My mom threw us a surprise baby shower yesterday since we are up here visiting...I wasn't expecting anything since we live ten hours away now but it was very sweet! I got to see a lot of my friends and family that I normally don't see when we come visit so that was wonderful.
Now I'm sitting here in my brother's living room staring at baby clothes, talking to RJ as she kicks around and bawling my eyes out that I'm actually going to have a baby in a few months.
I've never talked about this, but right after my husband and I got married (I was 22) I found out that I had cervical cancer. They caught it and treated it but there is obviously a high potential that it could come back. They recommended that I have a hysterectomy if they found more abnormal cells. Well, two years later they found more...I opted for a LEEP procedure, hoping to minimize the chances of it turning into cancer again. DH and I started talking about adoption because it seemed like I was bound for a hysterectomy within a year or so.
Fast forward to my three-month checkup this spring, and everything comes back clear for the third visit in a row. My cervix is holding strong, abnormal cells haven't advanced, nothing. My doctor gives us the all clear to start TTC if we want, warning us that I could have complications due to the procedure. We decide to take a chance and let fate do its thing.
I got pregnant five months later. I've made it 23 weeks now, my cervix looks better than they ever thought and they are expecting that I will make it full-term and have a natural delivery.
This is my miracle baby. Very few people know this story and most never understood why we waited years to have children and why we are planning on only have one.
Sorry for the novel so early on a Monday...I'm musing this morning and I just wanted to share. Even if I don't get to post as much as I'd like, M'15 has been such a wonderful place for me and you guys are a group of fantastic people
Aw @meowkitten that's so great! I'm sorry you have been through all that but so very happy for you!
Afm. No sleep last night. I think I squirrel made it into the attic. But I feel ok. Maybe it's the short week and the free coffee since the Eagles won!
@meowkitten that is such a wonderful story!! I'm so happy everything worked out for you to have this miracle baby!! And that was so sweet of your mom to throw a party! How fun!
It's 330 am and my alarm just went off. I have to shower really quick and wake SO up to pack the car so we can get on the road in the next 30-45 minutes. I'm determined to beat LA traffic. 8 hour drive ahead of us but I am so excited to see my parents!! And I have 5 days off work which never happens so that's wonderful.
@meowkitten awe that's such a good story. Congratulations and so glad for your recovery.
I feel really dumb asking this, but what is v-day?
Also, went to a friendsgiving last night and had so much fun hanging out with friends I haven't seen in so long. The majority of them have new babies less than a year old, and I was the only pregnant one. It was great to hear their birth stories and their advice. It all makes me nervous because I will be sitting where they are at this time next year with a baby and feeding and it gets a little overwhelming to think about. Sometimes I wonder if I can do this?
AFM / I've been missing the random for a while, work's been keeping me busy and I always want to read the whole thread b4 replying and i never get through
I can't believe it's Thanksgiving week!
My random musing - for some reason last night I got it in my crazy head to make all from scratch a Coca Cola cake and frosting. After a lot of time and an ungodly amount of butter and sugar, I sampled the finished product and was just like meh. Didn't taste much better than a box or store bought cake really. And I sure didn't taste the coke. Don't think I'll ever do that again.
Guys! It's 510am, I'm off work in 2 hours and don't work again until Saturday! It's been a long miserable 64hr work week and I'm STILL sick. I'm gonna get a prenatal massage and my nails done and take a bath and grocery shop.
Andrea (31), married Aaron (36) September 2012
Parents to fur babies Tiki and Gizzmo and 2yr old Georgia IF veterans; #1 conceived on second clomid+HCG+IUI, #2 conceived on 1st Letrozole+HCG+IUI EDD: Feb 5, 2018
I don't work all week and of course I wake up at 6 am today. My son isn't even awake yet. I finally have my anatomy scan this morning. I am way late on that because I'm already 26 weeks but I am very excited to see my little one kicking around in there.
Did I mention that I am jealous of everyone getting the entire week off.... As much as I like working in healthcare... Working in the hospital sucks as far as holidays go. I would love a regular 9-5 with weekends and holidays off.
Happy Monday! It's raining here, so now I have "November Rain" stuck in my head. I think the world is trying to tell me to stay inside and just chill this morning. I tried to take the dog for a walk (in the cold November rain) and saw a skunk on the street ahead of me. So I thought maybe I'll just cross the street and head a different way. Looked across the street and saw another skunk. Nope! Decided to head back in the house before they surrounded me!
@meowkitten - congrats! I loved reading your story and are so happy you are here.
I went to the dr today - uneventful - other than grief for my weight. I only gained a pound a week since the last visit - I just gained almost 20 the first trimester. But the babe has a strong heartbeat - so no complaints from me!
@meowkitten, I'm so happy for you! That's a great story! I also love that you got a surprise baby shower! That's really sweet. Sounds like a great weekend!
My random is that it's the first day of break and I'm so happy! I needed this break. I'm getting ready to go your a couple daycare facilities. Also a little AW for today. DH got to feel our son kicking last night! He had been waiting for awhile to feel him. I love that we've both felt him!
@meowkitten what a wonderful story, I'm so glad everything is going well for you and LO
AFM, it's supposed to snow Thursday, after spending so much time convincing everyone we need to include grandma in thanksgiving now it's going to snow?! Plus SO plows in the winter so he'll miss it boo.
On a side note I had to get up in the middle of the night to pee for the first time since early early pregnancy. Guess that means were getting closer to the 3rd tri!
I don't have the week off because of thanksgiving, I'm in canada. This is one of the few perks of shift work.
Andrea (31), married Aaron (36) September 2012
Parents to fur babies Tiki and Gizzmo and 2yr old Georgia IF veterans; #1 conceived on second clomid+HCG+IUI, #2 conceived on 1st Letrozole+HCG+IUI EDD: Feb 5, 2018
My random is that a US Postal Service truck (like the residential delivery kind) Barry Bonds the passenger side mirror off our truck on Friday when it was parked. The postal employee was just a kid and apparently, new. I actually felt bad for him because he looked so distraught, and when his supervisor showed up we told her that we hoped he didn't lose his job.
Anyway, its now a waiting game to see how fast the USPS insurance company will get back to us to talk about repairs. Since its the holiday week and they are a government entity I'm going to assume NOT VERY.
Our insurance said that we could file our own claim but I don't know if that means we'll have to come out of pocket on anything. Ugh.
@Chunkymonkeylvr I just mix mine up the night before and put them in the fridge in a covered bowl. In the morning, I transfer to the mixture to the baking dish and add toppings, then just pop in the oven. I do this with all my vegetable casseroles if it is a case of me cooking multiple things.
@meowkitten thank you so much for sharing. I'm so happy for you guys and hope that things continue to go well for you!
Congratulations to everyone hitting v-day! I have a little under two weeks until mine
My random is that I may be getting a new car today. I have fought it and fought it because I LOVE my car now (Ford Edge SEL), but the transmission is going out and I have put almost 200k miles on the thing. It just isn't worth replacing the transmission according to my husband Also, we don't want to take the risk of me getting stranded when I am further along or when baby is here in the car. Thankfully, he works at a dealership so we will get a couple thousand off of sticker price. I planned to get a Highlander for graduation next year, but we can't afford that right now so I am probably getting a RAV4. Anyone have experience with those?
We had Thanksgiving last night and for once ate dinner at a normal time, around 6. I'm so tired of eating at the southern european time of 830/9pm. It was nice to have the guests leave at 8 and I had time to clean the kitchen and we even went on a walk before bed.
I'm tired today but have managed to get 2 loads of laundry done and clean up the house a bit after work. We have so much leftover turkey and pie, yum!
@meowkitten : That's such an empowering story. Congrats on another good check! Hugs!!
@almeyer2013 : I feel you on that. I work 3 12-hour shifts a week in a very small unit with only 4 nurses on staff at night. We staff 2/night most nights which means I'll pretty much always be working at least half a holiday. That part sucks about it.
@katydid2014 : Hugs. I'm sure that baby will love whatever house he gets to grow up in.
@chunkymonkeyivr : I made 4 pies and put them in the freezer yesterday. I plan to make candied pecans and green bean bacon bundles today.. will probably freeze. I have to work Tuesday and Wednesday night so after today I'll have no time to cook besides leaving my H a long list of things to put in the oven while I sleep during the day.
As for me.. I'm up early this morning on H and I's day off. He's still snuggled in bed. I get up to pee so many times per night that around this hour I'm up for good. I haven't been sleeping well lately. I guess it's that "preparing for baby" shit or whatever.
We may start to clean out the spare bedroom today so we can start getting the nursery ready. I'm excited since we haven't done anything for it yet!
Me(29), DH (29) Married December 2011 TTC#1 Since November 2013 Dec. 2013... BFP! 12/31/13... Natural M/C 1/29/14 (8 weeks) July 2014...BFP!... 17dpo beta 581...19dpo beta 1419!!.. stick baby, stick! EDD: 3/20/15.. It's a boy!
@meowkitten im sorry for what you have went through, almost every women on my moms side of the family has had cancer or cancer cells. Its very scary. Im glade that you have been able to experience growing a lil one in side you. I pray you keep well and dont have to go through that again..::hugs::
I just ate 2 big pieces of chocolate fudge cake with melted chocolate icing for breakfast. Do i feel bad?, not really. ) lol...other then that, my bellys been cramping off and on for the past 3 days. Cant wait to go for my a/s Wednesday to make sure lil mama is ok. It seems like now that i have hit my 20 weeks time is flying by. Cant believe im already 22 weeks... :x
Skimming by, but I just posted in the deals thread that you can currently get The Lego Movie for 3.99 + shipping and handling (from Best Buy). Love that movie!
@meowkitten Thank you for sharing your story! That's so wonderful that you're having your miracle baby.
@Chunkymonkeylvr I plan on making my pies Wednesday. They take entirely too long to try to do on Thanksgiving.
As for me...I had a complete emotional meltdown Friday. H's transfer still didn't get put in at his meeting Fri, and the lady scheduled his next meeting mid-Feb. Since transfers can take up to 45 days to go thru, queue all irrational thoughts about H not being here until nearly a month after LO is born. Luckily late Fri night H got some good news about them starting the transfer paperwork this week! Hopefully he can get an appointment in Dec and get everything squared away before Feb is over.
On a positive note, LO has become so active recently. I love being able to feel all the movement and I can't imagine how it's going to feel as she gets bigger.
Congrats @meowkitten on your miracle baby! Glad you are having a smooth pregnancy!
AFM I have to go grocery shopping today and it's rainy and windy and just down right nasty, I can't find the motivation to leave the house. I also have a paper due for class tomorrow that I still haven't finished, ugh. But it's all good because today is V-Day for me as well!
Morning all! TB keeps logging me out - I'm on mobile today, so maybe that's it, but it's annoying.
@katydid - sorry about the housing situation. I really hope you get a good amount of space. Sounds stressful.
Congrats to all hitting v-day today! I've got one more week to go...
We had a really productive weekend - I am feeling ready for t-day. Dh and I got some good rest and had some good talks about dealing with his parents. I feel much better about hosting and less like running away from home.
@coleybug13, my DH plows snow, too. But he's also the cook . Luckily, our major snow is today, not Thursday.
Confession: I want a Costco pumpkin pie. Dh is making a pie which will be fantastic like everything else he makes, but I have a hankering for the Costco one.
Congrats to all the ladies who have reached v-day today!
We tried to go get family pictures taken yesterday and my son had a meltdown. It is unlikely he will act any different if we try to reschedule, so I have given up on a picture this year I think. I cried the whole way home (not just from the lack of pictures, but that was the tipping point). My husband was so sweet the rest of the day trying to make sure I was okay and make me feel better.
@katydid2014 Have you seen the Balfour Beaty website for base housing at Altus? It has quite a bit of information about the housing options and contact information if you have questions. I am really anxious about our move and housing situation this summer too. I hope you are able to get a decent sized house. We are currently trying to figure out what if anything we need to put into storage to avoid having a home or apt full of boxes that we can't unpack.
I don't want to say what it is but we decided on a name! I'm so excited! It's the name that I really wanted because it means a lot to me.
That's my random for today too! We are officially naming our baby girl Natasha! I know many people don't care for it but we like it and it was originally what my name was going to be before my grandpa had a fit cause it was "too Russian" lol I love it!! Congrats to u too @saltyfins I know it's a load off your shoulders
@meowkitten Hugs. Thank you so much for sharing that story. You are a strong woman and I'm so happy that you're getting your miracle baby.
AFM, I went to work sans jacket because it's going to be in the 70s today. This weather is so freaking weird. Yesterday we went to storage, sorted through DD's baby clothes, did a few loads of laundry, and now it's just time to organize it in the drawers. We'll still need summer outfits, as DD was a fall baby, but there are a ton of things this little girl will be able to use. Just seeing the clothes again made me a little emotional.
For those of you that do Black Friday shopping or Cyber Monday shopping, do you use a particular strategy? I can't keep up with all of the ads for various stores so all I have right now is a bunch of things I want to get that are on my Amazon wishlist. This way I can see if the price goes down but I'm not sure if there is a better way to do this?
Good luck to all who have appointments!
Where are you from? Sorry if you already said I didn't go through that long thread. I'm in Philly and enjoying the 70s too;) it's so nice my h and I are actually on a bus to the va today instead of driving.
Not that I feel my presence will be deeply missed but I wanted to say that I'm going to be away from a computer for the next week since I'll be going out of town for Thanksgiving week. There will be much visiting, driving, and eating over the next few days. We'll also be going to Babies R Us to do the scanner-shopping thing, selecting a glider (C's mom is generously buying one for us), and going to Ikea to pick out furniture. There will be much belly-rubbing to piss off my uncle on Thanksgiving day, and even more belly-rubbing to piss off my aunt the next day as punishment for holding a bridal shower against my cousin's fiancé's wishes and for interrupting Black Friday.
Seeing as I'm an introvert I spent this past weekend alone to recharge my batteries which was nice. I'm ready to socially engage now. I just hope the battery-charge lasts until Friday.
I got a prenatal massage on Saturday which was awesome but I will not be getting one again because I fucking fell asleep halfway through it. I can't even stay awake through a massage. There is no reason to pay money to sleep when I can easily nap at home. It is impossible to stay awake in those conditions, though. Soft lighting, gentle music, a warm, heated bed, pillows all around you... Usually I can resist the lulling feeling but not while pregnant. I can wait until I'm free of hormones before my next massage.
Not that I feel my presence will be deeply missed but I wanted to say that I'm going to be away from a computer for the next week since I'll be going out of town for Thanksgiving week. There will be much visiting, driving, and eating over the next few days. We'll also be going to Babies R Us to do the scanner-shopping thing, selecting a glider (C's mom is generously buying one for us), and going to Ikea to pick out furniture. There will be much belly-rubbing to piss off my uncle on Thanksgiving day, and even more belly-rubbing to piss off my aunt the next day as punishment for holding a bridal shower against my cousin's fiancé's wishes and for interrupting Black Friday.
Seeing as I'm an introvert I spent this past weekend alone to recharge my batteries which was nice. I'm ready to socially engage now. I just hope the battery-charge lasts until Friday.
I got a prenatal massage on Saturday which was awesome but I will not be getting one again because I fucking fell asleep halfway through it. I can't even stay awake through a massage. There is no reason to pay money to sleep when I can easily nap at home. It is impossible to stay awake in those conditions, though. Soft lighting, gentle music, a warm, heated bed, pillows all around you... Usually I can resist the lulling feeling but not while pregnant. I can wait until I'm free of hormones before my next massage.
SD's Thanksgiving shirt came in over the weekend and I am so excited to put an outfit together for her and make the bow to match!
I am working all week - M-W at my full-time job, then 4pm-4am Thanksgiving/Black Friday at my part-time job (so I get to beat all the major rush on Friday). Then our Thanksgiving is on Saturday!
My 1-hr GTT is tomorrow and I'm trying to figure out what I'm going to eat tomorrow before it so I'm not already full of sugar.. usually I have a pop-tart and some apple juice for breakfast. Any suggestions?
I am envious of those who get the whole week off- I get Thurs and Fri, but it's better than nothing so I'll take it!
Today is my last day of bed-rest/working from home! Yay to no more bed rest! Boo to having to actually get dressed to work :P
My random is that the owls I made with colored paper and canvas are starting to wrinkle due to humidity, so now I have to paint them. (Basically starting over with the whole craft project.)
It's a bit of a bummer to have wasted money on the first pass, but I think it will look better once I redo them.
Other than that, I had Thanksgiving with my side of the family yesterday and the food was better than it normally is (although that's not saying much- my poor grandma doesn't cook well). But I'm definitely looking forward to Thanksgiving day with H's family. The food is always fantastic.
Oh, and I'm also super envious of those of you who can still orgasm. Pelvic rest restriction for the rest of my pregnancy is driving me INSANE. I can't even read articles or watch TV shows that depict sex without me wanting to cry. :P
@meowkitten thank you for sharing your story. So inspiring. It makes your miracle baby that much more special with all you've been through
AFM-work today, house sitter comes over tomorrow morning then off to our cabin in the woods for a week! Husband and I are running away for Thanksgiving this year and we couldn't be more excited about that. The in-laws are bsc and my family parties too hard, so running away this year sounds like the best option.
Also noticed today that I now have varicose veins on my tits so there's that :-<
So a patient (little old lady) pissed me off today. She looked at me and said "you're too young! What are you doing pregnant?"
I said "I don't think almost 30 is too young" thinking she thought that I was younger because most people do. But no, she then said "almost 30 is still just a baby."
In my head I was telling her to fuck off and mind her own business but I just said "well I don't think it's too young but thanks for your input."
I don't usually get mad at the old people I work with but that put me in a shitty mood.
That would annoy me too, but considering her generation married and kids right out of high school, it makes me think she wasn't thinking clearly.
So a patient (little old lady) pissed me off today. She looked at me and said "you're too young! What are you doing pregnant?"
I said "I don't think almost 30 is too young" thinking she thought that I was younger because most people do. But no, she then said "almost 30 is still just a baby."
In my head I was telling her to fuck off and mind her own business but I just said "well I don't think it's too young but thanks for your input."
I don't usually get mad at the old people I work with but that put me in a shitty mood.
You can't win with old people, either you're a old maid to them if you aren't married by 21 or you're a baby when you do get married and have kids
I know how you feel! We plan to move home across the country soon after the baby is born. And my SO will be looking for another job while he takes his paternity leave. It's scary cuz there's so much unknown. I think starting packing/going through stuff early will help (while I still can).
Re: Random it up...Monday randoms!
Now I'm sitting here in my brother's living room staring at baby clothes, talking to RJ as she kicks around and bawling my eyes out that I'm actually going to have a baby in a few months.
I've never talked about this, but right after my husband and I got married (I was 22) I found out that I had cervical cancer. They caught it and treated it but there is obviously a high potential that it could come back. They recommended that I have a hysterectomy if they found more abnormal cells. Well, two years later they found more...I opted for a LEEP procedure, hoping to minimize the chances of it turning into cancer again. DH and I started talking about adoption because it seemed like I was bound for a hysterectomy within a year or so.
Fast forward to my three-month checkup this spring, and everything comes back clear for the third visit in a row. My cervix is holding strong, abnormal cells haven't advanced, nothing. My doctor gives us the all clear to start TTC if we want, warning us that I could have complications due to the procedure. We decide to take a chance and let fate do its thing.
I got pregnant five months later. I've made it 23 weeks now, my cervix looks better than they ever thought and they are expecting that I will make it full-term and have a natural delivery.
This is my miracle baby. Very few people know this story and most never understood why we waited years to have children and why we are planning on only have one.
Sorry for the novel so early on a Monday...I'm musing this morning and I just wanted to share. Even if I don't get to post as much as I'd like, M'15 has been such a wonderful place for me and you guys are a group of fantastic people
Afm. No sleep last night. I think I squirrel made it into the attic. But I feel ok. Maybe it's the short week and the free coffee since the Eagles won!
Happy Monday!
It's 330 am and my alarm just went off. I have to shower really quick and wake SO up to pack the car so we can get on the road in the next 30-45 minutes. I'm determined to beat LA traffic. 8 hour drive ahead of us but I am so excited to see my parents!! And I have 5 days off work which never happens so that's wonderful.
Happy Monday everyone!
Surprise! Baby #2 EDD 7/28/17
@meowkitten Congratulations on making it this far, and I only wish you the best in the future!
AFM: Today is V-Day!!!! So thrilled. No real randoms today. Have a great day everyone, and safe travelling.
For SuzyQ & all the March 15 Loss Moms
I feel really dumb asking this, but what is v-day?
Also, went to a friendsgiving last night and had so much fun hanging out with friends I haven't seen in so long. The majority of them have new babies less than a year old, and I was the only pregnant one. It was great to hear their birth stories and their advice. It all makes me nervous because I will be sitting where they are at this time next year with a baby and feeding and it gets a little overwhelming to think about. Sometimes I wonder if I can do this?
I'm so happy for you that everything is going well!
@Chuggles1013 / have a great trip!
AFM / I've been missing the random for a while, work's been keeping me busy and I always want to read the whole thread b4 replying and i never get through
I can't believe it's Thanksgiving week!
My random musing - for some reason last night I got it in my crazy head to make all from scratch a Coca Cola cake and frosting. After a lot of time and an ungodly amount of butter and sugar, I sampled the finished product and was just like meh. Didn't taste much better than a box or store bought cake really. And I sure didn't taste the coke. Don't think I'll ever do that again.
For SuzyQ & all the March 15 Loss Moms
IF veterans; #1 conceived on second clomid+HCG+IUI, #2 conceived on 1st Letrozole+HCG+IUI
EDD: Feb 5, 2018
Happy Monday everyone!
Gahh happy monday!!
Oh, and 24 weeks today!!!
I went to the dr today - uneventful - other than grief for my weight. I only gained a pound a week since the last visit - I just gained almost 20 the first trimester. But the babe has a strong heartbeat - so no complaints from me!
My random is that it's the first day of break and I'm so happy! I needed this break. I'm getting ready to go your a couple daycare facilities. Also a little AW for today. DH got to feel our son kicking last night! He had been waiting for awhile to feel him. I love that we've both felt him!
AFM, it's supposed to snow Thursday, after spending so much time convincing everyone we need to include grandma in thanksgiving now it's going to snow?! Plus SO plows in the winter so he'll miss it
On a side note I had to get up in the middle of the night to pee for the first time since early early pregnancy. Guess that means were getting closer to the 3rd tri!
IF veterans; #1 conceived on second clomid+HCG+IUI, #2 conceived on 1st Letrozole+HCG+IUI
EDD: Feb 5, 2018
Anyway, its now a waiting game to see how fast the USPS insurance company will get back to us to talk about repairs. Since its the holiday week and they are a government entity I'm going to assume NOT VERY.
Our insurance said that we could file our own claim but I don't know if that means we'll have to come out of pocket on anything. Ugh.
Also, all this talk of Thanksgiving food is making me hungry!!
@meowkitten thank you so much for sharing. I'm so happy for you guys and hope that things continue to go well for you!
Congratulations to everyone hitting v-day! I have a little under two weeks until mine
My random is that I may be getting a new car today. I have fought it and fought it because I LOVE my car now (Ford Edge SEL), but the transmission is going out and I have put almost 200k miles on the thing. It just isn't worth replacing the transmission according to my husband
Married December 2011 TTC#1 Since November 2013
Dec. 2013... BFP! 12/31/13... Natural M/C 1/29/14 (8 weeks)
July 2014...BFP!... 17dpo beta 581...19dpo beta 1419!!.. stick baby, stick!
EDD: 3/20/15.. It's a boy!
I just ate 2 big pieces of chocolate fudge cake with melted chocolate icing for breakfast. Do i feel bad?, not really.
Hope everyone is having a good day.
@Chunkymonkeylvr I plan on making my pies Wednesday. They take entirely too long to try to do on Thanksgiving.
As for me...I had a complete emotional meltdown Friday. H's transfer still didn't get put in at his meeting Fri, and the lady scheduled his next meeting mid-Feb. Since transfers can take up to 45 days to go thru, queue all irrational thoughts about H not being here until nearly a month after LO is born. Luckily late Fri night H got some good news about them starting the transfer paperwork this week! Hopefully he can get an appointment in Dec and get everything squared away before Feb is over.
On a positive note, LO has become so active recently. I love being able to feel all the movement and I can't imagine how it's going to feel as she gets bigger.
AFM I have to go grocery shopping today and it's rainy and windy and just down right nasty, I can't find the motivation to leave the house. I also have a paper due for class tomorrow that I still haven't finished, ugh. But it's all good because today is V-Day for me as well!
@katydid - sorry about the housing situation. I really hope you get a good amount of space. Sounds stressful.
Congrats to all hitting v-day today! I've got one more week to go...
We had a really productive weekend - I am feeling ready for t-day. Dh and I got some good rest and had some good talks about dealing with his parents. I feel much better about hosting and less like running away from home.
@coleybug13, my DH plows snow, too. But he's also the cook
As Richard Scarry says, "go, everyone , go!"
We tried to go get family pictures taken yesterday and my son had a meltdown. It is unlikely he will act any different if we try to reschedule, so I have given up on a picture this year I think. I cried the whole way home (not just from the lack of pictures, but that was the tipping point). My husband was so sweet the rest of the day trying to make sure I was okay and make me feel better.
@katydid2014 Have you seen the Balfour Beaty website for base housing at Altus? It has quite a bit of information about the housing options and contact information if you have questions. I am really anxious about our move and housing situation this summer too. I hope you are able to get a decent sized house. We are currently trying to figure out what if anything we need to put into storage to avoid having a home or apt full of boxes that we can't unpack.
https://www.altusfamilyhousing.com
Edit: fixed link
For suzyq0525
Not that I feel my presence will be deeply missed but I wanted to say that I'm going to be away from a computer for the next week since I'll be going out of town for Thanksgiving week. There will be much visiting, driving, and eating over the next few days. We'll also be going to Babies R Us to do the scanner-shopping thing, selecting a glider (C's mom is generously buying one for us), and going to Ikea to pick out furniture. There will be much belly-rubbing to piss off my uncle on Thanksgiving day, and even more belly-rubbing to piss off my aunt the next day as punishment for holding a bridal shower against my cousin's fiancé's wishes and for interrupting Black Friday.
Seeing as I'm an introvert I spent this past weekend alone to recharge my batteries which was nice. I'm ready to socially engage now. I just hope the battery-charge lasts until Friday.
I got a prenatal massage on Saturday which was awesome but I will not be getting one again because I fucking fell asleep halfway through it. I can't even stay awake through a massage. There is no reason to pay money to sleep when I can easily nap at home. It is impossible to stay awake in those conditions, though. Soft lighting, gentle music, a warm, heated bed, pillows all around you... Usually I can resist the lulling feeling but not while pregnant. I can wait until I'm free of hormones before my next massage.
Anyway, adios, ladies! Happy Thanksgiving!!
That's all I've got for right now!
AFM-work today, house sitter comes over tomorrow morning then off to our cabin in the woods for a week! Husband and I are running away for Thanksgiving this year and we couldn't be more excited about that. The in-laws are bsc and my family parties too hard, so running away this year sounds like the best option.
Also noticed today that I now have varicose veins on my tits so there's that :-<
I know how you feel! We plan to move home across the country soon after the baby is born. And my SO will be looking for another job while he takes his paternity leave. It's scary cuz there's so much unknown. I think starting packing/going through stuff early will help (while I still can).