October 2014 Moms

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  • So... I'm somewhat afraid of mentally challenged people. It has to be the more extreme cases, but if someone is very obviously challenged I get really nervous around them. When I was little I used to think it was contagious and was even worse about it.

    I'm always very careful to not be rude or make demeaning comments to or about them, but I have been known to say avoid an aisle at the store because what if they say something to me and I can't understand them and then I look uncomfortable and offend someone!?

    I'm totally over thinking it, but the feeling is there none the less.
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  • So... I'm somewhat afraid of mentally challenged people. It has to be the more extreme cases, but if someone is very obviously challenged I get really nervous around them. When I was little I used to think it was contagious and was even worse about it.

    I'm always very careful to not be rude or make demeaning comments to or about them, but I have been known to say avoid an aisle at the store because what if they say something to me and I can't understand them and then I look uncomfortable and offend someone!?

    I'm totally over thinking it, but the feeling is there none the less.

    I feel the same. I don't want to make them feel bad...and so in doing that, I make them feel bad. To be fair, I freak out when talking to toddlers or people with accents, too. I just don't like not understanding.
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  • On pee-- I have peed my pants so many times that there simply is no story. I haven't in a long while. I wonder if it is anxiety related?

    On masturbation-- I was raised super duper Baptist. My friends were scandalized when I told them I had started trying this... in college. That still makes me sad for them.
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  • My mom walked in on me trying to figure out masturbation, screamed that I was disgusting, and slammed my door.

    I haven't masturbated since.  I received a vibrator at my bachelorette party, but it took a good 5 years for me to take it out, and we only use it during foreplay; I never use it alone.
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    5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional.  5 BFPs.  My rainbow arrived 10/15/14.
    TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.

  • I worry about all the things I've shared on here in case I run for public office one day. But then I think that I'd rather be the down to earth, honest candidate that people can relate to and I "shake it off." ;)

    Your secrets are safe with us.

    Do you plan on running for office?





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  • edited December 2014
    alfibet said:
    I don't like to masturbate. I don't like to stick my fingers in there. I feel so stupid about that. I wish I'd get over it.
    I never stuck my fingers in there (I didn't even get that far the first time I was caught), and didn't let anyone else until junior year of college.  I was terrified for some reason.  I  still don't do it and I don't really like when DH does either.
    Loss Blog (finally updated)

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    5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional.  5 BFPs.  My rainbow arrived 10/15/14.
    TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.

  • alfibet said:
    @golfingdarwinfish‌ I'm glad I'm not alone. I had to feel in there for mirena strings when I dreamt about one falling out. I never found them but I think I gave up too quick because it feels so weird in there. (For those who forgot I went to dr and both strings were there, it was a dream. Just so you guys aren't expecting me to be the first one to announce I'm expecting again ;) )
    @alfibet

    I won't even get a Mirena out of fear.  yes, I pushed a baby out of there but will not let someone stick an IUD up there, partly because I don't want to ever have to feel for the strings.  


    Loss Blog (finally updated)

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    5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional.  5 BFPs.  My rainbow arrived 10/15/14.
    TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.

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