~ October Angel Mamas' Check-In 11/11/14 ~

meredithcarole · November 2014

Welcome to the October Check-In. This check-in is for anyone who has had a loss with an EDD in October.

Members, give us an update on how you are doing. If I didn’t tag you with specific questions, it’s only because we didn’t hear from you last week (or for a few weeks) - please jump back in. Please pop in and let us know how you’re doing even if you don’t have time to respond to everyone individually this week! New members, introduce yourself so that we can get to know you.

If you get a BFP, please PM me so everyone can congratulate you!

Welcome to the Veteran's / Remembrance Day Edition of the October Check In

Quote of the Week:

"Honor to the soldier and sailor everywhere,

who bravely bears his country's cause.

Honor, also, to the citizen who cares for his brother in the field

and serves, as best he can, the same cause."

~Abraham Lincoln

Question of the Week:

Are there any veterans in your life for whom you are thankful?

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Updates:

@Stephy1221- I hope AF is long gone at this point. How are you doing this week? Did you and YH ever manage to go on a date?

@Momentomori- How's the 2WW so far? Keep in mind, 9 dpo is still a little early....

@daystardreams - How are you doing? How's your mom?

@mkfish31 - I am sorry AF showed. How are you doing?

@vesperlynch - Anything new and exciting with you this week?

@whitneyandconcep - I think yesterday's dip is a good sign (I usually get one within a couple days of O), though I see you haven't gotten a +OPK. I wonder if you missed your surge?

Anyone else who missed the last check-in, jump back in with an update!!!

meredithcarole · November 2014

Hi everyone. Well, I am officially on the bench (for like the next 5 months - sigh). I have an appointment tomorrow for CD3 blood work, but I decided not to do the fasting blood work because I cannot handle 8 vials while fasting (they were not able to get 5 or 6 last week when I almost fainted). Friday I have my MRI and I am awfully nervous - I don't know why. I'm sure it's not a big deal, but it feels like one. Anyway, it is what it is and there is no getting around it if I want a shot at this.

QOTW: My paternal grandfather was in the Air Force in WWII. He met my grandmother, who was English, and she became a war bride. My paternal aunt was born in London, but my dad was born in Nebraska. I cannot imagine how big of a culture shock that was for my poor grandmother!

renegadewhit · November 2014

@meredithcarole‌ sorry you're on the bench

have you decided on when you're going to have the surgery? I've had an MRI, and it was not nearly as bad as I expected. It really helped me to just close my eyes, focus on deep breathing, and try to drift off. It was loud, so I didn't fall asleep, but I did daydream. Good luck on your blood work!

I have no idea what's going on this cycle. I did opk yesterday and it was negative, and so ewcm yet, so I don't think I missed my surge (hopefully). I hadn't added my opk to my chart, so I just did.

DH and I had a talk about how ovulation works and temping and opks, so he knows this week I want to bd as much as possible, but I'm leaving it up to him to initiate so there's no pressure. He just started a new job where he's working 60+ hours per week, and he's finishing a remodel of my aunt's farm house on his days off. I know he's exhausted, and this cycle may not be the one for us. I know we're doing all we can, so I'm pretty ok with it.

QOTW - I dont have any vets in my family, but I do have a few friends who served. My best friend from high school was a linguist who learned Russian and was deployed to Europe and the Middle East. She's really an amazing person!

mkfish31 · November 2014

Hey ladies!

@meredithcarole - T&Ps for you on Friday. I hope those 5 months fly by for you- I know this is so hard to deal with. Hugs!

@whitneyandconcep -Sorry your cycle has been unpredictable for you. I think I need to take some pointers from your approach to sex this month. I don't think my husband can take anymore heavy pressure from me during our FW. I just need to maybe let him initiate it.

I'm doing as expected on CD2. It hurt worse on Friday and Sat when I kept getting negative HPTs. At least AF came when FF predicted. On a good note, I know my LP was 12 days long this month. So that is one positive thing! I have my RE appt next Tues where I am having a SIS US. I think some folks have talked about it being uncomfortable, but not terrible. Hopefully all will go well.

QOTW: Thankful for DH who served in the Army for 7 years as a Blackhawk pilot. He did 2 tours in Iraq. He is out of the military now but I am still so proud of him. He is my rock.

stephy1221 · November 2014

Thanks for the check in @meredithcarole- I hope AF is long gone at this point. How are you doing this week? Did you and YH ever manage to go on a date? Yup AF is gone and I am in my FW so FX for good timing. Nope, hopefully next weekend we will get that date in.

So sorry you are benched but glad you are getting answers. I love the picture of your grandparents.

QOTW: H served in the Navy and my Grandfather, FIL & one BIL all also served. H got a free starbucks today and he was pretty happy about it.

meredithcarole · November 2014

momentomori said:

@meredithcarole Thanks for the check-in!
((hugs)) for being on the bench. Good luck with the bloodwork and the MRI!!!

TWW is going OK. I keep going back and forth between optimism and pessimism. I wish I could go back to the naivety of NTNP before our first loss. I feel like I have been obsessed with this for a year now, and it is starting to take its toll.

I only really tested today because I have a dental procedure and want to be armed with the best information. And if they put me on anything, I will be testing every day until AF.

I am definitely thankful for our veterans, and there are many in my life. Specifically though all 5 of my great uncles who fought in WWII and RETURNED for WWII. That amazes me. One of them lied about his age, and went at 16.

I have everything crossed that this cycle works out for you! I absolutely get where you're coming from on it taking a toll. To a degree I think the bench might be good for me for that reason - forced rest from TTC.

I can't believe one of them went to war at 16!

meredithcarole · November 2014

whitneyandconcep said:

@meredithcarole‌ sorry you're on the bench have you decided on when you're going to have the surgery? I've had an MRI, and it was not nearly as bad as I expected. It really helped me to just close my eyes, focus on deep breathing, and try to drift off. It was loud, so I didn't fall asleep, but I did daydream. Good luck on your blood work! I have no idea what's going on this cycle. I did opk yesterday and it was negative, and so ewcm yet, so I don't think I missed my surge (hopefully). I hadn't added my opk to my chart, so I just did. DH and I had a talk about how ovulation works and temping and opks, so he knows this week I want to bd as much as possible, but I'm leaving it up to him to initiate so there's no pressure. He just started a new job where he's working 60+ hours per week, and he's finishing a remodel of my aunt's farm house on his days off. I know he's exhausted, and this cycle may not be the one for us. I know we're doing all we can, so I'm pretty ok with it. QOTW - I dont have any vets in my family, but I do have a few friends who served. My best friend from high school was a linguist who learned Russian and was deployed to Europe and the Middle East. She's really an amazing person!

Wow! 60 hours a week is exhausting. Poor H! I am sorry your body is not really cooperating. I hope you O soon!

In answer to your question, I just scheduled the surgery for Dec. 17th...

meredithcarole · November 2014

mkfish31 said:

Hey ladies!

@meredithcarole - T&Ps for you on Friday. I hope those 5 months fly by for you- I know this is so hard to deal with. Hugs!

@whitneyandconcep -Sorry your cycle has been unpredictable for you. I think I need to take some pointers from your approach to sex this month. I don't think my husband can take anymore heavy pressure from me during our FW. I just need to maybe let him initiate it.

I'm doing as expected on CD2. It hurt worse on Friday and Sat when I kept getting negative HPTs. At least AF came when FF predicted. On a good note, I know my LP was 12 days long this month. So that is one positive thing! I have my RE appt next Tues where I am having a SIS US. I think some folks have talked about it being uncomfortable, but not terrible. Hopefully all will go well.

QOTW: Thankful for DH who served in the Army for 7 years as a Blackhawk pilot. He did 2 tours in Iraq. He is out of the military now but I am still so proud of him. He is my rock.

Sometimes I think the BFN is actually worse than AF. I didn't even bother testing this month. I am glad your LP was where you would like to see it at least. And we are cycle buddies currently

meredithcarole · November 2014

VesperLynch said:

Hi, @meredithcarole, and thank you for the check-in! I think I missed last week's...I hope you can calm your nerves about the MRI. I've never had one, but just because it seems like a big production to have one scheduled and stuff, it would seem like a big deal to me too. It's just not an everyday thing. Once you're done with it, you'll probably feel awesome, like you got a big hindrance out of the way! Then some wine...

My biggest excitement this week is work (crossposted on AMA)--a proposal I wrote got okayed all through my chain of command, and I can now (hopefully) get it realized. It is so awesome when stuff happens as a result of what we do!

QOTW: DH is a veteran, and while it's not a big deal to him (he basically says he just did what he wanted to do), I'm thankful that the armed forced brought us together because that's how we met.

@whitneyandconcep - Your poor hubby--sounds like a straining schedule! I hope you still get to DTD.

@mkfish31 - I'm sorry about the negatives, love. ((Hugs)) GL at your RE appt!

@momentomori - I hear you on the naivete. I had to think about that today--we've stopped trying, and I'm okay with that, and it occurred to me today that being KU would pretty much bring so much fear--dread really. But I hope your optimism wins out, even if this isn't your cycle.

Have a great week, all.

I am most likely making much ado about nothing with the MRI - but there will be wine.

Yay for the proposal getting approved! It is great to see our hard work materialize into something! FX you get to see it brought totally to life.

meredithcarole · November 2014

stephy1221 said:

Thanks for the check in @meredithcarole- I hope AF is long gone at this point. How are you doing this week? Did you and YH ever manage to go on a date? Yup AF is gone and I am in my FW so FX for good timing. Nope, hopefully next weekend we will get that date in.

So sorry you are benched but glad you are getting answers. I love the picture of your grandparents.

QOTW: H served in the Navy and my Grandfather, FIL & one BIL all also served. H got a free starbucks today and he was pretty happy about it.

Lol, I love that free Starbucks made YH's day! Best of luck with your FW. I hope you do get that date night soon.

ETA: words are hard.

renegadewhit · November 2014

@mkfish31‌ good luck at your RE appointment!

@VesperLynch‌ congrats on your proposal! It's exciting when something you've worked hard on becomes a reality!

daystardreams · November 2014

@meredithcarole Thank you for the check in and I'm so sorry about the bench. ((hugs)) I love, love that picture of your grandparents, how sweet!

@momentomori FX for you!

@whitneyandconcep I'm glad you are relaxed about your approach to baby making. I know I lay the pressure a little thick sometimes during my FW but I just can't control myself!

@mkfish31 ((hugs)) and good luck at your appointment!

QOTW: My grandpa served during the Vietnam War. He eventually retired and opened up a flower farm!

I'm doing good. I finally got CHs! So I'm in the TWW now. I'm not feeling very optimistic this cycle however which might be a good thing when the cycle doesn't end well. My mom is doing ok, she's going for surgery to remove the cancer they can see on Monday and also do a biopsy to see if it has spread any. Maybe I'm using all my optimism for my mom this month! I hope everybody has a great week!

renegadewhit · November 2014

A gif story about this coming FW:

At first, I was all like

and

But then I was like:

I really want to tell him:

Then:

So I'm trying to tell myself:

In conclusion:

meredithcarole · November 2014

daystardreams said:

@meredithcarole Thank you for the check in and I'm so sorry about the bench. ((hugs)) I love, love that picture of your grandparents, how sweet!
@momentomori FX for you!
@whitneyandconcep I'm glad you are relaxed about your approach to baby making. I know I lay the pressure a little thick sometimes during my FW but I just can't control myself!
@mkfish31 ((hugs)) and good luck at your appointment!
QOTW: My grandpa served during the Vietnam War. He eventually retired and opened up a flower farm!
I'm doing good. I finally got CHs! So I'm in the TWW now. I'm not feeling very optimistic this cycle however which might be a good thing when the cycle doesn't end well. My mom is doing ok, she's going for surgery to remove the cancer they can see on Monday and also do a biopsy to see if it has spread any. Maybe I'm using all my optimism for my mom this month! I hope everybody has a great week!

I'm going to use all of my optimism for your mom, too! I hope everything comes back good.

mkfish31 · November 2014

@whitneyandconcep

LOVE the GIFs! I def turn into Veruca during my FW. So funny!

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