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Can I come back? (Loss)

Sadly I am in the process of miscarrying my july baby. I'm devastated and have no real plans of TTCing anytime soon, but I'm hoping I can hang out here for awhile as I enjoyed the board prior to my BFP.

DS#1: born Dec 29, 2013 
TTC#2 since Sept 2014 - unexplained secondary IF
BFP #2: 11.7.14  M/C: 11.27.14 @ 6w3days
BFP #3: 04.19.2015 M/C 04.27.15 @ 4w3days
BFP #4: 10.05.2015 C/P @ 3w4days
Oct 11, 2015: Cycle 13. Starting Femara (2.5mg). HSG this cycle (all clear) - BFN
Nov 12, 2015: Cyle 14. Femara 5mg + IUI - BFN
Dec 10, 2015: Cycle 15. Femara 5mg + IUI #2 - BFP #5! C/P 4w4d
Jan 10, 2016: Cycle 16. Femara 5mg + IUI #3 - BFN.
Feb 10, 2016: Cycle 17.  No IUI or meds. Taking a break - Natural BFP Mar 5, 2016!!!! EDD Nov 16, 2016
Moving to IVF March 2016
Beta at 10dpo: 21, Beta at 12dpo: 98, Beta at 14dpo: 264, Beta at 16dpo: 745
U/S 6w6d: single beautiful heartbeat of 121bpm - It's a boy!!!!
Nov 3, 2016: Our family became complete. Welcome DS #2.

Re: Can I come back? (Loss)

  • I am so sorry for your loss.
    DS#1 5/31/12
    DS#2 5/11/13
    #3 EDD 8/7/15
  • Oh no, I am so sorry. I will be thinking and praying for you during this devastating time. Feel free to join us anytime. Big hugs to you.
    Me: 29 DH: 34 Married 9/8/12 Started TTC 10/01/12
    Dx: Hypothalamic amenorrhea by RE in 2/2013
          Provera + Ovidrel trigger = BFP #1 3/24/13
    DD born 11/12/13
    TTC #2 since 9/01/14
    Tamoxifen + Ovidrel trigger = CP (cycle 3)

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  • You are absolutely welcomed back.  I am so sorry to hear of your loss. 
    Married 10/4/2014 (10-4, good buddy!)
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    Baby Boy #2 EDD 11/4/18
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.   ((hugs))
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. Sending lots of ((hugs)) and T&P your way!
    Me: 29 ~ DH: 27
    Married: 04/25/14
    TTC #1 Since September 2014
    BFP 12.13.14 -- EDD 08.28.15


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  • Sorry for your loss.
    Married since 9-27-14 
    TTC since Oct 2014
  • I am so very sorry for your loss.
    Me: 30   DH:31 
    Married 9/2010
    TTC 10/2013
    RE Help from 10/2014-10/2016 (11 failed IUIs, a corrective surgery, and a donor embryo cycle)
    9/2016-transferred two donor embies
    BFP 9/29/26 EDD June 11
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  • So very sorry for your loss.
  • So very sorry for your loss.
    Married to DH (aka the love of my life) since June 17th, 2006

  • So very sorry for your loss

  • So sorry for your loss. Hugs!

    Me: 29 DH:32
    DD- Sept 03 2015
    M/C-Feb 2018
    BFP- EDD February 17 2019

  • I am so sorry for your loss. 


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  • I'm so sorry. Of course you can come back! Take care of yourself.
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    BFP 2/28/14 MMC 14W2D D&C 5/07/14

  • I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.
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    Married: 10/4/2013
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    BFP 11/30/2014 ~ EDD 8/13/2015 ~ CP 12/5/2014
    BFP #2 12/30/2014 ~ EDD 9/13/2015 Stick bean stick!
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you all the ((hugs)).

    Me-27 DH-29

     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss
    Number One: Born 06.16.2009
    BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014
    BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014
    Dx: Gestational Trophoblastic Disease
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. But you are of course welcome back :-)

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  • Sorry for your loss

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    BFP 11/17/14 EDD 7/27/15 MC 11/23/14 ;5wks

  • I can relate to what you are going through. I lost my June 7th baby officially today, or I guess it was yesterday I just can't sleep. The D&C was yesterday morning. It's going to take some time to recover both physically and emotionally. Hopefully you have a good support system at home and are taking good care of yourself. I think this is definately a good place to hang out for a while. I'm finding comfort in this community still purely because I don't know anyone else going through the same thing. My family has delivered (on both mine and my husbands side) 7 healthy babies in the last two years. I thought for sure that my baby would be number 8. I was so careful with everything from the moment we decided to ttc. You just need to remember that this early on there is nothing that you could have done differently. And all you can do is hope for a happy and healthy baby when you decide you are ready again.
  • So sorry for your losses OP and @blewis2011‌
    Me:31 DH: 32
    Together since 08/2008
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss :( Hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry. Hugs to you. Take care of yourself

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  • So sorry for your loss.
    TTC since 5/2014 
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss ((hugs))
  • I am so sorry for your loss.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Many hugs. Thoughts and prayers
  • So very sorry for your loss.

  • Sorry for your loss. Take time to take care of yourself.
  • I'm sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.
    baby boy: 3.19.2014
  • *hugs* I'm truly sorry for your loss. 
    Me: 25 Dh: 25 Married since July, 2011
    Diagnosed with PCOS 2010
    TTC since December, 2011 (SA is Normal)
    2012-tried natural w/Metformin 1500 mg
    11/12 -Saw an OB, bloodwork revealed everything normal except for highish blood sugar levels
    1/13: Clomid 50 mg - No response
    2/13: Clomid 100 mg O'd BFN
    3/13: Clomid 100 MG O'd BFN
    4/13-6/13: Clomid 150/200 mg O'd BFN 
    Stopped treatment because of money issues and began to try naturally again from June-October 2013
    Benched until November 2014 - Started seeing RE, discovered that lining was very thin
    November 2014: Started Femera 5 mg -No response BFN >:(
    December 2014: Upping Femera, injectables are the next step if I respond 
    Also: Changed RE, first appointment on Friday, so treatment is subject to change this month

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  • I'm so sorry hun. Be easy on yourself and come back when your ready.
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    TTC #5 since 7/14

    CP- 12/27/14 confirmed 12/29/14
    Benched until further notice

  • I'm very sorry for your loss.
  • ((Hugs)) I am so sorry for your loss.

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.

    TTC #1 since 11/2012
    Me-31, H-27
    **Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
    **Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
    Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
    SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
    HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
    Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
     9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
    BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
     U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
    U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
    U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
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  • I'm so sorry...
  • So sorry for your loss!
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.


    TTC #1 for 18+ months - Age 32
    Aug-2014: All initial testing went well, waiting for 2015 for possible IUI.
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  • Welcome back. Sorry for your loss! Thoughts and prayers
  • I'm sorry for your loss :(
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