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fitmama418fitmama418 member
edited November 2014 in November 2013 Moms
I have so much work to be doing...but instead I'm planning our outdoor Christmas decor since we actually have to purchase some. We've only ever lived in apartments at Christmas time and last Christmas, decorating the outside of our house with a newborn was super low on our priority list.

Also, the night the contractor came to measure our space for our new mantle/built-ins? I may or may not have played out a "carpenter and apprentice" fantasy in my head while DTD with DH that night...
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  • TJHineTJHine member
    This one is kind of heavy for a Friday, but it's on my mind a lot so here goes -

    Most days, I think it would have been better for everyone if I had been the one to get in an accident and not MH.

    And on a lighter note, before Tuesday I had not been to the dentist in at least 8 years ::hangs head in shame::
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  • Kfran84Kfran84 member
    TJHine said:
     And on a lighter note, before Tuesday I had not been to the dentist in at least 8 years ::hangs head in shame::
    Ah! Now that is a confession!! I would need dentures if I skipped the dentist for almost a decade! Did you have cavities? I don't remember seeing what prompted you to go in. 


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    Yez9 said:

    @TJHine‌ YGPM and hugs. :)

    Back atcha!
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  • hollowwayhollowway member
    @TJHine‌ I know I'm mostly a lurker now, but I think of you often. Youre an amazing and strong woman, and a fantastic momma. That little boy is lucky to you have you. I hope things get easier for you someday.

    My FFFC: if DH falls asleep on the couch, I dont wake him to come to bed. I sleep so much better alone because of his snoring.

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  • Kfran84Kfran84 member
    TJHine said:
    My therapist had toys and stuff in her office and encouraged me to bring my little guy ever I needed to. Finding the right fit with a therapist isn't easy, and having a bad experience can definitely scare you away for a while. Been there done that. But, I honestly feel like this is one of those situations that you need to be able to talk to somebody, who is a professional, and sort through some of these feelings. We don't know you in real life. So it's hard to judge or even make an opinion of how you are dealing with things. And to be frank, it's really not our place to do that anyway. But for the sake of your mental health and your son can you think about talking to someone? Just think about it? Or maybe a support group?
    I have been looking, albeit not very hard. I also have tried support groups, but it is super hard to find ones with people in a similar situation - I'm totally in the camp that grief is grief, but sometimes you need someone that has walked in your shoes a little more, ya know? I've become close with some women in the area that have lost children in the very worst way, and they have been a tremendous support. And it's been helpful. I think I'm just going through a tough season of grief right now. I've been told year 2 is harder than year one and I think they are right.


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    @Kfran84‌ Back at you!
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  • mamasoup030mamasoup030 member
    trtlcrzy said:

    CeeShellz said:

    My FFFC:


    *Trigger Warning* ANYWHERE CHAIR MENTIONED

    After @trtlcrzy brought the uglywhere knockoff chairs to our attention, I told myself I'd buy one of those for L so that I could splurge on the PB Kids plush rocker, as well. I didn't. I couldn't bring myself to buy a knockoff so I just went ahead and bought the real thing (after she posted the $20 PSA). But really with the shipping that thing was still butt ass expensive. Wtf is a shipping surcharge, anyway?!

    I may or may not be harboring resentment towards @trtlcrzy for messing with my head and my wallet ;)
    I'm sorry. No more shopping tips for you!
    Just be afraid that she starts to send you shopping tips on other social media, then you are doomed, like my wallet. Said with love.
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