December 2014 Moms

At the hospital for induction and already starting to panic. **UPDATE #3, SHE'S HERE!***

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edited November 2014 in December 2014 Moms
I came to the hospital at 5pm for my scheduled induction (38 weeks, mainly due to hypertension). I was given cervidil at 7pm to start ripening my cervix and was told to get some good rest because tomorrow will be a long day. Well needless to say it's after 3am and DH is snoring away while I'm wide awake because these contractions are kicking my ass!
I feel that I usually have a pretty high pain tolerance, so I'm feeling kind of disappointed in myself that I'm having such a hard time dealing with labor pains already. I planned on trying to go without an epidural, but it's only the beginning and I've already been given morphin to help. I'm starting to panic about tomorrow when they start me on pitocin and really get things going... How am I going to do this?!
On a good note, Baby Z has been doing amazing. Everyone keeps telling me that we have a very happy baby! I'm praying that we get to meet her tomorrow. I'm also excited because I'll finally be able to get this darn drain out of my side! If you don't remember, I had to have my gallbladder removed at 25 weeks. I had to keep the biliary drain in until delivery because they need to do an xray first and didn't want to expose LO to more radiation. Needless to say, this has been a pretty eventful first pregnancy and I'm so glad we're almost to the finish line!

*UPDATE*
Thanks everyone for the T&Ps and . supportive words! We're 24 hours in and I'm finally dilated 2cm. Thank goodness, I was starting to lose hope! They're about to move me back to L&D (I've been in OB special care) where they will most likely get me started on pitocin and start talking about when to break my water. Maybe this baby will still come today!

*UPDATE #2*
I ended up getting the epidural and I've been loving life ever since :-p It's been nice to finally get some sleep. Thankfully when I sat up to get the epidural, my water decided to break on its own! They checked me an hour ago and I was dilated to 4, just checked again and now I'm at 8. Woohoo! It's almost baby time!

*UPDATE #3*
Baby Zuli is here! She arrived at 5:32am after only 25 minutes of pushing and 1 very small tear. I'm so unbelievably thankful for the smooth, problem-free delivery. We did skin to skin immediately and she latched onto my breast right away :) She's being difficult about it now but she's just as pooped as I am! Thank you all again, I can't wait for everyone else to have their babies!
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Re: At the hospital for induction and already starting to panic. **UPDATE #3, SHE'S HERE!***

  • Good luck !! You will do fine. There is nothing wrong with needing pain Meds during labour. Labour is flippin painful! I don't think anyone can prepare you unless you have experienced it first hand. Hope you and baby stay happy and healthy !
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  • I know this seems obvious, but remember to breath. You can do this. Labour is unlike any pain I had ever experienced. Don't feel bad about taking meds for the pain. You wouldn't feel bad if you were taking meds for a broken bone or even for a nasty cold, so your certainly should not feel bad taking meds for this kind of new and extreme pain. Wake up DH if you need to. You need support right now and that is what he's there for. Good luck and know that that little baby will be worth all of this!
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    I know this seems obvious, but remember to breath. You can do this. Labour is unlike any pain I had ever experienced. Don't feel bad about taking meds for the pain. You wouldn't feel bad if you were taking meds for a broken bone or even for a nasty cold, so your certainly should not feel bad taking meds for this kind of new and extreme pain. Wake up DH if you need to. You need support right now and that is what he's there for. Good luck and know that that little baby will be worth all of this!

    It does seem obvious, but DH does have to remind me too keep breathing! He's been doing great, I keep waking him to help me but he's one of those lucky ones who can fall back asleep instantly.

    Thank you ladies, I'm starting to not feel so down on myself. I can do this!
  • You can do this! Just hang in there and get the pain meds if you need them.
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  • Good luck! What eveeryone else said there isnothing wrong with getting pain meds!
  • You're almost done! Keep your eye on that little prize coming. You can do it!
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  • T&Ps! Excited for you to meet your little one soon!
  • Good luck today! It will be over really, really soon. Just remember that this is the last stretch and then you don't have to be pregnant anymore!!
  • Good luck to you!!!!! :)
  • Good luck! I hope it's a quick labor and you have a happy healthy LO in your arms very soon!
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  • Sending T&Ps that you have a safe delivery and speedy recovery! The pain sucks, but if you keep your eye on the prize, it makes it tolerable. Good luck!

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  • Good luck today--the anxiety is as natural as the pain, it's an intense time! Lean on that husband of yours and know that we're all thinking of you. Sending good vibes your way!
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  • Don't panic; you got this Momma!!! If it makes you feel better, everyone on this board is going to go into labor within the next month and half; Im due two weeks after you. So we're here for you and you're not alone. You can do this!!! I can't wait to see the pics of your little girl soon!
  • It's perfectly normal to be anxious! I was a ball of nerves when I was induced.  Just try to focus on getting through each contraction as it comes.  What helped me was watching them on the screen so I knew when they were coming and when they were peaking.  

    And really, don't feel bad about getting pain meds. That's what they're there for! Just do what you have to do to get through this and see that sweet baby!
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  • Good luck. You'll do great!!! No shame in pain meds.
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  • Best of luck today, soon you'll have your prize
  • Good luck!
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  • Stay strong mama!  YOU CAN DO THIS!!!
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  • Good Luck!

    Don't feel bad about wanting pain meds! Labor hurts darnnit! You could try walking about and such (if you haven't had an epidural) that can help.

    When I went in for induction with my DS the cervidil started things going for me too. I didn't actually end up needing the pitocin.... so you may not need it.

    T&P to you today!!
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  • You ladies are all amazing, your words really help! I just talked the resident about the epidural and some ways to help with the contraction pains. Have any of you used the labor ball? Did it help?
  • You can do this! All of the positive vibes coming your way! Please keep us updated!
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  • Good luck!!!
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  • You are doing amazing!! Don't feel disappointed at all! Hoping everything goes great for you.


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  • Good luck!
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  • Good luck! Try to relax as much as possible. Pay attention to the muscles you have tightened up and try to intentionally release the tension. It is natural to respond to pain by tensing up, but that will make things feel more intense.

    Deep breathing and making deep low sounds (I was seriously mooing like a cow), seemed to help me a lot.

    FX that things move quickly today!
  • Good luck today!!! You've got this lady!
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  • GL mama!  I hope you woke your H up to give you some support!
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  • Good luck!  Sending you thoughts and prayers.  It sounds like you've been very strong through a rough pregnancy and you're almost at the finish line. :)

    Re: labor ball, I'm a FTM but my doula is an experienced L&D nurse and she thinks it really helps, really anything you can do to be up and moving around.


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  • Good Luck!!!

    Trying to go pain free is good, but keep in mind you've been induced and have been given all sorts of medications to accelerate things, what you're experience might not be "normal" pain and there is no harm or shame in getting some assistance!

    Birth ball- only one data point, but one of my friends said it was the only thing that helped her. Try all sorts of positions until you are (relatively) comfy!
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  • Good luck to you...you can do it!!

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  • No experience with the labor ball but was induced with epidural with DS and I remember being scared about the epidural more than the labor/birth itself and it was not at all painful. Do what's best for you and good luck! Keeping you in my thoughts today!
  • Good luck today!! You'll be in my prayers!
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  • The pain is temporary, just remember that! Keep focused and keep the goal in the front of your mind: getting that baby, tube out, no more preggo!

    Don't stress about needing to take meds for the pain, it's what it's there for. I'm a big baby and I know for a fact I want as little pain as possible so I can focus more on the birth and not be panicking (cause I will panic!).

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  • Good luck!  Sending tons of T&Ps!
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  • Good luck. Sending good vibes for a healthy delivery.


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