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jaztastic · December 2014

Wait, we aren't supposed to smoke pot while pregnant? :-SS

jaztastic · December 2014

I mean seriously, what fresh hell did this bullshit hail from. I'm so glad F15 was smart enough not to mod me, I would've abused power and ban hammered somewhere around husband busting a nut.

krysmill · December 2014

I'd like to see her go to her Dr and ask all these questions to him/her! Also I'm pretty sure majority of people would have common sense when it comes to smoking anything! I'd love to say we are being tricked by a regular but who would start posts like this when there's more important stuff going on in F15!

reneamac313 · December 2014

I think my favorite thing about all this is her asking for replies in a mature manner when one of her responses in her previous post is "swerve." That should totally show us that she is here for intelligent, mature conversations.

acpruchnik · December 2014

OK, so DH and I have been hardcore lurking on this post all night trying to wrap our heads around it.

OP.. Honey... Really?

First off, if you can't handle the responses you're going to get, and I'm refusing to believe that there's no way you wouldn't expect the uproar you've caused, by posting a clearly controversial subject in a PUBLIC forum then you really have no business being on one. Marijuana use whether it be medicinal or recreational, used during pregnancy or not, or whatthefuckever you can think of with it is always going to be an issue. If you scroll through our "pages of the same questions over and over" then you'll see that the last time this was brought up was a very long time ago. It does NOT belong among strangers and I would hope that would be obvious since it's not a repeated topic. Also, in those repeat posts you complain we have so many of, we've made it clear to the newcomers that have posted them that they need to do some lurking of their own to avoid the constant repetition. There's only so much we can do when people choose to use our forum as their own personal Google and choose to NOT listen to what we have to say. (Any of this starting to sound familiar? Or did you choose their route and not read our newcomer thread OR our TOU?)

While I've got your attention, I'd also like to take a second to ask you a few things that I really do need some clarification on... If you think we're so boring that you have to cause a fuss so severe as this then why even stick around? Do you have other children or is this your first? Ever think the energy you're wasting on us would be better spent on your relationship with your son's dad?? Lastly, anything you want to tell us before we all start Googling you ourselves? I hope you're aware that ALL of the women here are pretty good at researching the strange that wanders in here so it's only a matter of time before anything you're trying to hide sneaks up and bites you in the ass.

You've done nothing but stir our shit pot for 2 days and have thus made it perfectly clear you have no serious intention of becoming one of our own. You bark at us and demand we give you only our most mature answers for "the sake of young, new moms" but you talk about your baby smiling in ultrasounds and your baby daddy "getting his nut off" your first day on our board. There's NO way he's purposely smiling at you, which HAS been proven by research, so there's some nonfactual information you're feeding these uneducated moms you're so desperately trying to help. There's also nothing mature about saying someone is getting their "nut" off or telling a bunch of strangers that your man is basically using you as a sex object that he happened to impregnate. We don't really take well to women being objectified (go figure!) so that in itself is going to set a lot of us off, despite the severe lack of class in the way you've explained the situation. It's obscene, it's offensive and it's something that my 17 year old nephew wouldn't even say. You also state that these "young moms" may not know that they shouldn't be using recreational drugs while they're pregnant. I'm sure a decent doctor would cover this with them early on in their pregnancy. Or is my doctor the only one that addresses the use of any kind of drug during pregnancy not being OK? Cos judging by the responses on here, she's not. Or that could just be my favorite group of boring women doing a little bit of research on their own. Either way.

I personally wouldn't mind the names of these doctors that are recommending getting high to deal with common pregnancy issues and no research to back up their findings. We don't know your real name so you wouldn't have to be exposed to these doctors once they're exposed for telling a bunch of pregnant girls to spark up a good old-fashioned doob. You should also want these young, uneducated moms to know which doctors are going to tell them to get high instead of any other approach they could possibly be taking since you've made it clear they wouldn't think to ask about it themselves. I mean, that IS the point behind your posing this question to us, right?

emiller91 · December 2014

Oh. My. Goodness.
Of course we are all here to help and support one another...but THIS. I just cannot wrap my head around how idiotic this is.

I will admit, i was very excited to read all of the replies.

Next time, maybe should just ask your docotor behind...closed doors...hippa is a wonderful thing.

Mommalawyer · December 2014

@acpruchnik - Its a shame I can't double or triple love tit your response.

regan342 · December 2014

dorothygale01 said:

flyster said:
I would like the source to these "Dr's" that are proscribing this to pregnant moms.
I also was curious as to, you know, facts.

Maybe if you call your dealer "Doctor."

wintersong139 · December 2014

acpruchnik said:

OK, so DH and I have been hardcore lurking on this post all night trying to wrap our heads around it.

Wut? MH just rolls his eyes every time I mention a story from the this community--I'm not sure he gets the concept of online friends, lol. I can't imagine him looking over my shoulder to read a thread!

foxslaw · December 2014

My boyfriend is an avid, responsible smoker...but you can bet I'm not shotgunning hits from him.

acpruchnik · December 2014

@Mommalawyer‌ Aw shucks, what a way to start my morning! ;;)

@wintersong139‌ DH loves that I have you guys! We game online a lot so online friends isn't a strange concept to him at all. But no worries, he doesn't read anything unless I ask him to or unless he finds out its an update on one of our laboring moms/the baby elephants. TB secrets are still safe

We're both very pro-medicinal use and he loves when we all snipe the trolls so there was no way I couldn't share this gem with him lol

kittdbatts · December 2014

If your doctor suggest it, then maybe. But don't self-medicate yourself. I see no problem with it. But really don't self-medicate because you can go to jail for child endangerment if you smoke while pregnant.

wintersong139 · December 2014

maasybaby said:

kittdbatts said:

If your doctor suggest it, then maybe. But don't self-medicate yourself. I see no problem with it. But really don't self-medicate because you can go to jail for child endangerment if you smoke while pregnant.

Just putting it out there, I'm suspicious of this post... This jazzy person also posted in the middle of the nights (morning for me so that's why I notice) and suddenly just started reacting to posts and never introduced herself... and this one's only reacting to that jazzy person's posts... soooo... I'm suspicious... Sorry lady if you're legit and I'm already misjudging you but I have trust issues :P

I move that we all let this thread die. I am over the dramz.

ccuffari · December 2014

maasybaby said:

kittdbatts said:

If your doctor suggest it, then maybe. But don't self-medicate yourself. I see no problem with it. But really don't self-medicate because you can go to jail for child endangerment if you smoke while pregnant.

Just putting it out there, I'm suspicious of this post... This jazzy person also posted in the middle of the nights (morning for me so that's why I notice) and suddenly just started reacting to posts and never introduced herself... and this one's only reacting to that jazzy person's posts... soooo... I'm suspicious... Sorry lady if you're legit and I'm already misjudging you but I have trust issues :P
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I was thinking the same thing but didn't want to even give her the time of day/bump the thread up

Edit: had to separate my post from the quotes

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