Goodbye for now

seretasteele · November 2014

I was told today at my 13 week checkup that my baby didn't have a heartbeat. After an emergency sonogram confirmed it . My husband and I announce to our family on thanksgiving we were expecting and today they told me my baby is dead . This is the worst pain I've ever felt and would not wish this pain on anyone . I don't know what to do , are where to start a piece of me is gone . How do Move on from this ?

tiffbot1985 · November 2014

I am so sorry, take care and best wishes to you.

mommacandi · November 2014

I am so sorry. I'm heartbroken for you. I don't have any advice but to let yourself mourn however you need to, give yourself time, and be gentle with yourself. All the hugs and support in the world for you.

andreamckain24 · November 2014

Thoughts and prayers with you and I am so sorry for your loss. It is very hard I went through three losses last year and one being a missed miscarriage. Same situation, told everyone then found out baby didn't make it past 11 weeks. I couldn't believe it was real and although it was devastating and I still have the "what if" we took some time off(some people start right away) I went to the gym everyday to take my head off the heart ach and worked hard on myself. I worry everyday that it could happen again and I promise you it will get easier over time. I spent some time pampering myself and realizing that the reason the 3 losses occurred were from genetic issues and it was out of my control. It will be your time and that baby will stick and be everything you ever dreamed of. I do not ever wish this upon anyone and I pray the best and next time around will be right. Please take care of yourself and again I am truly sorry for your loss. P.s everyone is so supportive on these boards and it helped me get through it.

seretasteele · November 2014

Thank you all for your encouraging words I truly appreciate it .

jjbdvm · November 2014

I'm so sorry to hear this. There are just no words to express it. You and your family are in my thoughts.

popples8 · November 2014

I am so sorry... My heart achs for you.

tahitiandreamin · November 2014

I am so sorry. Take care of yourself.

blu-eyedwife · November 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to tell you how to move on from this. That's something that's going to be very individual for you. I would say that you should take support from whatever resource you choose, be it friends, family, or even solitude.

From my personal experience with loss, although not a child, I always say it's okay to be selfish for a while. Take whatever time you need, take care of yourself.

angielayne926 · November 2014

I am so sorry.

My advice- take time for yourself. Don't let anyone try to tell you to "be over it." It is so hard to lose a baby and it's a loss that no one understands if they haven't been through it. When you're ready, the miscarriage board and TTCAL were great resources for me.

TheNewMrsY · November 2014

This is heartbreaking and I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself and hang in there. Prayers for you.

thay33 · November 2014

I am so sorry for your loss, please take care of yourself. My thoughts & prayers are with you

sscott2111 · November 2014

Oh no! That's awful, I'm so sorry for your loss.

beckynsean11 · November 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. There is no right way to move on. Do whatever feels right for you & don't let anyone try to rush you through the process. The pain of loss never goes away, but I promise that it does get easier. It just takes time. Some days will feel impossible, some will be easier; eventually the good days will out number the bad. As far as trying again, you'll know when it's right. Be kind to yourself.

leenziepops · November 2014

Truly sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself. Wishing you peace and health for the future.

luvindanimals · November 2014

Oh no my heart is breaking for you! I am so sorry for your loss! My T&P are with you! Take care.

erbear84 · November 2014

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

ahershe · November 2014

Lifting prayers up for you. So sorry for your loss.

Trampslikeus · November 2014

I'm so so sorry. Don't let anyone tell you how to grieve or minimize this loss. I hope that you are surrounded with love and support and that better news is around the corner for you.

All the hugs.

jellyfishpuff · November 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. Please be kind and gentle to yourself. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

tinavonsparkle · November 2014

Such heartbreaking news, I am so so sorry. Sending you love. Look after yourself and take all the time you need to grieve. I am sure your family will be so supportive. Big hugs x x x

Shutterbug&17 · November 2014

I'm so so sorry. Sending lots of T&Ps your way. ((Hugs))

kristykristyleelee · November 2014

So so sorry for your loss. T&P are with you right now.

KimberlyandThor2014 · November 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and in my heart. One breath at a time honey.

dojo1 · November 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss - wishing you all the best in the future

ksimo6 · November 2014

Heartbroken for you. So sorry.

adorebel · November 2014

My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm so, so sorry.

Arual1988 · November 2014

This is heartbreaking

Arual1988 · November 2014

Sorry to hear you're going through this ❤️

sordidvolition · November 2014

So sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and give yourself time to grieve

ohiodoxiemama08 · November 2014

I am so very sorry for your loss.

As far as advice on how to move one--just take it one day at a time and allow yourself to grieve. As someone who has been there before I know that it is devastating, but with time it does get easier. Lean on your husband and family for support and be kind to yourself.

honeybunches101 · November 2014

That is heartbreaking, I'm so sorry

KonaCoffeeBean · November 2014

I am so, so sorry.

opheliacantswim · November 2014

My heart hurts for you. I'm so very, very sorry. Thinking of you and yours.

lfaithlove · November 2014

I am so sorry. Praying peace for you. I cannot imagine what you are experiencing... Go easy on yourself and surround yourself with lots of love and support. ❤️ *hugs*

sjw91988 · November 2014

I am so sorry for loss. I suffered a miscarriage last year at 10 weeks. Take it one day at a time. You will see your angel again one day.

Claire&Cub · November 2014

I'm so so sorry to hear anout this. My heart aches for you and your family. Like many have previously stated, please take care of yourself. You should be your own primary focus. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I'm sending you positive vibes and wish you peace.

scottstots · November 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you can take some time for yourself to rest and recover after this roller coaster week. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.