We eat dinner as a family, I put DS1 to bed while DH gives G a bath. I then get G, put him in pj's and feed him. After he's done with his bottle, I lay him down and he goes to sleep.
Nurse, bath, jammies, read, maybe a little more nursing and then walking around a little or just laying down with our eyes open and dozing off to sleep. Sometimes there is more walking around then I'd like, but we are still working on consistently soothing ourselves.
Cereal and veggies at dinner around 5-5:30 Nurse on one breast around 6 Say bye bye to toys and put them away Shut/dim lights Hubby gives L her bath around 6:30 He then massages her with lavender cream, brushes her hair, PJ's and kisses her goodnight and brings her to me. I nurse and then rock/sing a song and put her down in her crib and say goodnight
5 nurse 5:15 solids 5:45 bath & PJs 6:15 play downstairs 6:45 ish nurse 7ish bed 7 pm-6:45 am wake up 6 times in complete defiance of the benefit of a bedtime routine
Am I the only one that doesn't really have one still? We dim lights and bathe on occasion but we generally don't follow a specific routine every night.
5-5:30 "dinner" (solids) followed by small bottle 6-7 playtime 7 bath and jammies 7:15 bottle 7:30 bed
This is the only routine we follow daily, some days we're out and others we're home and it works for us. DH and I went out for dinner with LO last weekend and we totally ate at 4pm so we didn't mess with his routine! Must not fuck with bedtime!
Now I feel even worse for not having a consistent routine... how do you ladies deal when irregular schedules mean different people are putting your LO down for the night? Some nights I work late, so my SO has to put him to bed, or else both of us are working so grandma has him. He's very boob-dependent, so it's not always easy for other people to get him to calm down. Also, are all of these little ones putting themselves to sleep when you put them down? Or is there a lot of soothing involved?
Our routine currently:
Anywhere between 6:45-7:30 (depending on how his naps were during the day): bath
7:30: put in night diaper and sleep sack
7:45: put music on and nurse
8:00: down in crib, and about twenty minutes of patting later, asleep.
Now I feel even worse for not having a consistent routine... how do you ladies deal when irregular schedules mean different people are putting your LO down for the night? Some nights I work late, so my SO has to put him to bed, or else both of us are working so grandma has him. He's very boob-dependent, so it's not always easy for other people to get him to calm down. Also, are all of these little ones putting themselves to sleep when you put them down? Or is there a lot of soothing involved?
Our routine currently:
Anywhere between 6:45-7:30 (depending on how his naps were during the day): bath
7:30: put in night diaper and sleep sack
7:45: put music on and nurse
8:00: down in crib, and about twenty minutes of patting later, asleep.
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@kangstadt we follow the same routine regardless of who is putting C to sleep. If it's a sitter we skip the bath and just do lotion. I just make sure to right the routine down for the sitter. C needs to be soothed to sleep though we are trying to get away from this slowly- she falls asleep at the boob or bottle typically; if not she is rocked to sleep.
We don't have a routine. I have 2 older kids and we just go with the flow. If we are home bed by 7:30 if not we just do whatever. He sleeps from 7-5:30 Was 6:30 till the time change
6 bottle and meds (reflux meds) 6:15 book 6:20 bath 6:30 lotion and pj's 7 he kicks around until 6:45 or 7 6:30-7:30am he wakes for the day. He will wake 1-2 times per night for a bottle.
Re: Bedtime Routine
And since daylight savings we've been starting a little earlier because she is tired earlier.
Nurse on one breast around 6
Say bye bye to toys and put them away
Shut/dim lights
Hubby gives L her bath around 6:30
He then massages her with lavender cream, brushes her hair, PJ's and kisses her goodnight and brings her to me.
I nurse and then rock/sing a song and put her down in her crib and say goodnight
5:15 solids
5:45 bath & PJs
6:15 play downstairs
6:45 ish nurse
7ish bed
7 pm-6:45 am wake up 6 times in complete defiance of the benefit of a bedtime routine
6-7 playtime
7 bath and jammies
7:15 bottle
7:30 bed
This is the only routine we follow daily, some days we're out and others we're home and it works for us. DH and I went out for dinner with LO last weekend and we totally ate at 4pm so we didn't mess with his routine! Must not fuck with bedtime!
Edit- posted too soon
C needs to be soothed to sleep though we are trying to get away from this slowly- she falls asleep at the boob or bottle typically; if not she is rocked to sleep.
Our routine is really simple. Diaper change, bottle, bed. Easy peasy.
6:15 book
6:20 bath
6:30 lotion and pj's
7 he kicks around until 6:45 or 7
6:30-7:30am he wakes for the day. He will wake 1-2 times per night for a bottle.