not have to live there? I feel that way about so many people's (in general not just on tb) marriages. I'm all thank god that's not me!
Do you guys remember as kids what it was like to go spend time at a friend's house, and their family had rules or traditions that you found bizarre and it made you stoked to not have to live there? I feel that way about so many people's (in general not just on tb) marriages. I'm all thank god that's not me!
Meeeee too. Mostly the people who bitch on fb. I'm happy with my unicorn.
On pee-- I have peed my pants so many times that there simply is no story. I haven't in a long while. I wonder if it is anxiety related?
On masturbation-- I was raised super duper Baptist. My friends were scandalized when I told them I had started trying this... in college. That still makes me sad for them.
My mom walked in on me trying to figure out masturbation, screamed that I was disgusting, and slammed my door.
I haven't masturbated since. I received a vibrator at my bachelorette party, but it took a good 5 years for me to take it out, and we only use it during foreplay; I never use it alone.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
I worry about all the things I've shared on here in case I run for public office one day. But then I think that I'd rather be the down to earth, honest candidate that people can relate to and I "shake it off."
I worry about all the things I've shared on here in case I run for public office one day. But then I think that I'd rather be the down to earth, honest candidate that people can relate to and I "shake it off."
I don't like to masturbate. I don't like to stick my fingers in there. I feel so stupid about that. I wish I'd get over it.
I never stuck my fingers in there (I didn't even get that far the first time I was caught), and didn't let anyone else until junior year of college. I was terrified for some reason. I still don't do it and I don't really like when DH does either.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
@golfingdarwinfish I'm glad I'm not alone. I had to feel in there for mirena strings when I dreamt about one falling out. I never found them but I think I gave up too quick because it feels so weird in there. (For those who forgot I went to dr and both strings were there, it was a dream. Just so you guys aren't expecting me to be the first one to announce I'm expecting again )
I won't even get a Mirena out of fear. yes, I pushed a baby out of there but will not let someone stick an IUD up there, partly because I don't want to ever have to feel for the strings.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
Confession : I have been reading the BMB'S that are just getting bfps or slightly thereafter and it makes me feel all warm and fuzzy. I DO NOT want to be pregnant again though. Not until dd is 2 or about to be 2.
I just got the bill for Kasey's delivery and I don't know how I'm going to pay it. Man I miss being double covered with insurance.
Talk to your hospital's billing department. Ours will actually work out a payment plan interest free. Hopefully yours has something similar. Fx for you. Having babies is super expensive. They told me I owed $13,000 at first and I said "check again, I had a baby. I didn't buy a car"
I worry about all the things I've shared on here in case I run for public office one day. But then I think that I'd rather be the down to earth, honest candidate that people can relate to and I "shake it off."
Your secrets are safe with us.
Do you plan on running for office?
Eventually. If we stay in a small community and if I stay plugged in like I am now, I could see that happening.
Re: --FFFC--
I'm always very careful to not be rude or make demeaning comments to or about them, but I have been known to say avoid an aisle at the store because what if they say something to me and I can't understand them and then I look uncomfortable and offend someone!?
I'm totally over thinking it, but the feeling is there none the less.
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I HATE having my nipples played with.
Hate it. Grab the whole thing, give it a hickey, but don't touch the nipple.
I was in the kitchen making dinner. Chuck patty with havarti melted on top, corn, and a slice of chocolate cake. I started making up a song, since its kind of a habit when DS1 is around. Thankfully he was sleeping for this song.
Corn is good, corn is great, corn makes you masturbate. Cake is good, cake is greaaaaaaaaaaaaaat, Cake makes you MASTURBATE!.
I think I need to get laid.
On masturbation-- I was raised super duper Baptist. My friends were scandalized when I told them I had started trying this... in college. That still makes me sad for them.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
Do you plan on running for office?
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
It was never part of the plan to wait that long but what are you gonna do? My first was not a winner. DH was my second.
Oh and @alfibet . Try the showerhead. No touching required.