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kncole28kncole28 member
in March 2015 Moms
So today is my 30th bday, and a co worker asked me is I was doing anything. I told her my friends invited me to a local VFW to sing some songs then to a drag show. She told me that im going to be a mom and need to start thinking about my choices, that i am making a horrible decision going out to places like that while pregnant. And she can only imagine it will be worse after i have my daughter. Wtf? All i could do was turn and walk away. I just wanted to go out and enjoy my bday, i will NOT be drinking, only shirley temples for me. Am i a bad person for this?
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    SkrittensSkrittens member
    Absolutely not. Your coworker is judge and way out of line.
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    kncole28kncole28 member
    Im guessing for going out? She is 62 and old school so I feel like she thinks I should just stay at home at all times.
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    kncole28kncole28 member
    @goofygoff‌ thank you
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    suzyq0525suzyq0525 member
    Happy birthday! Don't let her get to you. Have fun!

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    janda426janda426 member
    What the fuck? Screw that old lady.
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    071115071115 member
    Happy birthday... No not bad. Screw the old lady
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    kncole28kncole28 member
    Lol this is why i love you ladies, thank you so much
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    thursdaythursday member
    Happy Birthday!! Your co-worker is an idiot
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    Bluebell0315Bluebell0315 member
    Drag shows are always fun! Girl, you go and have fun :) It's the big 30! Happy Birthday!
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    Sugarplum0217Sugarplum0217 member
    kncole28 said:

    I think im gonna find the queen in the skimmpest clothes and take a pic with her and put it up in my cubbie. Lmao.

    ETA: words are hard.

    I think that's a wonderful idea! Your coworker is obnoxious. Happy Birthday and I hope you have a blast tonight!
     
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    lisap0924lisap0924 member
    Happy Birthday! Your coworker is an asshole! Have a blast!!!

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    BostonchelleBostonchelle member
    Happy birthday! Tell her to mind her own business! There is nothing wrong with going out now or after baby is born. She sounds like an ass!
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    Mic512Mic512 member
    Happy birthday! Sounds like a fun night! Have a great time & enjoy yourself. Your coworker seems like a bitter person. Being a parent does not mean you can't have fun!
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    mermaid1113mermaid1113 member
    Your coworker sounds like she has a stick up her a$$!
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    colleen4019colleen4019 member
    Happy birthday! She needs to fuck off. Your baby isn't going to know the difference between a drag show & church. I can't imagine how this would make you a bad mom.
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    kncole28kncole28 member
    @colleen4019‌ she never really liked me till I got pregnant. Mainly BC before I bar tended at both is these places im going to tonight as a second and third job. And "that is no place for a lady to be." I always just laughed it off and said in making drinks and money not stripping or selling my body.
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    kncole28kncole28 member
    @colleen4019‌ I like to say I never claimed to be lady like EVER lol
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    mangomimosamangomimosa member
    OMG I'm so pissed at your asshole co-worker --- happy birthday girl, hope you have fun!!
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    ST3WDST3WD member
    kncole28 I'm late, but happy birthday!! Enjoy your night out, even if people are tucking things other than their boobs into their wadded panties. <:-P

    Whitfry That sounds AMAZING. 

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    JeepersWifeJeepersWife member
    Late too...so I hope you had a fucking awesome birthday night out!!
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    Joon+Joon+ member
    I would go to a burlesque/drag show in a heartbeat if we had them around here. Went to a drag show in Vancouver a couple years ago and it was AWESOME - still have the keychain, haha. Hope you told your coworker to stick it where the sun don't shine. I think a last birthday before having a baby should be treated like a bachelorette party (without the booze). Too bad I wasn't yet pregnant at mine and didn't know it would be the last one... Anyway, happy birthday and you go girl!

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    kncole28kncole28 member
    Thank you ladies i would post a pic but for some reason it one let me. Never has :((
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    DragonflyDreamingDragonflyDreaming member
    For my bday, (slightly belated) we went on a trip to Europe. Managed to drink some Gluwein (yep, alcohol), ate cheese/food that's on the 'no' list, spent lots of time in a bus with sick people, and probably did too much activity. I think the only thing baby was unhappy about was the yodel show! That, or she loved it! ;)

    Go out, have fun, maybe have a sip or two of your favorite drink. Your coworker is apparently an idiot.

    And, Happy Birthday! :)
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    salmphilsalmphil member
    Happy belated birthday! Hope you had a kick ass time. Omg that kind of judgement incenses me and makes absolutely no sense. I went to a burlesque show in 2nd tri, who cares?!
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    KLC8210KLC8210 member
    No, not at all!! Go have fun!
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    EDWHIPEDWHIP member
    Wow.  Sorry you have to work with that person.  
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    jnowosielskijnowosielski member
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY. I'm glad you had fun. Your night sounded awesome.
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    But it's OK. Because:

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    jacqueleen1jacqueleen1 member
    Tell your co worker to pound sand and have an awesome time! 
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