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The ups and downs (intro)

mkwy4peytonmkwy4peyton member
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Hi Ladies,

I am the mother of a beautiful 4 year old girl and I am currently 8 weeks pregnant after a loss in May. We had been trying since around March 2014 after stopping birth control. Got pregnant the following month. First U/S was at 10 weeks, and they couldn't find a heartbeat, the baby had not survived past 5 weeks. I miscarried at 11 weeks. And I know one miscarriage is nothing compared to half of what the other ladies on here and other sites have gone through, but one is way more than I thought I could handle. But we are now pregnant again after the loss, and I am freaking out. Every cramp, every break in morning sickness, every little thing happening in my body I am convinced I am going to lose this one too. And now my morning sickness has not been happening in the morning for the last couple days, it is happening in the evening, is that normal? I am just worrying day in and day out that I will lose this baby too. :/ Just thought I would introduce myself! Thanks for reading! :)
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  • Danielle0311Danielle0311 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss but congrats on this pregnancy. PGAL is so hard and all of the feelings you are having are totally normal. If you haven't already, read the mantras at the top of the board, they really help and make you feel like you are not alone. Unfortunately, after a loss pregnancy is totally different and filled with worry but just try to remember it is still a blessing none the less. Just take it day by day and do the best you can. ((Hugs))

    Me (30) DH (31) Married 5/13, TTC since 2/13
    BFP #1 Blighted Ovum resulting in D&C on 11/1/13
    BFP #2 Ectopic Pg, lap surgery on 3/12/14, R tube removed

    BFP # 3, EDD 2/21/15 * please be our rainbow*
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  • Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
    Agree with PP :) welcome and congrats!
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  • sfazarsfazar member
    Welcome and congratulations! This is a wonderfully supportive board!

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

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  • mkwy4peytonmkwy4peyton member
    edited November 2014
    Thank you for the lovely welcome!
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  • LuvLoveXoLuvLoveXo member
    Congratulations. Welcome to the board. You've come to an excellent place for advice and support.
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  • nohalo21nohalo21 member
    Welcome and congratulations! PGAL is tough, no matter when the loss occurred. Just take each day as they come. The mantras definitely (and still do) help out.
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  • littlecookielittlecookie member
    Welcome and congrats. Big hugs as you navigate pgal. It can be so scary.
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  • Denise91980Denise91980 member
    Congrats and welcome. Wishing you a healthy 9 months!
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    BFP #2 12/28/11 natural m/c on 2/6/12   BFP#3 2/16/13 dx:ectopic on 2/27 (given methotrexate) HSG 6/13-all clear BFP#4 11/18/13 natural m/c on 11/23  IVF #1 (Natural IVF Cycle) May 2014- Cycle failed (embryo did not make it to blast) BFP#5-7/26/14 GROW BABY GROW    IT'S A BOY DUE 4/5/15!

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  • mkwy4peytonmkwy4peyton member
    Thank you all for the amazing welcome! I have been lurking for a couple of days now, and this board is so amazing! I am still having some trouble believing I am actually pregnant. The MS has not been consistent at all! Some days it is all day and others it is only at night, or none at all. The nightmares keep showing up every night  :( But my next appt is on the 11th of December, so just have to wait a week or so to hear the heartbeat again. 
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  • scrang74scrang74 member
    I totally hear you on the fear and worry! It's all I can think about since my BFP last week. I will definitely put those mantras in my daily meditation.

    Congrats on your pregnancy and wish you happiness and confidence :)
    Me:40  DH:42
    Married 8/2/14
    TTC since 12/2013
    BFP #1: 3/22/2014 EDD 11/27/14; MMC/D&C 4/28/14
    BFP #2 : 11/27/2014 EDD 8/7/2015, MMC diagnosis 1/5/15, NMC 1/7/15...loss due to Trisomy 3 
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  • peggels24peggels24 member
    Congratulations and welcome!
    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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