July 2013 Moms

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  • Super cute coat @econmama‌! Love it!
  • Uggg last night was hell. Keenan went down at normal time, but was kinda squirmy so it took DH a while. He was up at midnight (DH got up with him) and back down by 12:45. I was awake most of that, just because I've been having trouble getting back to sleep when I'm woken up in the middle of the night. Kennan is up again at 1:30, and I get up with him. After cuddling and 3 attempts to get him back in his crib, I wake DH at about 2:30 because I'm about to pee my pants. Well that all just woke K up. We rock in his room from 2:30-3, but no luck. So we go downstairs and have a bottle. Again just wide awake. So I turned on Sesame Street and dozed on the couch with him. We watch SS until about 4:15 (I might've drifted a bit, but not much). I go get DH to trade me and when he realizes K is wide awake says "godfuckingdammit Keenan!" and grabs him. I swear it looked like he was going to shake or throw him on the bed. He's never done that before and wouldn't ever, but I wasn't quite rational. I burst into tears, and when I cry, I ugly cry with giant sobs. So DH is asking what's wrong, I'm bawling, and Keenan is wondering WTF is going on.

    Anyway I then slept in til almost 7. Keenan was somehow still awake. He crashed on the way to my mom's and was sleeping when I left. I'm hoping tonight is better.
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  • @Altima80 I heart the group, too  :x

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  • @ilovemyducks21 That sounds like a miserable night. I'm so sorry. It's hard to see a reaction from your spouse that you think is inappropriate. I get really frustrated about that. 


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  • Good luck @Altima80‌! We're all rooting for you :)
  • @Altima80 indoor, it was 10 degrees last night! But we usually play sand April-october.
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  • I didn't read his last book. Now I might not ever. 


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  • econmama said:
    I love how folks still hold on to a 225 year old theory that has been refuted again and again survives. 8-}
    Isn't this often called "faith" ? 
  • PickleX said:
    econmama said:
    I love how folks still hold on to a 225 year old theory that has been refuted again and again survives. 8-}
    Isn't this often called "faith" ? 
    Isn't that kind of disrespectful to say?


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  • PickleX said:
    econmama said:
    I love how folks still hold on to a 225 year old theory that has been refuted again and again survives. 8-}
    Isn't this often called "faith" ? 
    Isn't that kind of disrespectful to say?
    I didn't mean it to be?
  • Queen, I totally know what character you're talking about!!! I'm so excited for this. I think it's the captain's mother. She's the only other witch they've introduced. 

    That all said, I'm sorry the temp place is a pain. How long do you think you'll be there? 


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  • I need some dog help: 

    My 7yo golden retriever (the gentlest, sweetest dog in the world!) doesn't particularly care for Lucas. I have tried very hard to keep L from pestering him, but sometimes he pets too hard or tries to show the dog where the dog's eyes and teeth are (which means poking his eyes and sticking his hands in his mouth), and he loves to play with the dog bowls and he thinks it's hilarious to chase the dog with his trucks and ram him with his walk-behind toy, and as hard as I try, sometimes those things happen. Mostly the dog just tries to avoid him, but our house is not large, and the dog has spent enough time alone between NICU and hospital visits, I couldn't bear to keep him separated from us. Sometimes he gives warning growls, and I try to praise that and help L understand what that means. 

    This morning the dog was laying on the floor, L crawled over and petted him a little hard, and the dog reared up and snapped at him. I really, really don't think he would intentionally harm him - I think this was a warning, too - but either a tooth or a claw caught L's cheek and left a little welt that I think is going to bruise. 

    Any advice? I don't want to let either of them get into a worse situation. :(
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    This kid may not have a lot of bowel, but he has plenty of guts! 
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  • Thanks guys. It's frustrating for sure, and I think that's what set the tears off. The swearing has been going on for several months (since he started helping with MOTN wakeups) and has actually gotten a lot better. And it's never been with a raised voice, it's just one of those "wtf, why am I being woken up?" kind of things. It's hard because DH is frustrated with the situation and then I get frustrated with him for his frustration. I know he's not swearing at me or at Keenan, just the situation but it's still hard. What happens when K can understand him? I know he's working on it, but it's still hard. I swear this pregnancy is setting the waterworks off lately.

    @Altima80 - The picking up thing I wasn't clear on. I handed LO to DH, thinking he realized he needed to get up with him. He thought he just needed cuddled in our bed. All he really did was lift him up, but with how tired I was and with the swearing and being dark in our room, it kinda looked like he was going to toss him on our bed. I do plan on talking to him to see if I misinterpreted, because that's very possible.

    Thanks for the commiseration guys, just a really sucky night. I know we've all had them!
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  • I would tell her that she either eats it or not but that's the meal. But I'm that way with my children too. Mean mommy over here. Oh and I would be even less inclined to accomodate someone who acts that selfish and entitled. 


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  • Oh gutsy that's so hard. I don't really know what to say but I thought of your parents. Don't they live on a farm or something? Could they care for the dog for a few years? Just until Luke is a bit bigger? I hate the idea of rehoming but sometimes I feel like it's the best thing for the dog. And kid. 


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  • Oh gutsy that's so hard. I don't really know what to say but I thought of your parents. Don't they live on a farm or something? Could they care for the dog for a few years? Just until Luke is a bit bigger? I hate the idea of rehoming but sometimes I feel like it's the best thing for the dog. And kid. 
    Yeah, both of our parents live out in the country with a lot of land. That's got to be last resort though. B is our baby too :( 
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    This kid may not have a lot of bowel, but he has plenty of guts! 
    DS born at 34 weeks with (surprise!) gastroschisis turned short bowel syndrome.
    131 days in the NICU, 7 trips to the OR, G-button, daily TPN....
    We are impatiently awaiting the day we can say goodbye to his girlfriend Ivy for good.
  • @LadyBlue07 How does your dog get into the bed if there's a baby gate? Jump? Either way - our house is 90 years old and cramped. There's not much room for his own space :( He has a bed in the corner of the dining room but there's not really a way to block it off - we already barely have a path to walk through in that corner.
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    This kid may not have a lot of bowel, but he has plenty of guts! 
    DS born at 34 weeks with (surprise!) gastroschisis turned short bowel syndrome.
    131 days in the NICU, 7 trips to the OR, G-button, daily TPN....
    We are impatiently awaiting the day we can say goodbye to his girlfriend Ivy for good.
  • gutsymamagutsymama member
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    @gutsymama‌ they're small so they walk under the end table. Can you put a crate in his corner and teach Luke to stay out?
    Maybe, but doubtful. His crate is large, and we don't really have room for it - and right now it's in our closet, and every time L gets a chance he climbs inside because apparently it's super fun to sit there and swing the door open and shut :( 

    Maybe I just need to be more firm about these things? 

    ETA: I mean, I don't let him, but he hasn't stopped trying either. 
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    This kid may not have a lot of bowel, but he has plenty of guts! 
    DS born at 34 weeks with (surprise!) gastroschisis turned short bowel syndrome.
    131 days in the NICU, 7 trips to the OR, G-button, daily TPN....
    We are impatiently awaiting the day we can say goodbye to his girlfriend Ivy for good.
  • Ugh I wish the doctor would replace his damn fax machine (yes we still fax) It never even works. The other day I tried to fax something like 10 times...I'll don't think it ever went...and lo and behold this fax I'm trying to send isn't working either.
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    excellent choices.
  • UPS just delivered a package, but P is napping and I don't want to open the door and wake him up.  FWP!
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