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Cheating Boyfriend

kalsey100kalsey100 member
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Ever since about the middle of October I have seen other girls in my boyfriend phone and everytime I ask him about it he lies and makes an excuses for me to feel dumb for being mad and then 20 mins later tries to kiss and make up when I seen the girl in his phone yesterday she was texting him telling him she loved him and all he sayed back was yea right which I still I feel is wrong why does she feel comfortable enough to tell yu that if it's not like that between y'all when I snatched his phone and told him I was gona text her and say don't text my phone anymore I have a girlfriend he started screaming no and tryed to get it back I ended up punching him repeatedly in his cheats out of anger because I'm like how could you sit up and defended her when I have been here for you this whole time and he never hit me back and I told him that it's not fair at all how he is doing me and it's not fair that I have to sit up and be pregnant while he off talking to other girls I told him I felt like he ruined my life I have to take a semester off from school have to move out and find my own place it's just to much but don't get me wrong I do love my baby more than life already and his answer to all that was we'll just kill the baby then Kalsey just kill the baby and in like what is wrong with you you don't say that to any pregnant person and i know he didn't mean that because he is bipolar and doesn't take his medience so Ik A lot of the way he acts comes from that but still idk what's wrong with me for possibly still wanting to give him a chance after everything cools down I just wish I wasn't so physically and mentally involved and attached to him......
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  • ruemorganruemorgan member
    I agree the relationship is just toxic. I would focus on him having a part jn the child's life, but I wouldn't focus on a romantic relationship.
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  • hetispagettihetispagetti member
    No romantic relationship for you...just try and work out some form of contact for your baby!
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  • mariahd43mariahd43 member
    I just don't have the lung capacity these days to even try to read that period-less post. Whoa!
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  • almeyer2013almeyer2013 member
    First, you both made the decision to have unprotected sex, so therefore he is not the only reason for your life being ruined.

    Have some accountability for your actions as well.

    Secondly, why set your self up for failure again? That's what will happen if you continue the cycle of this relationship.


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  • gnomemomgnomemom member

    You are not Jack Kerouac. Paragraphs. Punctuation. Use them!

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  • CoozieInMyPurseCoozieInMyPurse member
    I think I just had an aneurysm.
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    OP - if this is real, get out now. If someone was talking about killing my son I'd never want to be around them again.
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  • mwerrenmwerren member
    Wow.

    If this is real-get out. And get counseling.

    And if this is MUD...
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  • happybabe123happybabe123 member
    Ok, I'll try. OP get out of the toxic relationship. Focus on yourself and the baby. This is not someone you want to deal with when trying to be a grown ass woman and taking care of a baby.

    Maybe next time slow down and proof read so we can understand. But remember we are strangers, only you can do something to get yourself out of this situation and as upset as your post was I think getting as far away from him as possible would be the sensible thing to do.

    Finally, physical violence is not ok. If you are that angry walk away.
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  • allachkatallachkat member
    I would say focus on your child and keep only supportive people around. Also, get counseling for your emotional health.
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    happymamax2 said:

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    jennypm said:

    Somebody is looking for attention or just trolling. This was posted to another message board as well. 

    I was wondering wtf was happening with those first two rows of text.
    I thought the same. Like why is she copying someone else's work? PLAGIARISM!!
    My guess was multiple sites so lots of strangers can comment. . .
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  • KdeandaKdeanda member

    Why would you want to stay in a romantic realtionship with someone who doesn't respect you? Why would you want to be in a romantic relationship with someone you don't trust?

    Point blank, I would leave him and focus on your child. I would give him the opportunity to be in your child's life but not romantically in yours.

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  • Sugarplum0217Sugarplum0217 member
    Get as far away from him as possible and get some counseling for yourself.

    Also just to reiterate, punctuation is your friend.
     
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