Ok, I'm ready to order my bed. Both benches I like are "charcoal" and are made by a different company than the beds, so fabrics are not likely to match.
This one is $285

This one is $185 and is 10" longer than the one above (62") which would probably be better for a king bed, which is 76" wide

So......... do I just take a shot and get the "charcoal" colored bed, knowing the colors will be off a bit? I don't think it's that big of a deal because the bed doesn't have a footboard, so it's not like it will be right up against it.
Or do I get the lighter color bed and have the darker bench? I'm afraid that it will be too much color contrast because my walls are tan and my built in is a warmer wood, and windows have a white trim.
Oh yah, my bedding is white. TIA for the help!

Re: Final bed question
So this is what I'm thinking, but I have an antique table and night stand in there and it totally doesn't go. Ahhhhh. I suck at decisions
"pewter" or "grey" - could maybe go with the lighter colored bed? Sigh...
https://www.overstock.com/#/9117876/product.html
Ooh
https://www.overstock.com/#/6971995/product.html
DH would never go for the purple, but I love it.
@-)
I like this sconce if I do the dark grey bed.
There's also a silver sconce from urban outfitters that's $50/ea and those would go well. I just really don't think any of this is going to look good with the built in I have. I'll try to take a pic tomorrow. We are only going to live here another couple years so I don't really care.
https://www.wayfair.com/Fashion-Bed-Group-Versailles-Upholstered-Headboard-Brown-Sugar-B7211-FB2578.html
I highly recommend using Annie Sloan paint to redo your current pieces. I used it for a vanity and my kitchen and have 3 pieces getting done next.
Only 52" but I love this one
https://www.overstock.com/Home-Garden/Safavieh-Mansfield-Grey-Pinstripe-Pillowtop-Ottoman/6372938/product.html?refccid=IJMXKPEM2FEZFZSHHA6LST7AAY&searchidx=205
Forgive my mess.
I ordered samples from the manufacturer. The light grey is gorgeous and actually more of a silver, but it is very light and can't really hold its own against tan. I am ordering the charcoal, which I was afraid was too black. It is, in fact, charcoal. It's reallly pretty!
So now I wonder if I should order now with my 10% off coupon that expires 11/26, or wait until black Friday. Thoughts?