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May 2015 Moms
***If you are a LURKER, GET IN HERE!***
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Re: ***If you are a LURKER, GET IN HERE!***
Nauseous, excited, tired, hungry
No favorite posts yet. I am not a stick in the mud!
I am 34 and my DH and I have been married for a year and a half. We live in Seattle with our black lab. We had been trying but the pregnancy still came as a surprise! We have had a couple ultrasounds and are just starting to tell people outside our family and close friends that we are having a baby. I will be 14 weeks on Monday. Look forward to reading more of your posts and adding some myself too!
1) Why do you lurk? Shy or just afraid to post?
I did an intro post when I first showed up here but I've definitely been more of a lurker than a regular poster. Usually I just feel like I don't have anything to add to the conversation, or threads are 3 pages long by the time I reach them and I figure I missed the party. I don't know. I'm shy and awkward IRL and you'd think hiding behind a screen would change that but... not always. I'm actually decently sarcastic and witty (not to mention very opinionated) but whenever I try to jump into a conversation with the cool kids I always say something lame.
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words.
First-timer, SO SLEEPY!
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"?
I tend to enjoy the UO and FFFC threads. Definitely not a stick in the mud, though I don't always act like an "adult" either, haha.
I lurk for many of the same reasons as pps. I mostly bump on my phone (so typing is a pain), I only go on once a day typically- often before work. I don't add anything unless I feel like I have something to say that hasn't already been said. Also I didn't do intro initially because I thought I might jinx things. Then I felt like it was too late.
Yay. Worried. Scared. Yay!
I have multiple favorite posters. As for fav threads, I like threads that remind me I'm not alone with my stupid problems- from symptoms to body image issues.
I'd say I'm an adult. When I have stick in the mud feelings about posts, I don't say anything- don't like creating drama and things can always get misconstrued on a forum.
A bit about me: 30y FTM. We decided this year we were ready to start trying. I am now 13 W 5 days, due May 4. I am a veterinarian (dogs, cats, small mammals and now reptiles!!) and I live just north of Boston. I have been married to DH for 2.5Y. We live with a hyperactive herding dog mix and two aging cats.
Oh and I have 5 siblings- all same parents- and 13 nieces and nephews.
Not shy or afraid just literally felt like crap and didn't want to deal with typing at all. My apologies! I lurked mostly to get answers and when I read stuff I only like to post when I feel I have something different or of value to post.
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words.
Finally planned a child! (We have 2 surprise daughters)
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"?
I love the bitchfest and GIF party posts. Oh and NOT a stick in the mud.
2pregnancy in 4 words?
Fear, anxiety,hope & surprise
3my favourite posts so far?
Lol nub theories are hillarious and highly entertaining:)
Sorry don't get the last question but hello everyone
1) Why do you lurk? Shy or just afraid to post?
Hi everyone. Mostly both- kind of shy and afraid to post. Want to get through first trimester safely before I start posting because it was hard to have to leave before. Have a check up tomorrow and then I'll be able to relax a bit more. 42 yrs old, 3rd baby, divorced mom to teen/preteen ( help!!) single parenting sucks but had an in your face biological clock moment which brought me here, lol. The dad is thrilled and I'm happy too. Thinking positive
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words.
What?!! Big, bigger, omg
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"?
I like to read them, they help me feel better. Read when I'm up from 3-5 every single night!!!!!
Nice to meet you ladies.
Hi everyone. Mostly both- kind of shy and afraid to post. Want to get through first trimester safely before I start posting. I am a sahm with a 2 year old. It has definitely made life more interesting being pregnant this time around chasing him around. Nap time is a must for both of us!
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words.
What?!! Nauseous, tired, hungry, emotional.
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"?This is my second pregnancy, so I can relate to almost every post on there, and I am an adult.
Nice to meet you ladies!
2. First pregnancy, it's twins!
1) Why do you lurk? Shy or just afraid to post?
Not really shy, not really afraid to post either. This ain't my first rodeo (I have a DS who is an April 13 baby). I'm on the west coast, so by the time I get on (I use the app usually), there are a ton of responses to questions and I don't have much to offer. I'm more of an observer IRL anyways, it takes a while for me to warm up enough to be the life of the party.
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words.
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"?
I always enjoy UO day and FFFC, though Monday bitchfest is starting to really catch on with me.
Our rescued fur babies, Harley and Maya
BFP 1/23/14, EDD 10/1/14, M/C 2/13/14 - Forever loved
2. Maybe I'll excercize tomorrow.
3. Love all the weekly threads. And I hope to get to play on the adult team.
1) Why do you lurk? I think a bit of both. kinda shy and a bit afraid. and busy with everyday life. plus my mobile app sucks
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words.
surprised, excited, miss food (especially meat )
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"? no favorites just like reading all the good advice. and I like to think I'm a adult since I am a bit older this time around.
me: I'm 36, hubby 36 (together 14yrs married 8yrs) and we got an almost 7yr old (who was born 11weeks early). didn't think we could have any more kids
I wrote an intro about a week ago, but it's buried somewhere so I thought I'd cover this base too...
1) Why do you lurk? Shy or just afraid to post?
I'll admit it, initially I was afraid to post, so I lurked around and tested the water first...my first pregnancy was the nastiest board I've ever seen, it was an exclusive clique that was more interested in ill will than being any sort of supportive community...I'm far from a sweetheart, but it was too much for me! I'm glad to see this board has a balance of a lil' bit o snark and a good amount of support.
2) second time, more anxiety
3) no favs yet...though Ramy the unicorn predictor makes me laugh.(see, not all sweetheart)
Shit...I fail the bonus question because I don't get it...but I'm going to venture to think I'm an adult.
2) normal, super fucking average
3) No favorites
Bonus: I guess it depends what you consider adult. But I am 26 yrs old and I wouldn't consider myself a stick in the mud.
1) Why do you lurk? Shy or just afraid to post?
I guess as a FTM I don't feel like I have much to contribute to the conversation. I've answered a few questions but the conversation tends to end right when I respond so I feel like I might be killing the conversation or am too late to get involved. I really appreciate reading what others write. Most of my questions get answered by others. I'm certainly not shy and have a healthy sense of humor.
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words.
Moved away from everyone.
It's been a challenge since we just moved across the country and haven't made new friends or told anyone at work. All of my family is mad that we left and they won't be around to help or be included. It's hard enough being the new kid, now how do you drop a bomb like this?
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"?
Not a stick in the mud or an adult - I just love to have fun and be nice to everyone. I'm super real and genuine, and am enjoying my mid 20s
More about me:
I'm a FTM at 16w due May 2nd with a baby girl we've named Emilia Michaelle. My hubby and I have been married for 3 ½ years and are about to celebrate 9 years together. Our doxie, Sherman, and cat, Karma, are the closest we've had to children. We just moved from Delaware (from Washington, DC originally) to Portland, OR and love it here. I work for Apple and am an artist. Really, no complaints here, just taking it as it comes.
1) Why do you lurk? Shy or just afraid to post? Usually lurk because it's all been said before and I like to take it all in..... I guess I'm what you'd call a wallflower.
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words. I can't stop peeing!!!
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"? No favorites. I enjoy taking it all in. Of course the occasional drama adds excitement. Oh, and the memes. Gimme all the memes. Definitely an adult, though sometimes my sense of humor is questionable.
A little more about me - 32, been married to DH for 3 years, this is our first pregnancy and we're incredibly excited, EDD May 13. We live in PA and have two adorable dachshunds. Hubby works for Chicco so he's been on a baby kick for quite sometime and is excited to finally outfit us with their baby gear. I'm thankful for his knowledge because my head would be spinning!
Bekke
Married 8.27.2011 ~ EDD 5.13.15
Doxie Mama
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words. -hungry, excited, exhausted, irritable.
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"? -No favorites so far. I don't exactly understand the second question but I like to think I'm an adult.
--I'm 26 been with my DH for 6 years. We're crazy dog people (have 3) and looking forward to adding to our little family. Currently 12 wks 4days pregnant due 5/23.
Thanks to OP for starting this thread and making it easy for me to introduce myself
Honestly, until today I wasn't confident AT ALL that this pregnancy was going to make it, so I guess I was afraid to jinx it! I haven't been posting or even reading too much.
I just turned 36, have been married 2 years to the guy who was my high school crush (we reconnected 10 years after graduation). Thought it would be hard/take time to get pregnant at my age but it happened on our first try! Then everything got scary, my progesterone was low and dropping, my doctor told me I had a better than 50% chance of miscarriage, I tested postitive as a carrier for a rare genetic disorder and had to have a CVS.
But, TODAY, I found out that the CVS results are great and the baby is healthy. I finally get to be excited and enjoy my pregnancy, and come out of hiding here too!
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words.
Only now feeling real!
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"?
I don't have a favorite yet, and I think I'd be considered an adult.
2. Pumped up. Finally! Nervous.
3. I've noticed the comments are so varied. I love the realist who seem to little harsh but I know tough love is better than coddling. At least how I was raised. But I also love the gushy, romantical commentary especially on crap days. I'm glad I'm in this May birth club because I feel I've learned a lot from you ladies already.
4. An adult?? Haha.
I'm 23 (will be 24 on the 26th!) living I'm Hampton Roads VA. This is my husband and I's first baby and very much planned. Up until recently I was just a furmomma and I can't wait to welcome our little Lentil into our family. Due may 20th
1) Why do you lurk? Shy or just afraid to post?
I'm on mobile 99% of the time, so FB is easier (my bump app has been glitchy). I'm looking forward to when this group eventually goes to FB!
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words.
Different from the first.
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"?
Sassypants and I have known each other since we met on TB when were pregnant together with our now 3 year olds! I'm an "adult". Can't spend my whole life online
There! Now I've been "properly" introduced lol
I haven't really felt compelled to contribute aside from a few comments here and there. There are so many women on here that I didn't feel the need to add any clutter. Mostly, I don't like making a fuss about myself and still haven't told many people about my pregnancy for the same reason.
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words.
Can't wait for motherhood
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"?
No favorites. Although I can't help but enjoy the snarky posts and gifs. And I guess I don't really like either of those options. I guess I'm technically an adult...
@thegabymama welcome and congratulations!! When are you due?? Despite what PP said, there are a bunch of awesome supportive ladies on here!
I posted quite a few times and I think I felt awkward introducing myself. Then I felt like I was in too deep and thought, "Well it's silly to introduce myself now!" Now that this thread has become relevant again, I'll go ahead and do some introducing!
Also I've been using mobile for the most part, but just had my computer fixed this week and will start to use it because everything is so much cooler with siggys! I'll figure it out at some point...
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words.
So exhausting at times!
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"?
I'm glad that @ramy3 is our mod
Hi, not shy or afraid to post. I've posted a few questions. I honestly just thought this was a forum and no one would remember who I was anyhow. Didn't know just "looking" was considered lurking and it would offend people. Sorry I don't post often enough. I'll try and be more active.
2) Sum up your pregnancy in four words.
Excited to be giving my little boy a baby brother or sister.
3) Any favorite posts or bumpies? And bonus—are you a "stick in the mud" or an "adult"?
I don't understand this question. Are you trying to be sarcastic or funny?
Definitely read the "welcome to May 15" post at the top of the board to know where to post certain things (helps to keep the board from being monopolized by the same repeat threads) and just contribute whenever you can
My pregnancy is going pretty well so far-starting to feel better now that I'm in the 2nd tri. It seems to be a little harder this time around with a toddler to chase after. I'm due May 20-thanks for asking! How is your pregnancy going? I know it can be overwhelming in the beginning!
Welcome @Beckyag77 and @srdasce !
4 words to describe this: beyond excited but exhausted!!
I'm an adult, definitely not a stick in the mud!
Hope to keep in better touch with all you ladies!!!
Have a nice day :-h