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My husband won't have sex with me but is still attracted to me?

porstnerporstner member
in March 2015 Moms
so I have been trying everything to get my husband to have sex with me and it's just not working he tells me I'm beautiful and says he's still attracted to me but just won't have sex with me he pushes me away and I have no idea what to do. It honestly hurts my feelings and makes me cry because it's awful being rejected since I never have been before
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Re: My husband won't have sex with me but is still attracted to me?

  • suzyq0525suzyq0525 member
    Dear diary?

    I think you should lurk for awhile and see how this community works.

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  • littlebumblelittlebumble member
    Wow people are really mean on here. She's just asking advice.
    Have you tried asking your husband why? I'd be open and honest with him and say you are feeling hurt and you would like to know a reason for his rejection.
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  • adooadoo member
    I've got nothing.......
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  • finallyourturn2finallyourturn2 member
    That sucks! I'm going to the coast this weekend and excited for all the second trimester vacation sex.
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  • littlebumblelittlebumble member
    I am new, can't help thinking I'm missing something.
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  • ngolimentongolimento member
    littlebumble said:
    I am new, can't help thinking I'm missing something.
    OP is behaving like a troll who is just here to cause trouble.  I promise you she will come back, call us all names, then all the threads she started this morning will explode.  Call it Thanksgiving entertainment.
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  • finallyourturn2finallyourturn2 member
    OP I have been thinking about your situation because I truly care. I think he lied to you and he really isn't
    Attracted to you anymore.
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  • maura14maura14 member
    Don't let the comments get to you. There are plenty of genuine people who would like to help you. Just not hear. It seems some people get great satisfaction from being complete dicks
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  • maura14maura14 member
    Oh that's lovely real nice!
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  • DragonflyDreamingDragonflyDreaming member
    ruemorgan said:

    Guise, I cant stop reading her sn as pornstar.

    This exactly!
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  • shellmackshellmack member
    Some men are nervous of 'hurting' the baby or are skeeved out by the baby moving during sex.
    Sounds like some clear communication is needed. Try not to freak out or cry when discussing it bc likely your husband will feel less safe sharing how he feels.
    People who have angry or irritated reactions to posts by people who don't intro themselves or may be trolls: I get that you are super tech savvy etc and are frustrated with trolls etc. However, when you react, even to correct these people or label them as trolls you are just giving those kind of people the reaction they are looking to create. It's better to just ignore those boards and not post at all. Maybe don't reward them. Maybe Try not turning on each other on the boards- that's just what they want; because, then this is no longer the supportive community it's supposed to be.
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  • shellmackshellmack member
    @happymamax2‌ apologies if my post sounded patronizing- totally not my intention. It just seems like a vicious circle on board after board where negativity becomes directed not just at initial posters but at subsequent posters. Obviously I'm naive about troll situation but I also don't take it as personal. (Maybe). Anyway the snappy gif you included in your post is funny. :-)
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  • shellmackshellmack member
    @Peledreamsofrain‌ thanks for clarifying. The analogy is super helpful.
    I think it's possible that even people who read the 'read this first' thread wouldn't get how weird just 'jumping in' feels for all the people already here relating to each other. Not to excuse them, but I can see how they might think it's the internet - I can just get in there and get asking!
    It makes better sense to me now.
    Thanks for 'playing nice' instead of just being negative.
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  • ngolimentongolimento member
    edited November 2014
    shellmack said:

    @Peledreamsofrain‌ thanks for clarifying. The analogy is super helpful.
    I think it's possible that even people who read the 'read this first' thread wouldn't get how weird just 'jumping in' feels for all the people already here relating to each other. Not to excuse them, but I can see how they might think it's the internet - I can just get in there and get asking!
    It makes better sense to me now.
    Thanks for 'playing nice' instead of just being negative.


    No worries. I think people forget that a forum is full of actual humans socializing. A lot of people throw out social niceties and treat others like a mindless Google function. Rules are more relaxed than in person, but not so relaxed that people enjoy being treated like a non-person, or support staff of the site. I can totally do a help desk job for the site, but they have yet to pay me to pet 'customer' posters.
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  • BrandiLynn83BrandiLynn83 member
    People are mean on here. Wow.
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  • BrandiLynn83BrandiLynn83 member
    Mine won't either. He told me years ago that if I were pregnant we weren't having sex so I knew. At that point I thought yeah, sex when you're pregnant would be awkward and gross. Now I don't feel that way but I understand.
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  • janda426janda426 member
    BrandiLynn83 said:

    People are mean on here. Wow.

    Do yourself a favor and read the whole thread before commenting. Probably spare yourself the embarrassment.
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  • lawsonellislawsonellis member
    BrandiLynn83 said:

    People are mean on here. Wow.

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