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January 2015 Moms
Monday Randoms!
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Re: Monday Randoms!
Catching up on my shows On Demand and the commercials are for shows airing January 6th. Made me double take, "holy shit, I'm having my baby January 5th!" :-O
I'm so pissed at my H. He's got 16 days off in December. He works so much we hardly see him as it is. He said months ago he wouldn't be making any trips to his parents (4 hours away, in the mountains, with tons of snow) since I'm high risk and will have allot of appointments.
Over thanksgiving his parents were here, and his dad told him he should come up to the property to move a log 8-| and to work the leather shop. His dad knows my H will put him before anyone else to make him happy.
So now, I told my H I wouldn't be able to go (nor do I want to, but it really doesn't fit into My schedule with my Dr. Appts. ) So he asked when my appts were, and he made this HUGE deal about how NOW he can't go to his parents because of all my appointments. He acts like he didn't know, even though we've known since I was 16 weeks that I'd have all this monitoring starting at 32 weeks.
I told him just to go from December 12, To December 16, since he 'MUST' go for 5 days, and I'd just take Owen to my midwife appt, since I won't be able to take him to my mfm appts. OH NO! That won't work, he wants to go later. I have no idea why. So he tells me to rearrange my appointments, so I can go. I don't want to! I don't want to drive 4 + hours away so you can work on your parents property. I don't want to chance going later and being stuck having Christmas there in case the pass gets closed.
So now, that's what he's planning, is just leaving me here, days before Christmas 35 weeks pregnant so he can move a log, and do work in the shop. He wants to make some money, which is always nice, BUT we are not in need of money. It's just his way to please his dad because it's what his dad wants.
Whatever. ....I hope he gets stuck over there and he's needed here. I hope his couple hundred bucks is worth it, to have a pissed off wife.
I'm just so bitter about it because he made it clear months ago to his parents and me that we wouldn't be traveling, and now all of a sudden it's like a "must" to do.
His dad and his brother (who live on the property) can move the fucking log! Why should my husband have to drive that far to do some petty shit like that!? X(
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@Labellavida That is BS. I would be pissed too!
I don't feel like sending out birth announcements or Christmas cards this year. I'm just feeling really lazy about it. I have a cute picture of me and DS where is he touching my belly and I thought about using that photo with the caption "We're trading silent nights for another bundle of joy." BUT DH isn't in the photo so I feel like that would be weird. He is such a PITA about pictures though. He gets in such a bad mood and then hates every picture with him in it. Since we're going to take family pictures after DD is born I didn't want to push my luck.
Dec '12 & Jan '15
(My daughter in the pic is moving to her own room and SO's 3 yo who we have every other weekend will be in the room pictured).
I took the boys out Christmas shopping for DH this morning, and it wasn't as fun as I'd hoped. Pushing the cart made my pelvis hurt, and it was just cold and rainy and nasty the whole time. But, I think we finished shopping, so yay!
We usually get family photos done in the fall, and then I use my favorites on our Christmas cards. This year, we skipped the pics because I felt too fat and gross, and now I think I'm going to totally skip Christmas cards. I'll do baby announcements instead. Sending both would be too dang expensive.
All I want to eat is junk food. Leftover pumpkin pie counts as a veggie, right?
I want a puppy SO bad, but DH is the responsible one in our relationship, and he says a puppy and baby at the same time would be too much of a time and money suck. He wants to wait until the boys are 4 and 2 years old so they can "help."
No, I haven't tried that. But it's worth a shot. Another reason I was asking is because its easier to slap on a cream than try to shave something I can't see.
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It's sooooo hard. We always set a cap, and he always goes over it. Then I feel like an ass hole because he over gifted.