Had my 3rd miscarriage over the weekend at 10 weeks 4 days. My husband and i are devastated. We want a family so badly, but I'm so worried that it will never happen for us. (we are 35 and 36 so I feel like our time is running out...) On top of that I can't imagine going through this again and if i do get pregnant i will be so anxious and scared that it will happen again. I am just so sad and lost right now.
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My heart aches for you! I'm so sorry for your loss. When you're 35 or older and you have been trying for 6 months or more than you should be able to see an RE (reproductive endocrinologist). They are much more knowledgeable than OBGYNs at helping you get and stay pregnant. I know how you feel about being anxious and scared that something will go wrong again. I just suffered my first ectopic recently and I learned that once you have one you're more likely to have another one. I'm trying to stay positive, but the thought is terrifying. I hear from the lovely ladies on here that it does get easier and relating to each other on the boards definitely helps.
Thank you, and sorry for your loss as well. I have so many appointments scheduled in the next week, I'm determined to get to the bottom of this. I'm even getting acupuncture, which I never would have considered because I hate needles.... but at this point I am willing to do anything.
Oh honey I'm so sorry. I can't imagine. One loss is so hard that I can't imagine going through 3. My heart hurts for you. I don't have the right words but you're in my thoughts and prayers. Give yourself as much time to grieve as you need. Hugs.**
I am so sorry for your loss. I just had my 3rd MC so I can understand. Are any of your appointments with an RE? I was told by my OB that they don't typically refer you to a specialist until after 3 losses so right when this one happened I made an appointment. My first one isn't until Dec 17th so I have no advice on what they will be doing. I also want to get to the bottom of it to see what's going on.
I also know how you feel when you think time is running out but women are having babies a bit older now so try not to dwell too much on that. (and yes, I hate when people say that to me but it's true )
Good luck to you and know you aren't alone in this *hug*
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I am so so sorry for your loss! I know what you meaning about dreading to start all over or to start trying again when you so badly want the baby that you lost. I am so sorry! I know its probably to soon but my friend told me about a book after my loss titled Silent Grief by Clara Hinton. I thought I would recommend it for whenever you are ready, I know we all grieve differently. I hope it helps! Also I would encourage you to speak with a close friend or keep sharing with an online community about that you are feeling and going through. Its so important to be around a supportive network.
Re: 3rd miscarriage..... feeling hopeless
Good luck to you and know you aren't alone in this *hug*